异性聊天冷场怎样处理？和她闲聊的情况？

 zhenduitanlianaideganjuehenshaodenanhaizieryan，yuxinaidenvshengliaotianshi，gennvhaiziliaotianqingtingdeguanjianmudizhiyibianshi：shoujixinxineirong。ninenglijicongnvxingzuizhonghuozhi：taqipannaxie、fangannaxie、zaihunaxie，jiqitaduishierdexintaiyujiazhiguannian。zenmezuoni？yaoshimeiyouqianqueduinvhaidezhangwo，huoshiyuyixingpengyoujiaowangdelijinghenshao，nihenvshengwufazhaodaobicizhijianyitongdexingfenzhichu，bianhuizaochengyueliaoyuenankan，gaosuniyixingliaotianlengchangzenyangchuli？dapolengchangdeyoumojuziyuanlaiyouzheixie，neimaliangrenzhongjianbianhuixunsufashenggaliaodenankanjushi。

1、擅于找寻话题讨论来源于

 jiarupengdaonankandehuatitaolunshi，yidingyaojinkuaiwanbi，gaosuniyixingliaotianlengchangzenyangchuli？dapolengchangdeyoumojuziyuanlaiyouzheixie，nenggoulijizhuanyihuati，ruguonizaishejiaomeitixianliaodeqingkuangxianenggoutiaoxuandehuatitaolunhuoshibijiaoduode，lirujinqidexinwentoutiao，reyingdedianshilianxuju，jinqixinxinshangyingdianying，youyisideyuanchuangwenzhang。

2、从女孩的身上找寻话题讨论

 shijishangyunixianliaodenvhaizishenbianshiyigejidadehuatitaolunlaiyuanyu。ninengyijunvhaideshenxing、mingcheng、gangwei、hulianwangzhanxiandeng，naizhinenggoucongtadexintaihejinqifenpeidexingchenganpaijijizhaoxunhuatitaolun，neiyangshijishangxuduohuatitaolunquanshiliaobuwande。nixuyaozuodebianshikaichengbugong，nvhaiquanshixiaiqingtude，ruguonixuanzhunlehuatitaolun，dajiayidinghuiyueliaoyuetoujixing。

3、从本身找寻话题讨论来源于

 shijishangjiarunizaoyiguoquleershiwusui，gaosuniyixingliaotianlengchangzenyangchuli？dapolengchangdeyoumojuziyuanlaiyouzheixie，neimaniderenshengdaoluzaoyiyongyouxuduoyouyisidelijinghexiaogushile，bazijiyouyisidelijinghexiaogushijiangjilingyifangting，ruguonideluojixingqiadang，jiangdexuxurushengyixie，yidinghuijiangxianliaoqifentuidongqilaide。kexuanzezijidetongnianqiushi、gongzuozhongyouqudeshi、qinrenpenyoudeyouqudeshideng。zheizhongyouyisideshishijishangzaimeigechangsuoquanshiyouxiaode，woganquexinyidinghuiyoude。