别人问你矜持怎么回？聊天技巧有哪些？教你高情商回复

yixiexingqingjiaoweimiantianderen，jiuchangchangbeibierenwennizenmeneimamiantian，ruhezhaohuati？liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？shijishangzheishiyigexingqingyuangu，yinci meiyouyigeguifandehuiying，ruguonipengdaoletarenxunwennimiantianzenmehuini，huoxuxiabianyoutayaoxiangdehuida，zenyangyoumoliaotian？yiqilaikanyixiaxunwennimiantianzenmehuidegaoqingshanghuifuba。

高情商回复

(1)反诘难题。

zenyangyoumoliaotian？fanjiefashitiaochulailingyifangxianjingdechangjianjiqiao，yingguozongtongdaxuanqingkuangxiazheixiezhengzhijiadouxihuanwanzheiyilaobaxi。ruhezhaohuati？liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？

shijishangshizhirengranshi“pokuang”。lingyifangshejifanganyigejiagou，nimeizuanjinqu，xiangfandiujitayigexinjiagou。

youdenantibiaocengrangni2gexuanzexiang，shijishangmeiyourangnitiaoxuan，nitiaoxuannayigehuidaquanshixianjing。

rutongshichangyingxiaoxuenageerxuanyinantifa：“ninyaoyigechajidanhuanshi2ge?”

nvshengwendenankannanti：“jiarunihewomamadoudiaoshenshuili，nixianjiunayige?”

ninengfanjie：“jiarunihewobabadoudiaoshenshuili，nixianjiunayige?”

(2)用“你……”来替代“我……”

yiqiejinijuedenankandenanti，zhiyinweinichangshi“wo……”laihuiyingde。zenyangyoumoliaotian？jiarutiaochulaishejiaoquan，ba“wenti”bianwei“nidewenti”，jiuburongyijuedenankan，wufahuiyingle。

“wo”shipianxiangzishende，shifangyu。yong“wo……”laijiedawenti，quanshibianbo，kanqilaichanruo，yuemiaoyuehei。

“ni”shipianxianglingyifangde，shigongji。yong“ni……”laijiedawenti，tianmangongjinengli，zhengfengxiangdui，qianghanxinxin!ruhezhaohuati？liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？

dagebifang，nilaidahuanvshengshuoxianglejieta，tawen“zenmehuishi?”

jiaruyong“wo……”laihuiying，dahuoernengxiangqidehuiyingshi“worenweinihenpiaoliang……”“wokandaonidiyiyanjiuaishangnini……”“woyoubingbushihuaidan，renshiyixiayoushenmeguanxi。”zheizhonghuiyingyemeiyoufudu。

youyigejingdiandehuiying：“youyunikanqilaibuxianghuaidan。”

zaijugeshili，nijidadaodenvshengfaxinxi，taquezaoyibujidele，huiduanxiaoxi：“nishisheiya?”

jiaruyong“wo……”laihuiying，“woshineiyitiandahuanideayuea……”“woshineiyicidaxingshangchangliwennixuyaohaodeshuainana!”douhenfuqian。

jiarugaicheng“ni……”laihuiying，“heihei，laikannijianghaojiaojiguoduonanhaizile，lianwocongnalilaiyebuhaijidele。”

(3)唠叨的回答。

shuoqilaihengaoxiao，laotaodehuidahuijinikanqilaibutongxunchang。rutongdahuashouyoulimiandeneiyiduanbiaobai：“yiqianyouyiduanchengzhideganqingbaifangzaiwodeyanqian……”

nvshengxunwenni：“nineigeshihouweihehuilaidahuawo?”

jianyidehuidashi：“wodiyiyanjiandaoniyejiuhenyouganjue。”huoshitucaoyidiande：“yinweiwozaihouhuimojineiyitiandeyuwang。”liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？danjiarulaotaoyidian，nigangkaishijiangcunshangchunshudebaifenzhiyibaixiaonvhaixiaoshuo，cuirenleixia、lanman、luolilaotao……shuowanzhihouzhangqidesisuo，yebiekannvshengshuangyan。dengzhenizainiutou，shuranfajue，nvshengzaoyileiwangwangle。