说话的技巧是什么

 shuohuadejiqiaoshishenme？shuohuayoushunxu，shixianshuoyinhaishixianshuoguo？shuohuayaozhencheng，buzhenchengsheitingnishuoni？womentiantiandouyaoshuohua，nizhidaoshuohuadejiqiaoma，huozheshuo，nizhidaopingshishuohuarongyifanshenmecuowuma？neime，xiaobianjiulaijiangjiexiashuohuajiqiaoba。

一、什么时候该说话

 youxierenxihuanzhuangcongming，chongneixing，shuliaoyanduobishi，shuotaiduorongyixieludixi。zheizhongshihouyinggaichenmoshijin，fanerxiandeshenzangbulu，rangrenzhuomobutou。xueshuohuajiuyinggaixianxueshenmeshihoubujianghua。lingwairuguonigenzheshuohuaneigerendeyindao，nijiuhuiwangjisikao，rongyidaijinxianjingli。birumaifangdeshihou，nigenzhexiaoshouyuanjijigugudehua，ninengsikaotashuodeyoujifenzhenma？

二、急事先说结果

 xianshizhongzongyouyixieren，fashengshenmedashi，xihuanxianshuokaitou，zaishuojieguo。“laoban，buhaole，huopinchuxianchacuole，haihaowojishifaxianbimianlesunshi。”ruguolaobanyouxinzangbingjiubeinizheihuahechubingle。shuohuajiqiaosuoyiyinggaishuo：“baogaolaoban，huopinyijinganshisongchu，buguoyuanlaichadianchulewenti，haihaowojishifaxian……”

三、坏话提前说

 ruguobixudeshuoshenmebuhaodeshiqing，bijiaomingandeshiqing，jiuyinggaizuohaozugoudepudian。birunishuo：“wojintiankaole60fen。”nibashuobudingyigebazhangjiushanglaile。ruguohuancheng：“jintiankaoshitainanle，henduorenkaoshidoumeiyoujige，haihaowojigele。”nikan，shibushihuangeshuohuajiqiaoganjuejiubuyiyangle？

四、要相信自己

 ruguoniduizijidehuadoubuxiangxin，neimetingderenyouzenmehuixiangxinni？neixiechenggongdetuixiaorenshi，shouxiandoushitaxiangxintadechanpin，tajuedehaodongxiyaoyiqifenxiang，suoyicainengshuodeneimexiyinren。

五、不撒不必要的慌

 conglingwaiyifangmianlaishuo，ruguonibuxiangrangrenzhidaozijiqulebeilu，nikeyishuojintianmeiyouqudonglu。renjialaizhaolaoban，niruguosahuangshuolaobanquleguowai，zheizhonghuayichuojiuchuan，haiburushuolaobanxianzaibuzai。

六、无法改变的事实不要说

 womenjingchanghuifanzheiyangdecuowu，xiaobianyejingchangzheimegan（shuowancaifanyingguolai）。suoweiyanzhewuxintingzheyouyi，renjiajiushizheimeaile，nipianyaoshuo，ruguonigaodianzheiyifujiuchuandegenghaokanle。renjiadoutudingle，nipianyaoshuo，ruguobutudingkendingshigeshuaige。ruguoduifangshigexiaoqigui，nijiubeijihenshangle。jiusuanbushihenxiaoqi，youshihoutingdaozheizhonghuahaishibushufude。

七、话不能说绝

 youxieshihoubierenyaoqingnizuoshenme，zhiyaobushiweifafanzui，nifanbuzheyikoujiuhuijuerenjia，“bububu，womeikong，womeixingqu……”rangrenxiabulaitai。jiuxiangmianshineiyang，mianshiguanbuhuidangchangshuoyaobuyaoni。huozhebianjizhaoniyuegao，nimeikong，niyebubiyaoyikouhuijue，keyishuo：“zheigeyoudiannandu，woyaokaolvkaolv。”niyikouhuijuele，jieguonizhihouyouxiangxiele，qibushizizhaomeiquma？

八、说话要通俗易懂

 buyaoyongshumianyu，zhuanyeshuyu，tingderenzhihuiyitouwushui，zhuyitongyinyiyici，buyaolanyongdaozhuangju，ruguozheihuayouqiyiwuhuijiudale。biruyishengjiaobingrenyaojinshi。jieguobingrentingchengleyaojinshi。neibuwushima？

zheipianwenzhangxiwangduiniyoubangzhue，shuohuadejiqiaoshishenmeni，haixuyaodajiazijiquduomosuoxiala。