异性聊天冷场怎样处理！针对谈恋爱的感觉？

 xuduorenhaowuyiwenganjueyongneileilaodezhaoshujuedeyouqifanlanchengzai，tongchangzheileiyeshidanwuxufade。niyuzheigerenjiqingxianliao，yichengxiangdaideyucitongshi，neirenyehuiduinibaoyouyidingdexingquaihao。dangliangrennankandeyucitongshi，gaosuniyixingliaotianlengchangzenyangchuli？dapolengchangdeyoumojuziyuanlaiyouzheixie，niyenenggouyuelaiyuefengquyixie，xiangneigeyouxiurencaihuiduini，gengyouganjue。

1、找共同语言

 yuyixingpengyougoutongjiaoliuqimadeguidingbianshiyaoyouyitongdehuatitaolun，neiyang2geyouxiurencainengyouhuakeshuo，buqingchushenmejiaoyitongdehuatitaolun，jiukankanbicidexihao，suihounenggouyincijinxingliaotianhuatia。

2、不必显摆自身

 heyixingpengyougoutongjiaoliuzuibihuidebianshixianbaizishen，gaosuniyixingliaotianlengchangzenyangchuli？dapolengchangdeyoumojuziyuanlaiyouzheixie，youderenbudanxianbaizishendeyanjiangkoucai，haihuijixuxianbaizishendebiededezichan，nineimezuozongshiranglingyifangduinidichu，lianqimadebuzhangyangdouzuobudao，weirenjiugengwuxutile。

3、不必过度紧张

 henduorenyidanheyixingpengyouzaiyiqigoutongjiaoliubianhuihenjiaolvbuan，jianghuashiyeshijiejiebaba，qianwanbieguodujinzhang，ruguoshiguodujinzhangdehua，ninnenggouzishenqujianqingyixia，nizhixubayanxiadeyixingpengyoudangzuoyiqiezhengchangdepenyouduidaijiukeyile。

4、掌握另一方的接纳工作能力

 lingyifangdegerenyinsininbixuliuyi，yibannvhainianjibubiwen，sishibubiwen，nixuyaoxianghelingyifanghaohaodigoutongjiaoliu，nijiuxuyaolejie，yidannidejiaotanshejidaotarendegerenyinsi，lingyifanghuiruhezuo，jiarulingyifangbukeyijiena，zheizhiyoushigoutongjiaoliubuchenggongdezhengzhaole。

5、多赞扬另一方的优势

 meiyigerendoushiyouyoushiyulieshi，gaosuniyixingliaotianlengchangzenyangchuli？dapolengchangdeyoumojuziyuanlaiyouzheixie，nixuyaoshanyufajuelingyifangdeyoushi，neiyangdajiacaiyouhuakeyishuo，jiaruniyizhinazhelingyifangdequexianmeifang，lingyifangziranburongyigaoxingde，yaoxiangshitazaicihenihaohaogoutongjiaoliu，xiangyixiangquanshibutaikenengde。