先学会爱自己花镇咨询投诉

aiqingliderenhenrongyichanshengzheiyangyizhongcuowudexiangfa：jirantaneimeyouxiu，woneimeaita，huazhenzixuntousu，neimewodangranhuiweitafuchuyiqie，shenzhixishengyixieyemeiguanxi。

shijishangzheishihencuowude。

shouxian，ganqingguanxishifounengzhangjiu，guanjianzaiyu「pingheng」erzi，suiranhennandadaojueduidepingheng，danruguonizongshiyimeidiqufuchu，quxisheng，ganqingguanxijiubuhuixiangpinghengkaolong。zheiyangdeganqingnengbunengchijiushihenbuquedingde。

qici，jiashenimenzaijianliguanxidechuqijiuyourucidadefuchuyuxisheng，neimedangweilailianggerendeganqingquyupingdanshi，nifuchuyueshao，jiuhuijiduifangfachuyigehenhuaidexinhao——“nizhishiweilezhuitacaigangkaishifuchuneimeduo”，suoyijizhuyijuhua，“aideyueshao，aideyuejiu”。

xuduorenzhisuoyihuiyouzheiyangdexiangfa，shiyinweitamenhushileyijianfeichangzhongyaodeshi，neijiushi，tamenhaimeiyouxuehuiaiziji，jiucongmangdiquaibieren。youhaizhichuzaiyu，zaichulifuqiguanxizhongchuxiandewentishi，henrongyiwangzifeibo，kanqingziji，congerdaozhiyishangliangzhongqingkuang。

suoyiwentilaile，womengairuhexuehui「aiziji」?

浪费钱是可取的。

wulunshimangyugongzuohaishimangyuxueye，xuyaoweizijitouzideshihouyaogengguoduanyixie，huazhenzixuntousu，henduorenbuyuanyiweizijihuaqian，jishishichifanyeyaojieyue，shijianjiulehenrongyichanshengpilaogan。womenyinggailejie，wulunshigongzuohaishixuexi，zaizheigeguochengzhong，renmendoushixuyaodedaozhengxiangfankuidecijilaibaochiyigejiaohaodexintai，neimeruhejizijizhengxiangfankuini?yijuhua，shedeweizijihuaqian。jiarunibunenghenhaodekongzhizhuziji，neimeniyejiuwufakongzhizhuzijideqingganle。

给予时不将就。

ranjinzijisuoyoudecaizhihecaineng，shixianzijidelixianghezhixiang。yinweinifuchulejingli，suoyibuyaolinsenidetianfuheshijian。wulunshiqingyouduoxiao，zaizhixingdeguochengzhongdouyaozhaodaodefangfa。yaozunzhongzijidelixianghechuxin，zhiyourenzhendiduidaishenghuo，caiyoukenengzaizheiyiguochengzhongyousuojinbu。

xiangdaozheiyangdeyimiaoyebuhuilangfeishengming，yeshi「aiziji」defangshi。