youxierendangfumudemiankuahaizi,haizikendingshichongmanxiwangdidengdaifumurentongde,danshijieguoquebeipoleyipenlengshui,haizibeifumuquanpanfouding。dajiadoulejie,haizidezizunquanshijiaoqiangde,tamenqipanbeihaowuyiwen,yucitongshiyebixuyikaojiazhangdepingjia,weizijizhaojingzhundingwei,mingqueqinfendefangwei。fumudeguoduoqianxun,huiranghaizishenxinbuyi,caiyizishen,duihaizidefazhanfazhanqushishijiqibuhaode。ruhegaoqingshanghuifubierendezanmei?jiaonididiaodehuifubierenzanmeidehua。
父母的“伪谦逊”,很有可能并不是故意的
ruhegaoqingshanghuifubierendezanmei?shijishang,juedaduoshufumujiandaohaizibuduanjinbu,zhuyaobiaoxiandechuse,neixinshibisheidoukaixinde。keshi,dangtingdaoyouxierenkuahaizi,huoshishijinbuzhu“qianxun”,shuojijuweibeiliangxindehua。liru,shuohaizibuhao,buzuhaozheixie。fumude“weiqianxun”dangranbingbushiweilegenghaodidihuihaizi,kenengshifumuyaoxiangbuzhangyangyidian,bujitarenliuyouzihaodeyinxiang,yeshiyoukenengshifumupahaizihaotinghuatingguoduo,zhihoujiubukeyijingxialai,haohaodiqinfenqinfenle。
当他人夸家里孩子,恰当的情绪调节
jiaruyouxierenkuajiangjialihaizi,zuoweifumuniyinggaidechuqieheshijidehuifu,bubiyiweidi“qianxun”。liru,tarenkuajialihaizixueyechengjihao,shifenchusezheixie。fumunenggouhaowuyiwenhaizideyoushi,xianghaizixuexipeixundeqingkuangxiayongxin,pingchanghenziwoyueshuzheixie,youneiyangdekaoshichengji,fumuyekaixin。keshi,haizideyixiediquyeyoubugou,yinciyeyoushifendadefazhanshineikongjianzheixie。zuizhong,fumuyaobiaomingduihaizihenyouxinxin。
dangtarenkuajiangjialihaizishi,buhuiliaotiandefumujiugencongcongmuqinyiyangxuqingjiayideqianxun,neineixinchunfengdeyigaoxing,biaocengshangqueyangzhuangqianxun“nalinali,yibanyiban”,danchunzhenjiaonendehaizibingbumingbaifumuzheiyitao,tamenjinjindanchunxingdeganjuefumuburentong、bumanyi,jinercuozhehaizidezhudongxingheshangjinxin。
jiaonididiaodehuifubierenzanmeidehua,zongeryanzhi,dangtarenkuajialihaizi,fumubuyiweidiwangzishenlianbutiejinbo,yedanshiduodifourenhaizi,luoluodafangdiqiangdiaohaizideyoudianhequedian,tarenlianmianshangburongyibuhaokan,haihuijixugengyouliyuhaizidefazhan,yijuliangde。
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