如何和女孩子谈恋爱？教你4个实用的聊天小技巧

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处对象聊天的技巧

一、心态调节

zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？youjuhuajiao“xintaizhuangtaijuecechenggongyushibai”，henvhailiaotiandangguanlizhongxinnidexintaizhuangtaihuiweihaidaonvhaiduiniderenzhi。nvhaihuigenjuxuduo guanjiandianlaidiaochanishigeshenmeyangderen!yiqiannihenyoukenengkaolvdaoyiwanggennvshengbiaobai，keshishishishang，nvhaibutaikenengbuqingchunixiaita。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

nvhaihuigenjunidexianliaocishu，yujujianbiaoludeguanzhu，jiqinidehuiyingsulv，laimingquenishibushiduitayouxingquaihao。guodupoqiedexintaizhuangtai，huirangnvhaijuedenipobujidaideyaoxianghuodeta。zainvhaimeiyoubeinixiyinzhudezhuangkuangxia，nvhaizongshixiangtaochuni。

二、先观查再讲话

xuduo dixiongyijianfankuihenvhailiaotianmeiyouhuati，youqishiyikaishidepobingzhilvhuanjie。renzuiguanzhurenyongjiuxingshizishen，yinci pobingzhilvhuanjie，nenggou genjurenzhenguanchazheiyinvhaizaijianghua。nenggou genjutouxiangtupian、weixinpengyouquan、gerenxinxixianzhangwoxianvhai，suihounenggou congzheidangzhongxunzhaodaoliaotianhuati。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？

genjusuoshuguancha，womenkeyizhangwodaolingyifangxihuandeshiwu、xiaideyizheshejifengge、xingquaihaozheixie。jiarujinichongzudexixin，nihenyoukenenghaihuijixuhuozhilingyifangdeyuanxiao、wenping、gongzuozhongzheixie。yongyouzheizhongjiben，jiuwuxudanxinzishenzailiaokouwuhuoshimeiyouhuatile。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

三、找寻适合的机会

nihenyoukenengyihuoyuyizhongduandexianliao，shenmeshihouzaiciliaobijiaohao、liaoshenmehuatitaolunbijiaohao。niwangwanghuikunhuoyuzheigewenti，yuangunimeifamingquelijihenvshengzaixianliao，tahuirangninaxiedefanying。yinweibuquedingxing，yinci huiyihuoyugairuhezhongqi。laoshiduinishuoyigebijiaohaodejihui，nidepengyouquandongtaibeilingyifangguanzhuhuoshipingjiadeqingkuangxia。zheigeshihoujiaoweishiheqiexiaochuangquhenvhailiaotian。

四、不必以便闲聊而闲聊

nihenyoukenenglejiexiangrangnvshengxihuanxihuanni，buhetaliaodianshenmekendingshibuhaode。keshiyoumeiyouhaodexianliaofangshihehuatitaolun，zhiyoubuduandequliaoxiemeiyouyingyangchengfendehuatitaolun，chiwanme、shuilema、ganmaoduoheshui。naizhiyixiedixiongxiaigennvshengshuozaoshanghao、wananhaomeng。gangkaishideqingkuangxialingyifanghenyoukenenghuihuiyingni，keshizhangciyiwangjiuburongyizailicainini。

yinci bubiyibianxianliaoerxianliao，niyaohetaxianliao，niwubiqingxizishenmeiyibuyingdangganshenme、shuoxieshenme，burannidexianliaobianshiyizhongcuican。liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？laoshishenpangdenvhaiyijianfankui，pengdaoneiyangdezhuangkuangdequehendichu。kongbudeshixuduo dixionghaibuyiweiyi。rouruobingbushizuikongbu，kongbushiyumei。