聊天宝典：谈恋爱没话题怎么办？

jianxinrelianguohoudelianrendoushipengdaoneiyangdezhuangkuang，meiyouhuashuojiang，zenyangyoumoliaotian？neimachuduixiangmeihuatigaizenmeban，neiyangzhaobuquehuatitaolun，liaoyiliaoxianghuwangrideqinshenjinglishishidefangshi，gouqilianaishidetianmei。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？haikeyiliaoyiliaopingshiyinshiqiju，shenghuosuoshidounenggou，yaoshirenzhensuishisuidichulichuduixiangmeihuatinanti。

处对象没话题该怎么办

第一：掌握另一方的爱好，顺水推舟

diyicixiangyu，niyaobulejielingyifangaihaodeqingkuangxia，ninengxiantanyitanzishendegerenaihao，maosuizijian，zaixianghudegerenaihaozhongzhaoxunyigexiangtongdian，zheiyidiannenggou yinshen，nenggou henpubian。zenyangyoumoliaotian？lirudouxiaizhaizaijiawanshouji，nandexiaidayouxi，nvdexiaikanju;zailiruwenhuayishuyishuhanyang，nanhaierxiaireqingcijidedjzhonggequ，nvdexiaiwenweneryayazhidedatiqin、datiqin，xunzhaoyigexiangtongdian，haikeyikaizhangoutongjiaoliutaolun。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

hainenggougenjuqq、shoujiweixindengshejiaoruanjian，chaxuntarendexinxineirongcailiao、gerenqianming、shuoshuo、weixinpengyouquandenggegefangmiandexinxineirongkaizhanjianbie，nenggou feichangrongyidehuozhisuozhuiqiuwanmeidenvshengshiyigeshenmeyangderen，baozhengxinzhongyoudi，shunshuituizhou，suihouzhangwoyixieyuehuiliaotiandejihui，fangzhiwencuonantishuokouwu，zaocheng buchenggong。

第二：多讲些无关紧要得话

chuduixiangmeihuatigaizenmeban?konghuahuozheguanxintitiedehua。konghuazuoweiyurenxiangchudegangkaishi，gangkaishibianshixiantan，laideqingkuangxiayoumuyouyongdu，niqudeqingkuangxiaduozhangshijianzheilei，qiwenzheileikonghuadengdeng，bubizhaohuatiliaotian，jinkeneng，goujianyizhongdajiashilaoyoudeyizhongqifen。yizishendeshanyuweixuanzezhutifenggezhaohuatiliaotian。liru，nilejiemoumoumoufandianfeichanghao，naershenmedifanghaowan，jinqichanshengdemoushi，dounenggoubianchengdajiadehuatitaolun。

第三：塑造相互兴趣爱好

zenyangyoumoliaotian？gekaierdi，wulixueshangdexianghuxingquaihaonanyibaochile，danyiranyouhenduodongxinenggou zuo，zheihuirangdajiadegoutongjiaoliuyuelaiyueduozhongduoyang。womaosuizijianxia：yingpian，wenxuelei，gequ，tesemeishi，gerenshouzang……liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

第四，度假旅游，共享旅游中的点点滴滴

bansuizheshenghuodejiezoudejiasuhenianjidetigao，nianqingrendegongzuoyaliyuelaiyueda，chumendujialvyouhuanjieyalibianchengyigeqiangliefanxiangdehuatitaolun，liaoyiliaoxianghulaiguodediquhelvyouzhongchanshengdeyouyisideshi，keyizhangwodaolingyifangdeshenghuoguannianhetadeyixiejiazhiguannian，zheiduitigaoxianghudezhangwohenzhongyao。ciwai，niyaonenggou liaoyixiegongzuocengmiandehuatitaolun，zhangwoxiataduigongzuozhongdexintai、liaoyiliaoniduiweilaideshenghuodezhunbei，rangtalejienishiyigehenyoujinquxinyoushimingganderen，zheiyidianhenzhongyao。

第五，学好做一个幽默搞笑的人

yexuniyizhizairichengbiaorichangshenghuobingbuhuijiangxiaohua、shuogushi，keshijianchibuxiejixinaideguniangfaxieyouqudexiaohua，shijianjiule，ninengchajuezijiyekeyishuoyixieduanzi。shijishang，pingchanghexuduo nvshixianliao，tamendoushiyoutijiguo，xiainanpengyouweizijifayixieduanzileidexinxineirong。duokankanduoxueyidianjingdiandeliaotianduihua，pingchangxianliaoquanguochengzhong，duoyingyongyixietanlianaijiqiao(kanzhewodegongzuojingyanba)，rangtaganjuenishiyigeyouquderen。

第六，聊一聊相互往日的亲身经历

liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？chuduixiangmeihuatigaizenmeban?liaoyiliaoxianghudewangriqinshenjingli，laiguodeyixiediqu，kandaodeyixieren，qinshenjinglideyixieshier，keshijinjibubijiangyixieyansurenzhendenanti，jinkenengbubiduiyixierenhuoshierzuoguoduodepingjia，yaoyishehuizhengnengliangweidaoxiangxing，yingzaozishendegaoshiyongjiazhipinpaixingxiang。qieji：quanbuxianliaoquanguochengyinggaishikaixinde!