跟女生聊天如何才能不尴尬？掌握这3个跟女生聊天技巧

 renherenzhijiandejiaowang，congshengshudaolejiezheiyiquanguochenggengweiguanjian，gennvshengliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？youyujuecelebicizhijiannengbunengyoufazhanqushidehenyoukeneng。zenmehenvshengliaotianzhaohuati？

 youxierenlejielehaozhangshijian，danhuoshiyimianzhijiao，suanbushanglejie，eryouxierenganglejieshufenzhongjiunengxunsuliaoqilaiqilai，zheizaiqizhongdeguanjianhuanjiebianshi“youhuashuo”，yixingpengyouzhongjiandejiaowanggengshiruci。

 yigerenshifouzaichuduixiang，kantanashoujidepinlvjiunenglejie。zheixieyitiandaowanhuaizheshoujishangshalederen，yidingzaichuduixiang，

jinglitanlianaideganjuederenyidingjinglizheileilijing，liangrenchuduixiangdeqingkuangxiaxianliaopinlvyouqigao。

 yitiandaowanzhixuyoushijianbianhuixianliao，chi、chuan、zhu、xingshiwudaxiao，yayiganbuledebiaoshuyu，laoxiangzhangwolingyifangdaliang，ranglingyifangrenshizijidaliang。

 xianliaoshirenherenzhijiangoutongjiaoliuzuizhongyaodefangfazhiyi，bunengshuoxianliaoyidingjiunengtigaoguanlian，keshibuxianliao，yidingbukeyitigaoguanlian。

 gennvshengliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？zhenduinanhaizieryan，jiaruniyaozhuiqiuwanmeiyigenvsheng，diyibuyidingshikaiqitadefangbianzhimen。jiaruninengbaozhengzheiyidian，neimadajiadeguanliancaiyoukenenggengjinyibu，buran，jiuzhiyoucongcitingbule。

 bulunshigenjudahua、huoshixiangqinyuehui、huoshiqitadelejiefangshi，dedaolingyifanglianxidianhuazhihouzenyangshunlidakaixianliaoshixuduonanhaizitoutongdenanti。

buqingchugailiaoshenme，youyaoxiangqugennvhailiao，zheileizhuangkuangxiadexianliaojibenshangbianshizaihuodangchang。

普遍的尴聊当场：

1、yongxiaobiaoqingwenhao，huodeyigexiaobiaoqingdehuiying，liaotianjieshu。

 xuduonanhaiziganggennvshengliaotiandeqingkuangxiadoubuqingchugaishuoxieshenme，zhinengfayigexiaobiaoqing，nvhaihuiyingniyigexiaobiaoqing，suihoujiumeiyousuihoule。

 yaolejiefuhaobiaoqingdeguanjianzuoyongshiyongyubuchongshuomingwenbenyaoxiangbiaoshudexintai，xuanranqifen。youshijinyouwenbenhenyoukenengbiaoshuchubulaifaxinrendexintai，zaijiashangxiaobiaoqingkeyichuansongdegengweijingque。

 keshizhifayigexiaobiaoqing，huilingrenganjuewuyuanwugu，buqingchuniyaoxiangshuoxieshenme。nvhaiyibanjiandaonanhaizizhifalexiaobiaoqingbuyongshuoqita，neixindoushihuishuoyiju“youbingba”。

 jiarurangnihuiying，biaomingnvhaishixiangyaorangnijiyushinidakaiyixiehuatitaolunde，jiarunimeibawojihui，feichangshaoyounvhaihuixiangyaozaicijijigennijianghua。

2、dakaqiandaoshixianliao。

zao、zhong、wanwenhou，nvhaiyoushihuiying，youshilijihushi，chedimeifazhaohuati。

 zheileidakaqiandaoshixianliaoshiyouqirangnvshengtoutengde，youyuyagenbuqingchuniyaoxiangbiaodashenme，buqingchunidemudiyejiumeifahuiying，yici2cihenyoukenenghaihuiyingniyiju，zongneiyangbianhuiganjuehaofan。

3、自言自语。

 youyixienanhaizibuqingchuyingdangshuoxieshenme，bianhuigennvshengshuozishendeshier，naxiexiawuchiwannaxie，jinribijiaomangzheileide，haoxiangshinannanziyuyiyang，wulunnvhaishifouyouhuifu，dounengshuoxialai。

 zheileizhuangkuangnvhaineixinhuixiang：“woguannizuoshenmele，genwoyoushenmeguanxini？”yinciyibanjiuhuiying“e”、“ena”zheileidegantanci，youyuqueshibuqingchuyingdangshuoxieshenme。

