撩汉技能有哪些？教你几个实用的聊天小技巧

lengdushubaidubaikedebiaoshushiyizhongrangrenjianxinliaorenzhuanyejinengyoushenmexianliao“zheigerenlejiewodeshi”defangfa，yekeyishuoshiyizhonghuodebierenxinlaidejiqiao。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？shiyizhongzaiduanqineineizhangwobierenjinergengqiangdegoutongjiaoliudefangshi。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？jianyanzhibianshiyizhongrenjijiaowangjiqiao，neimalengdushuzailiaorenlideshijiyiyishishenmeni?

撩人专业技能又什么闲聊

一、用挑选替代恳求

zheigeshirenmendeyigechangjianwenti，zaizhiyouyigexuanzexiangdeqingkuangxia，douhuiganjuehuichuxiangengqiangdetiaoxuan，keshiruguoyou2gehuoshi2gezhishangdexuanzexiang，bianhuihenqingsongdezuochutiaoxuan。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？yinci niyizhizaigennixiaidenvshengliaotianshi，yaorangtazuoduoxuan，erbushidanxiangxuanzeti。neiyangniyejiububidanxin，nirengchuqudenantihuibeijujue。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

例如：

moniti：womenquyongcanba/kandianyingba/hedaliangkafeiba

lengdu：womendoushiquyongcanhuanshikandianshiju?/womendoushiqukandianyinghuanshihedaliangkafei?

pouxi：lijishitazuotiaoxuan，fangzhichuxianhenduotichuwenti。

zaiyunanshixiangchuquanguocheng，yitiaoxuandefangshigaozhilingyifang，yekeyikanqilaizishenbuqianghan，dulisikaonengduofangwei，lizaibierendebuweiqudulisikao。lingwairanglingyifang，nanyiyouxindihuijuediaonideqingqiu!

二、用分辨开启话题讨论

nvlengyueduzhe：“worenweinibiaocengjinguankanshangqufangfohenlanqingde”，jianduanxia，“danyinweinibingbushineibanderen，nishijishangduiqinggantingyongxinde，jinjinmeiyujianzijizhenshiaideren”。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

zheierdehanyijiushiniwulunyongnazhongkaiju，zuizhongbixuyongyixialengdu。youliru：“nibiaocengshangkanqilaiduishenmeshiqingdoubuzaiyi，weixiaohencuican，shijishangnidexinlihenfanza，yuyuguahuan，bingbuxiangbiaocengneibanqingqingsongsong。”nineiyangfayan，jizanmeilenanhaizidexiao，youzhuyaobiaoxianchuniduitadeguanzhu，xunsudajiabianhuikaiqihuatitaolun，liaoxialaile。

nengxiyinzhulingyifangyouhuolilajinnishezhideqingjingzhongliao，lejieshuipingdangranjianjianditigaolelingyifangdehaogandu。

三、聊工作中的情况下适度给他们关注，协助他解决困难

zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？dabufenmeirengongzuozhongshishufude，yinci zailiaogongzuozhongdeqingkuangxia，nixuyaoshidudexiaojie，jitamenyidianguanzhu，“niduizishenguidingtaigaole，feichangrongyiweizijichanshenghendadegongzuoyali，shashidouwanmeizhuyizhe，nizijihaizennengkaixinni?”zheihuaqixianzanmeitawanmeizhuyizhe，suihouyoushidudijitamenyidianguanzhu，bangzhutajiejuenanti，zaiyongyuzhuanzhedianyeshilengdudeguanjianzhiyi。

四、至关重要应用方法

1、lengdudeguanjianshiqingting，zheiyeshiquanbuliaotiandejiqiaodejiben。

xingzijidenvhaibubiyigunaodibahuajiangwan，yaoburan，houbianyemeiyouhualiaole，jinyouchongzudizhangwolingyifangdeyaoqiu，shizheduotingtingtashuodao，caikeyitongguotachangshuodehuazhongzhengqueyindaoxiayigehuatitaolundejinxing。

2、yaoliuyijianduan，weichijianghuademansudu，bukeyijirenyizhongniqinglvdechujielun，congcongmangmangfuyansaizedejuede。

youjiezougandejianghua，nengweichixintaiderouhegan，nengzaochengzainanshengyanlishuobailede“qinheligan”。

3、guanxinlingyifangjianghuashide「fuyuyan」erbushineirong，baohanyudiao、zishi、lianbuqingxu、zhitidongzuo，youyuzheizhongcaisuanshizhenshixielouyigerensixudezhongyao，erbushijianghuadeneirongheluojixing，youyuneirongheluojixingshinenggou lijingronghehezhuangshishejide。

4、zhangwozhunjihuizhixinglengdu，lengdudeguanjianshijihui，guozaolingrenganjuenimeiyouzhenshixixintingtajiangwan，taichizaoyicuoguolingyifangdexintaigaoxie，youqianrushen。

liru：jiandanziwojieshaoxianliaoqifenshifangyalidezhuangkuangxia，shidupaochuquzishendexinxineirong：wodemingzijiaoxx，zaixxnianshu/gongzuozhong，nilei?(liuyie，“nilei”zheiliangzihenzhongyao，shizhengqueyindaonanhaizishifangchulaixinxineirongdefangfa。)daliangde，liru：wodemingzijiaomimi，nilei?wozuojingyingde，nilei?wojiaoxinwenxuede，nilei?bianjiandanziwojieshao，biantaochunanhaizidexinxineirong。

 5、nenggou shizheyunyongxianyihouyang，liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？lengdudeqingkuangxiaxianshuolingyifangdequexian，ziranzheiyiquexianbuyaoshuodetaibijiaoyanzhongbianweieyizhongshangjiubuhaole，suihouzaimingquetichunikandaodelingyifangdeyoushi，neiyangkanshangquninenggengweizhenxinshiyi，erqiexianyihouyanghuiranglingyifanggengshiyong。lingwai，shidudiquchujiejuekunnandejihuafangan，diandaoweizhijiukeyi。