聊天别再用“在干嘛”了，学会这3招，和女孩子聊天怎么找话题

 dajiazhishenershiyishijizhong，zhudongliaotianshuosha？biqitashidaiderengengweikeyiganshoudaogaoxinkejihulianwangdebijiaofada，hulianwangzaoyibujinjinshishangyigewangkangewaiqiaoju，shangyigewangtoukoutarendanongchangdecaineimayouxiyulehua。henvhaiziliaotianzenmezhaohuati？

 rujindajiaheqinren、penyou、lingdaoganbu、pengyounaizhifukuan、zhaopinmianshiwangshangtoujianlidouzaoyizaiwangluoshangjiunengnaxia。shejiaowangluopingtaijiaopengyouyulaiyubianchengnianqingrendeliuxing。huibushanyancizaoyibianchenglenijiaopengyoudeyigeguanjianguifan。

 jiaruyigenanrenyaoxiangpaoniu，jinjinkaoshuashuairujinhaowuyiwenbuxing，ruhedashanshiwomenkanqilaidangraneryouxiyinzhulingyifang，shimenjishuxing。

 cengjingdewowenguowodenanxingpengyoumenruhequheyigenvhaidahua，tamenjiangchudediyijuhuajibenshangquanshi“zaiganshenme”，yishibuqingchushuoxieshenme，ershiganjue“zaiganshenme”henlijifeichanghao。

 zheijinjinnanshiganjue，genjuyixiliediaochawenjuanfajue，nvshigengxihuannanshifengqu，lanmandekaichangcidahua，cizhishiduizishendezanyang。

 zhudongliaotianshuosha？er“zaiganshenme”huirangnvshiganjuelingyifangyidingshigefaweiyouhenwuliaodediaosi。yingduineiyangdekaichangci，yibufennvshidechudehuidashiwenminglimaodihuiyingyixia，erjuedaduoshunvshizetiaoxuanzhiruowangwen，shizhimeili。

 chanshengjiuzaiwoshenbianzhenzhengdeshili：pengyouxinshou，gezi167，baibaideshoushoushouxiuzhangmeituide，kanqilaishifenpiaoliang。shenbianrendeyixingpengyouxuduo。

kedabufentongxingnanmen，chukaiyouniganshangqujiuhanshangpinde，jiushengyudejiujinyouzheixiezongshifa“zaiganshenme”dezhinanyoumen。

 xinshouyedaokuaiwanhundenianji，babamamaxiangxijieshaodequanshizongshiwen“zaiganshenme”，“chilema”denanhaizi。xinshouyingduizheizhong“zaiganshenme”，queshibianshishizhimeili。

 erqiyehuoshitarenxiangxijieshaoderenyoutaiyounigan。wojiangkenengshizheixienanhaizibuqingchushuoxieshenme，youpajianglenaxiehuatitaolunniyanjuande。xinshoushuomeiyicidouzhiyaoshuo“zaiganshenme”fangfochaqinyiyangdegongjuren，kanbujiantaxiyinzhuwodediqu。

 wojuederujinmeiyigerendeshijianquanshizhenguide，jiarunibukeyijinvshengliuyouyigehaodeyinxiang，bukeyirangnvshengzaochenghaoqixinhexiyinzhude，tajiunanyizaixiangjianyuniyoulianluo。xuehaoxiabianhaoduogeliaotiandejiqiao，rangnvshengpaolaiyuenixianliao。

1.讲话幽默风趣

fengqudenanrenshichongchizheconghuide。genjufengquchanshengdedekaixinqingqingsongsongdeqifenshihenxiyinzhunvshengyunixianliaode。

 richangshenghuodailaidajiadeyayiganhewukenaihe，qushidajiagengchongjingkaixinqingqingsongsongdexianliaoziranhuanjing。xinligengqipanneileichongchizheyoumofengqudenansheng，dailaizishenkaixin。

 jiaruninengzaixianliaozhong，yongyiliangjuyoumodehuakaishi，wojuedezainvshengxinliduinidediyiyinxiangfeichanghao。neixingengxiangyaoyunixianliao。

 changyandao：“fengqudenanshengshenpangbuquenvxing。”xianliaozhongyoumogaoxiao，nvxingchongguolaiyunixianliao。henvhaiziliaotianzenmezhaohuati？

2.从另一方喜爱的事情下手

 liangrenkendingshiyongyouyitongdehuatitaoluncaihuiliaodaobuxiangwanglai。xianliaozhongxuanzhunhuatitaolunyehuirangnvshengxiangyaoyunixianliao。neizheizhonghuatitaolunbibushangxianconglingyifangdegerenaihaolai。

lirutadepenyouquanshixiaomaodezhaopian，neiyitiankendingshigexiaomaonu。

 ninengcongmaomaoshijiaoxiashou，shuo“wokanniweixinpengyouquanyouxuduoxiaomaozhaopian，quanshiniyangdema”“jianzhirenmeixinshan，nanguaixiaomaomaoneimetaorenxihuan，yuanlaishiyoulenineimetaorenxihuandezhurenjia。”zheixie

 ziranjiaruniqueshibukeyikandechuhuoshitantingbushangtadexingquaihaoaihao，niyenenggoucongkouhongyanse，pinpaibao，dishiniwanou，danxiangshuidengcengmianxiashou。zheizhongquanshinvxingdeguanlianxing，yidingburongyirangnishiwangde。

xianliaodeqingkuangxianinengneimeshuo“jinrinidekouhongsehaoyouqiheshini，youyizhongwumeidongrendejuede。”

yongyounenggouliaoxialaidehuatitaolun，haipahaihuijixuganliao，kanbudaolingyifanghuiyingma？

3.说些赞扬她得话

 yeyouyixienvshixiaibeizanyang。zaixianliaodezhujianqingkuangxianiyongyixieyuqingyujingbiaoshuzanyangdehua，yehuijinvhailiuyouyigehaoyinxiang。

 henvhaiziliaotianzenmezhaohuati？womenshichuyujiqingmeilihaofangdenianling，dandashuoaini，dandalieai，ganqingzishenbianshijiqingyumeili。

 zheizhongquanshixianliaozhongdeyixiexiaoqiaomen。jiarunixianliaohendanyihebukuaidianerxueqilaizheizhongfangfa。zhongjiushijianbudengni，jiyubuyiren。

 youqixiaibishuminzuopindeyijuhua：“youyixiewupin，bingbingbushiyuenongyuehao，yaoqiaruqifen。shenshendidehuadajiaqianqiandedishuo，xixizhangzhangludajiamanmandizou。”

 ganqingnenggoushiyijianzhongqing，danbukeyishiyishichongdongtaobizeren。meiyigezaiyiqidechuxinyidingshixiangzaiweilaiderixiangzili，tonggangongkuyoufutongxiang。jiushiniyitongyingduinantidedixiong，yeshirangniwenwanhewennuandelianren。

zhudongliaotianshuosha？manmanzhanglusuiyue，youxierenxiangyaoheniyiqizouxialaiyeshiyizhongxingfukuaile。