4、审讯式。

 youyixienanhaiziyaoxiangduozhangwonvhai，yincibuduandiwennvshengwenti，yigenantiranhouyigenanti，baxianliaonongdegenshenxunyiyang。

nvhaizhujianshihenyoukenenghaihuiyingyiliangju，jiaruyizhineiyangnvhaibianhuiyaoxiangwanbihuatitaolun。

 xianliaoyidingyaoxuehaoxinxineirongjiaohuan，yizhitiwentijiuhaoxiangyizhongsuoyao，ziranhuilingrenjuededichu。qiadangdetiwenfangshishiyaoxianpaochuquzishenxinxineirong，zaiwenlingyifang。

 liruganglejie，yaoxiangwennvshenggongzuozhuangkuang，lijiwen“nishiganshenmegongzuode？”buruzheiyangshuo：“woshizuoxxgongzuozhongde，nishizuonacengmiande？”

 suihouduiyunvhaidehuiyingnenggouzailiaoyixiezishendexinxineirong，suihouzaitichuwenti，neiyangcaikeyizuodaoxinxineirongjiaohuandegongxiao，nvhaijieshoudaonidexinxineirong，huigengxiangyaohuiyingnidewenti。

zheijileiliaotianhuatiquanshinanhaiziganglejienvhaishi，changchangyongdaode，ganghaoyeshinvhaishifendichudeliaotianhuati。

youyuneiyangxianliaochedimeifarangnvhaiyouqingtuchongdong，gengmeifazuodaoxianghuzhijianzhangwodemudi。

 xianliaozhenduicujinganqingwangwangguanjian，bianshiyouyugenjuxianliaonenggouzhangwoxuduoxinxineirong、chuansongxuduoxinxineirong，jiaruxianliaojibukeyixinxichuandi、yemeifazhangwoxinxineirong，neibianshishixiaode。

怎么打开方便之门？

1、xunzhaolingyifangyouxingqudehuatitaolun，chuangjianxiangtongdian。

 jinyouyingduizishenyouxingqudehuatitaoluncaihuichuxianbiaoshudechongdong，yincinanhaizizuixiannenggouzixiguanchaxunzhaonvhaihenyoukenengyouxingqudehuatitaolun，suihouzhengqueyindaonvhaiduojianghua。

nengkantadeweixinpengyouquanneirong，youfenxianggequlianjie、yingpian、shubenhuoshishijianshenyundongzheileide，nenggoucongzheizhongcengmianzhujian。

rengengxihuantinggenzishenyizhidejianjie，ruguonibiaoshuchumoushiyunvhaiyoutongyangjianjieshi，nvhaihuigengxiangyaogoutongjiaoliu。

“nixiaixxdegea，zheigetingguo，tingchaohaotingde。tayeyouyishouge《xxxx》yetingchaohaoting，nitingguoma？”

 congyishougenenggoutandaogexinghuoshiqitadege，sanfachuxuduodehuatitaolun，chuangjianlianggerenzhongjiandexiangtongdiannenggoukuaisulajinguanlian。

 liuyi，qianwanbieyizishendeaihaolaikaoliangnvhai，lirunixiaikantiyupindao，yincijiugennvhailiaotiyuwenhua，danhenyoukenengnvhaiyagenyebuguanxin，ziranjiumeiyouxingquaihao。

zuizhonghenkenengjiushinikankanertandishuozhezishenxiaidehuatitaolun，ernvhaiyagenjiumeiyouhuifu。

2、gennvshengliaotianyaoyoushujuliang。

 zenmehenvshengliaotianzhaohuati？dakaqiandaoshixianliao，feichangrongyizaoshoudichuzuizhongyaodeyuangujiushichudehuachedimeiyoushiyongjiazhi。

 renyizhihuibeiyoushiyongjiazhidexinxineirongxiyinzhu，liruyigerengennishuo“zaoan。”lingyigerenshuo：“qichuangma，womingbaiyijiazaofanpu，xiaolongbaoyouqimeiwei，yaoxiangchangyichangma？”

zheijijuhuaninengduinayigengyouxingquaihao？yidingshidierju，youyurangnijiyulexinxineirong，shiyoushiyongjiazhide。

 yeyouwen“wufanchishenme？”burushuoshi“woxiawuchiwanxx，henhaochi，mingrixiawuwobangnijiaogewaimaisongcanba，niyidinghuixiai。”

 shuodehuayaoyoushujuliang，caisuanshiyoushiyongjiazhide，jibianshihenpingshiyouguanyongcandehuatitaolun，nvhaikeyicongzheidangzhonghuodexinxineirong，tacaizhidaoniyaoxiangbiaodashenme，caizhidaozenyanghuifu。

3、diaojiezishenxinlizhuangtai。

 zenmehenvshengliaotianzhaohuati？shijishangnanhaizigenganglejiedenvshengliaotianzuizhongyaodeshixinlizhuangtaihaoxie，bubishangqujiuhanyoujiaoqiangdezhenduixing，neiyangtongchanghuiyouyujiaolvbuan，guoduxiangzhuyaobiaoxianzishenercibudayi。

 xiaochuzhenduixing，rangzishenshifangyalifangsongxintai，danglingyifangyejuededaoshifangyalishi，caikeyiyiqiezhengchanggoutongjiaoliu，gengxiangyaobiaoshuzishenzhenzhengdeniantou。

 gennvshengliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？buranliangrendouchuzaibengjindeqingkuang，lianyiqiezhengchangdegoutongjiaoliudoushiyounanti，youzaiduodefangfadoumeiyoulizuzhidi。