与男朋友相处三个月，和男朋友没话题聊了，突然发现没话说怎么办？

 yunanyoujiaowangzhei90laitian，zaoyichongzubazijizhiqiandelijingxianghuzhijianxianglingyifangbiaoluzhengjiele。henanpengyoumeihuatiliaolezenmeban？tashihendangrandezhuangkuang，yinciqianwanbiejuedejinghuangwucuo。zhenzhenzhengzheng2geshenaideren，jibianbuhangsheng，haikeyiyongmuguangqugoutongjiaoliudebushima？henanpengyouyuelaiyuemeihualiaoyaoruhezhaohuati？

 nijuedeaiyigerenbianshihetazonghuiyoutanbuwandehuatitaolunzheimeiyoucuo，dannantishidajiazhongjiandelijing、xiezuofeichangshao，yincicaijuedehuranmeiyouhuashuole。yiner，rujindajiadejiaowangkaishilejinyibuhuanjie：moheshijian。jinyouguoqulezheiyiduanmoheshijian，caihuiranglingyifangzhenzhenzhengzhengdebianchengzishenrichangshenghuodeyibufen。

 henanpengyoumeihuatiliaolezenmeban？tongguozhuangkuangkanshizhi，dajiajinguanjiaowangle90tianjianglexuduohua，danhuoshipobudeyirenkejinjinzhangwodaolingyifangdeyixiaobufen。yeyou，nizheiyixingweiyechengxindefanyingchunirujindexinqing：nihendanyoudajiadeweilaideshenghuo。weihedanyou？dingshinanyouganleshinimeianquangandeshier，huozhenifajuedajiadeguanlianbingmeizishenxiangxiangdehenhao。

 yinci，tabuzhishihuranmeiyouhuashuoneimejianyi，zhishizaizheilisangeyuezhongniguanchade、chenjidejieguoyuniqidaideyouyixiechabie。

一、调节好自身的心理状态

 duowenyixiazijiaibuainanyou？tadeshenshangyounaxieliangdianshinichimi？nishibushiyiguzuyongqihetayiqizouxialai？biexiaoqiaolezheisangenanti，tamennengshinizaizheiyiduanqingganlijingquexunzhaozishendebuwei，gaoqingchuzishendexinqing。henanpengyouyuelaiyuemeihualiaoyaoruhezhaohuati？

 taaiwoma？shiwonaxiedifangfeichangzhidetaneimeshuoaiwo？tafanganguodajiadejianglaima？zheizhonghuidashihaowuyiwende，dajiajiukeyikaizhandierbule。

二、用行動表明

 jiranbicixianghuzhijianshenaizhe，neimejiuyongxingdongbiaomingba。shuochengganqinglideyixiaobufen，zuoyeshiganqingdeyibufen，shuozuoyiyangbicicaikeyiyoudaliangdehuatitaolunnenggouliao。

 yiner，rujinxianzaishishihoubashuodezuizhongyaozuiyingjideshierxiashouzhujiantiqianzhunbeile。biciyiqixiezuo、fazhan，hudongjiaoliuyueduo，youhaodujiuyueda，huatitaolunyebuhuishao。

三、时间最好是的证实

 henanpengyouyuelaiyuemeihualiaoyaoruhezhaohuati？huranmeiyouhuashuo，buyiweizheyizhimeiyouhuashuo。jinyoubicizhongjianxingfu，zennengmeiyouhuashuo。zaizhe，meiyouhuashuo，buyiweizhemeiaile。jiaowangshijianzhangle，bicizhijianzhangwogoushenle，niyaonaxie，lingyifangdoumingbai，hekuzaiquxiaohaokoujiao。bibushang，bazheishijianhuazaiyouyisideshiqingshanglai。

meiyouhuashuobukongbu，kongbudeshiruguobuaile。dangbuxihuanshi，shuozaiduohuayeshibubiyao，nijuedeni？

 henanpengyoumeihuatiliaolezenmeban？haohaozhenxishixia，guohaomeiyitian，xiangxinweilailangsong，jianxinziji，yejianxinnanyou。zuizhong，zhongxinzhufuganqingtianmei！