和男朋友越来越没话聊，让你从9个面挖掘话题

 gennanpengyouxianliaomeiyouhuashuogaizenmeban？henanpengyoumeihuatiliaolezenmeban？qinglvzhongjiantanlianaiqianqihuozhonghouqimeiyouhuashuoshihenyiqiezhengchangdezhuangkuang，yigeshizhangwodequanguocheng，yigeshichedizhangwodequanguocheng。ziran，jiaruzhangqixingfashengjiudexiangbanfagaijinle。xiabianjiulaijiaoniconghaoduogecengmianfajuewuqiongdehuatitaolun。henanpengyouyuelaiyuemeihualiaoyaoruhezhaohuati？

问一些他会有兴趣的事

 yibaneryan，dajiataoluntamenzijihuoshizishenxihuandedongxideqingkuangxia，huiganjuegengzideyixie。weishenmeni?youyudajiaduizheizhonghuatitaolungengzhangwo，erqiezaoyisisuoguozheizhonghuatitaolunle。xialiejiujiyuyixiehenanyouliaotianhuatiyijingongcankao：

 tajinriguodezenyang?tayiwangdelijing(biruershilijing，xiaiganshenme，tadejiazhongzhong，sheiduitaeryanyiyifeifan)?tadexihao?tazuiaidejianshenyundong?tazuixihuandeshu、yingpian，huoshigequ?

持续充实自己

 henanpengyoumeihuatiliaolezenmeban？jiaruninengxunzhaoshijiankankanxinwenwang，duyidubaokanzazhi，nidenaohaizhonglibianhuiyoudaliangdehuatitaolunkeliao。yaorangzishenjinsuishishiredian，liuyiyouqudexijupianshipinduanpian，huoshihulianwangshangshixingdegaoxiaoduanzideng。ruguoniganjueliangrendehuihuazhujianyuelaiyuekuzaodeqingkuangxia，nenggouwenyiwennidenanyoutajinqishifouyoududaohuoshijiandaonaxieyouqudedongxi。ruguoyou，dajianenggoutaolunyixianishiruhekanzheijianshiqingde。yaoshimeiyou，neimazheijiushiduitashuonijinqisuojiansuowendejijiajihuile。

讨论一些假定的情景

 nenggouxunwenta，jiaruwubitiaoxuanyiyang，shiganjuesangshishijuexiaoguogengnengjiena，huoshisangshitingjuexitong?shiningyuanyibeizizhichibocaini，huoshiyibeizimeiriwubitingbagezhongtoudeshengdange?jinkenengxiangdaoyouyisidejuziti，qingjingnenggouhenyouyisi，haikeyihenfanza，suihouxunwennidenanyou，taxiangyaotiaoxuannayizhong。tadechuhuiyingzhihou，zaishitabiaomingtadeyuanyin。

 1、nenggouyouyihetaduizhegan。wulunnidenanpengyoushuoxieshenme，doumingquetichufanguolaijianyi，neiyangtajiupobudeyishenzhongkaolvtadejianyile。danshishuoqiqingxi，nineimezuojinjinxiangrangjiaotanyuelaiyuegengyouqu，erbushiqueshiyaoxianghetachangfandiao。

 2、yeyoudaliangdecuojueleinantikewen：“naxiedeshihenyoukenenghuishinicheyeshuibuzhejueni?”“jiaruninengzaicihuoyici，ninengzuochuruhebuyiyangdetiaoxuan?”“nijuedeniderichangshenghuobuguanzenyangbunengquefadeshisha?”(huoshi，haikeyiwen“jiarunizhiyouliushijianwupin，ninengtiaoxuanzheixieni?”

使他对你说一些你永远不知道的物品

 nenggoushiyouguantazijide，haikeyishiniyongyuanbuzhidaodeyixieshierhuoshilengmenzhishi。wulunshinaxie，nidoushihuixuedeyixiexinwupinde。erjiarunixiangyaozuodegengshijiyixie，nenggoushitaduinishuoyixieniyongyuanbuzhidaodexihao。

 fuguzaizheileizhuangkuangxiayeshifeichanghaodetiaoxuan。tanianshudediyitian，tadediyigexiaowanju，takeyijiqilaidediyigeshengrikuanghuanpaidui。genjuzheileifangfa，nenggoufeichanghaodizhangwodangtahuoshigexiaohaideqingkuangxiaxihuanshenme，naxieduitaeryanhenzhongyao。

询问他一些古怪的难题

 zailiangrendouqingxufeichanghaodeqingkuangxia，neimezuonenggouyinchulaiyixieshifenyouqu，rangliangrendouhenkaixindehuatitaolun。nenggouwenxiangjinneiyangdenanti：“niyaojianxinyoushengdanlaoyeyema?”“jiaruwubizaidianshijihehulianwangzhongjiantiaoxuan，ninengfangqinayigeni?”jiqi“yaoshimeiyoushizhong，nijuederichangshenghuohuibianweishenmeyangzi?”weichihuihuadeqingqingsongsongyouyisi，bingqienaxiehuidadoumeicuo。

告诉他些好听话

 duitashuonishiduomedexiaimouyiciyouhui，bingduitashuoweihenixiaineiyiciyouhui。liru，ninengshuo，“woainidaiwoyiqiqucanyindianchiwancandeneiyiciyouhui，najiacanyindianhenmei，rangworenweizishenshifenyouqi。”

探讨将来

 henanpengyouyuelaiyuemeihualiaoyaoruhezhaohuati？nenggoutaolunyixianiyaozaiweilaimouyitianzuodeshi——huoxuniyaoxiangyaoquxilalvxing，yaoxiangyanyichuwutaiju，xiangxieyibenxiaoshuo，huoshixiangzaichuanlirichangshenghuo。wenyiwentadouyounaxielixiang。zheiliyouyixietiyi：

 nixiangyaoquneiyigeyuanxiaonianshu?niyaoshenmezhuanye?niyaozainaerrichangshenghuo?niyaodaonaqulvyou?tahenyoukenengyoudegerenaihao。nixiangzuoshenmeyangdegongzuozhong?

一起玩游戏

 henanpengyouyuelaiyuemeihualiaoyaoruhezhaohuati？nenggouyiqiwanzhuoyouyouxi，haikeyiyiqiwanwangluoyouxi，huoshidawangluoyouxi。jiarudajiazaiyouxilimianshijingzhengguanxi，ninengzaiwandeqingkuangxiayudiaoshaoxianbujing，youyiyanlidajita。erjiarudajiashitongyiduidelaozhanyou，neimadajiajiukeyitantaoshoujiyouxifangfayouxineirong。

用心聆听

 henanpengyoumeihuatiliaolezenmeban？hebierenjiaotandezaoxingyishubaohanlingting，lingtingnenggoujililingyifangshuodedaliang。yaoshinidenanyoujiandaonishiqueshigaosutadehuayouxingqu，tajianghuadeqingkuangxiajiuxuyaohaohaoditing，zaitafayandeqingkuangxiayonghaowuyiwendejuziheshentiyuyanduitaduinishuodewupinzuochuhuizong，neiyangtajiulejieniqueshishizaiyongxintingtafayan。