聊天经典坑人套路 谈起聊天如何开局

 tanqiliaotian，henduorenbianhuixiaozheshuo：“youshenmehaonande，liaotiansheihaiburongyia？”danshizhendangtajindaoyiduanliaotianshi，tayoubuqingchushuoxieshenme，fenweishifennankan。liaotianjingdiankengrentaoluyoushenme？tongguoyiwang2018liaotianjingdiankengrentaolu，jiaonizuixindeliaotianjingdiankengrentaolujuzi，ganjinxueqilai。

 wangfanxijiuzheiyang，zaipenyouyanqiantazongfukuazishenyanjiangkoucaijuejia，kehebiedeyixingpengyoujiaowangshi，tachukaiwen“nichifanlema”、“zaiganshenme”neiyangdidengdenanti，jiubuqingchuruhekaijule。

 youpenyoudiaokanta，shuotaneiyanghenvrenliaotian，huogaidanshen。changchangtingjianneiyangdehua，taneixindouyoudianerbushiziwei，youyu27suideta，dequezaoyidanshenhaozhangshijianle。

shijishang，wangfanxiyiqianshitanlianailede，zhibuguoshizhihoufenshou，erfenshoudeyuanyinbianshilingyifangganjuetataifawei。

 wocengwenguowangfanxi，woxunwentayuqianrennvyouliaotianshi，douliaolexienaxie。tashuodao：“woliaolexuduoa，womeiridouhetaliaowohaizaiwandeyouxi，yinweiwoguanzhutaa，yidaofandiancijiujitafaxiaoxi……”

 wangfanxidehuiying，queshiyaowoyoudianerwunai，neishihouwozhongyulejiexiaohuobanmenduitadedianpingle。buyongshuoqitanvren，huanzuojiushiwo，jishiwozainengshuodongzishen、zaidongnanrenhenvrendejiaowang，yinweiwohuitiaoxuantichufenshou。

 yinciyaoxiangjinanrenmenyigetiyi：bubihushinanrenhenvrendeliaotian，nikeyibawozhuliaotiandeguanjiandian，zhangwohaoliaotiandefencungan，jiunengsuibianbawozhunvrendexin。

 tanqi“taolu”，henduorenbianhuiganjuetashixinshubuzheng、buzhenxinshiyi，danshijishangqingganlibianbixuyidingde“taolu”。“taolu”jiyiweizhejiaowangfangshi、jiaowangfangfa，keyibawojiaowangfangshideren，caikeyiruyuanyichang，huodezishendeganqing。

 nanrenjinyoujijiyidian，caikeyiqudechenggongluhuonvrendehuanxin。suhuashuodehao，chengsiledadande，esiledanqiede，jiarunipengdaolezishenaideren，queweishouweijiaohaipawangqian，neimaganqingzhinenghuigutaren。

 ziran，bingbingbushiyouyingyongjiukeyile，yaoxiangganqinghuiguni，wubiyaodongnaozi。yinci，nanrenyaoxiangbawozhunvrendexin，liaotiandeqingkuangxia，jiuwubiyaoyoudianer“taolu”。

要风趣但又无失风范

 nvrendouxiaifengqudenanren，xiangbineileilaoshibajiaodaisha、bushanyujianghuadenanren，nvrenhuoshigengxihuanyoumogaoxiaode，keyigesanchawudidouzishengaoxing，weizijiderichangshenghuozengjiakuaile。

 keshi，fengqubuyiweizheyongsu，nanrenzainvrenyanqian，yaoxiangluhuonvrendexin，rangnvrenhaipashiquni，jiuxuyaogaoqingchushenmeshifengququeyouwushifengfan，yaozuoyigegaoxiaoyoumodeqiaruqifendenanren。

 nixuyaolejie，jiarunanrenhenvrenjiaowangshi，shuoyixiemeiyingyangchengfendechaoxiao，kaiyixieyongsudewanxiaohua，nvrendangranburongyishangxini，naizhihuiyanfanni。

 dangnimengangchupengshi，ninengshiduziwodiaokan，danbubiguoyujingchang。zuihaoshiliaoyixieqingsongzizaidehuatitaolun，liaoyiliaoertongqingkuangxiadejiongshi，zailiaoshuoshenpangyouyisideshi。

要适度赞美女人

 nvrenzongshixihuantinghaotingdehuade，yeshixiaibeibierenzanyangzanmeide。doushuoshenchushoubudaxiaolianren，wulunshiguanlianduomedebutaihaode，zhiyaoshizanmeinvrenyiliangju，lingyifangyemeiyoubukaixinde。

 suoyishuo，nanrenhenvrenjiaowangshi，yidingyaoshiduzanmeinvren。liruzanmeilingyifangzhangdehaokan；lirulingyifangqichangtuxian；liruzanyanglingyifangxindishanliangtaorenxihuan。

 niduinvrenzanmeideyueda，nvrenduinideyinxiangjiuyuegao，yebianhuigengxiangyaoyunigoutongjiaoliuxiangchu。yongyouxiangchudejiyu，youhechounvrenburongyiduinixindongni？

要有张有弛，有进有退

nanrenhenvrenjiaowang，bixubawodelingyigetaolu，bianshijiaowangshiyaoyouzhangyouchi、youjinyoutui。

 bubitaiguofengcheng，weilegenghaodizhuiqiuwanmeilingyifangjiangzishendezishifangdehendi；yebubiguoyushengshu，dianjizherangnvrenlaijiji。

 zuihaoshidejiaowangfangshi，bianshixunzhaoneiyigejingquedejiexian，gaijiqingdeqingkuangxiajiugaijiqing，gailakaijulideqingkuangxiajiuyidingyaokongzhu，rangnvrennongbuqingchunidexintai，jinerduinifangzaixinshang。

nixuyaojianxin，dangyigerenjijiduinifangzaixinshang，duinizaochengqiuzhiyushi，litaxiaishangniyejiuhenjinle。

 “taolu”yigerenbingbuyidingshiguyide，fanguolai，ganqinglibiandetaolu，huoxushiweilegenghaodinenggougenghaodiquzhuiqiuwanmeiyigeren。yiner，nanrenhenvrenjiaowangshi，bubitaitianzhentaidaisha，yidingyaodongnaozi，zhiyongshuangquandeyouxiurencainengruyuanyichang。liaotianjingdiankengrentaoluyoushenme？tongguoyiwang2018liaotianjingdiankengrentaolu，jiaonizuixindeliaotianjingdiankengrentaolujuzi，ganjinxueqilai。