恋爱情侣如何沟通？

 lianairuhegoutong？womenjingchangyiweideganqingyidingshixinyoulingxi、yigeyanshenjiunenggoudongde。danfuzadeshenghuolianggerenzonghuichongmanlegezhonggeyangdemaodunhewenti。qinglvruhegoutong、ruheqingshanggoutonggenxiaobianyiqilaikankanba。

一、情侣如何沟通

1、要谈就要有诚意的谈

 wulunmianduihezhongqingkuang，zhiyaodangshibuxianggoutongjiuyoubugoutongdequanli。daizhefanzaoyufennuqutanrenheshizhihuidaozhizhengchaochongtu。daizhejiaolvyudanyouqutanrenheshihuishipeiouyeyouzheigeqingxu。suoyiruguozaineiyikenibuxiangyuduifanggoutongkeyixianlengjingyixia。danshiwomenxuyaodongdecaiyongshidangdebiaodafangshi。niyaomingbaibanlvbixuweichigoutong，yinggaimingquejiduifangshenmeshihoutandechengnuo。

2、支持伴侣、就算ta做的并不完美

 zaizhongrenmianqianmeidangbanlvshuocuolehuashibuyaomashangqugengzhengta，yinggaidenghuidaojiahuozhiyoulianggeren，bingqieliangrendouzaizhengmiandeqingxuzhuangtaizhongshizaigaosuta。

3、避免批评抱怨对方

 meiyourenxihuantingpipingbaoyuandehua。yuyigezongshibaoyuanderenshenghuozaoyiqishiyijianjibuyukuaideshi，meiyourennenggouzheiyanghainengyukuaidiguoyisheng。zheicaishixianzaihenduoganqingguanxibianhuaideqidian。erneixiezongshipipingbaoyuanderenqishihuodehenxinku。meidangduishenmeshibumanyishixiantingxialaixiangchusangefangfaquchuli，ranhouxuanzenizuiyuanyi、xiaoguokenengdeyigequfuzhushijian。lianairuhegoutongzhendeshiyimendaxuewene。

二、如何情商沟通

1、让人印象深刻、尝试用“补偿称赞技巧”

 ruguowomenxiangyaorangbierenduiwomenyinxiangshenke，qingshanggaoderenchangchangcaiyongbuchangchengzanjiqiao，buchangchengzanjiqiaowangwangbushicongduifangzuituchudifangershicongqitacemiankuajiang，congerxiandeduifangyuzhongbutong。

 jugelizirujiaruduifangjiajingyinshi，womenjiubuxuyaokuajiangrenjiachushen，yinweizheiyijingshizhongsuozhouzhideshiqing，nikeyikuajiangduifangrenpinhenshanliang，zheiwangwanghuirangrenyinxianggengshenke，wangwanghenduojiatinghenhaoderenbeirenweixinggejuao，suoyiruguonikuajiangtaxinggeshanliangyoujiaoyanghuirangduifangxintaigengweishufu。

2、遇到与人有分歧时采用三明治技术沟通法

 qingshanggaoderenshuohuagengduohuicongshuangfangdeganshoujinxinggoutong，ersanmingzhijishugoutongfashizhi“xiantianhoukuzaitian”degoutongjiqiao，dangnixiangrenbiaodanidebutongyijianshinikeyixianshuoyixiajijizhengmiandexinxi，jieshudeshihouzaijiashangtongyangjijideyijianlaizhonghenimenzhijiandefenqi。zheiyangdegoutongjinenglijietamendexinyi、younengweihuzijilichang、wangwangnengkuaisuqudetarendexinrenyuzhichi。

3、想要拒绝的时候还可以善用“接受协商法”

 qingshanggaoderenzaiyutamenhuizhaoguzijiqingxuerbushihushizijidecunzai。jishizaijujuebierendeshihouhuiyongjieshouxieshangfa，rangrenjuedexintaiyuqinggandepingheng。

 jugeliziruyourenyaoqingnibangmang、youqishinihaifeichangzhongshidepengyou，nikeyixianshizhedayingxialai，ranhoushuochuzijidezhenshiqingkuangxunwennengbunenggaiqi。zheiyangrangduifangzhidaonibushibuxiangbangtaershizijiyouqingkuang。