聊天宝典：恋爱聊天技巧哪些好？

xianghenvhailiaotianqueyoubuqingchuruhezhangkou，yuelanzishendeweixinliaotianjilujuedenankandaoburenzhishi，jianxinyijingkanwenzhangneirongdeniyexuyijingqinshenjinglineiyangdekunao。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？jinriwangbianjidahuoergongxiangnvshengliaotianfangfa，bangnibaituonankandejushi，zenyangyoumoliaotian？jiarunipengdaolesuoshuyihuo，neimazheipianwenzhangneirongjiangbangnifajuezhengzhuang，bingduinishuozenyangjiayijiejue。kuailaihewangbianyiqikanyixiayunvshengliaotianfangfayoushenmeba!

女生聊天方法

一、心态调节

zenyangyoumoliaotian？youjuhuajiao“xintaizhuangtaijuecechenggongyushibai”，henvhailiaotiandangguanlizhongxinnidexintaizhuangtaihuiweihaidaonvhaiduiniderenzhi。nvhaihuigenjuxuduoguanjiandianlaidiaochanishigeshenmeyangderen!yiqiannihenyoukenengkaolvdaoyiwanggennvshengbiaobai，keshishishishang，nvhaibutaikenengbuqingchunixiaita。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

nvhaihuigenjunidexianliaocishu，yujujianbiaoludeguanzhu，jiqinidehuiyingsulv，laimingquenishibushiduitayouxingquaihao。guodupoqiedexintaizhuangtai，huirangnvhaijuedenipobujidaideyaoxianghuodeta。zainvhaimeiyoubeinixiyinzhudezhuangkuangxia，nvhaizongshixiangtaochuni。

二、先观查再讲话

xuduodixiongyijianfankuihenvhailiaotianmeiyouhuati，youqishiyikaishidepobingzhilvhuanjie。renzuiguanzhurenyongjiuxingshizishen，yincipobingzhilvhuanjie，nenggougenjurenzhenguanchazheiyinvhaizaijianghua。nenggougenjutouxiangtupian、weixinpengyouquan、gerenxinxixianzhangwoxianvhai，suihounenggoucongzheidangzhongxunzhaodaoliaotianhuati。

genjusuoshuguancha，womenkeyizhangwodaolingyifangxihuandeshiwu、xiaideyizheshejifengge、xingquaihaozheixie。jiarujinichongzudexixin，nihenyoukenenghaihuijixuhuozhilingyifangdeyuanxiao、wenping、gongzuozhongzheixie。yongyouzheizhongjiben，jiuwuxudanxinzishenzailiaokouwuhuoshimeiyouhuatile。

三、找寻适合的机会

nihenyoukenengyihuoyuyizhongduandexianliao，shenmeshihouzaiciliaobijiaohao、liaoshenmehuatitaolunbijiaohao。niwangwanghuikunhuoyuzheigewenti，yuangunimeifamingquelijihenvshengzaixianliao，tahuirangninaxiedefanying。zenyangyoumoliaotian？yinweibuquedingxing，yincihuiyihuoyugairuhezhongqi。laoshiduinishuoyigebijiaohaodejihui，nidepengyouquandongtaibeilingyifangguanzhuhuoshipingjiadeqingkuangxia。zheigeshihoujiaoweishiheqiexiaochuangquhenvhailiaotian。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

ciwai，genjupengyouquandongtaideguancha，womenkeyihuozhinvhaijinqidedongtaixing。jiarunvhaizuijinmeiyoushengjidongtaixing，biaomingtanenggouzaimang。zongeryanzhixiangyaonizixiguancha，zaishihedeshijianquzuoduideshier。

四、不必以便闲聊而闲聊

nihenyoukenenglejiexiangrangnvshengxihuanxihuanni，buhetaliaodianshenmekendingshibuhaode。keshiyoumeiyouhaodexianliaofangshihehuatitaolun，zhiyoubuduandequliaoxiemeiyouyingyangchengfendehuatitaolun，chiwanme、shuilema、ganmaoduoheshui。naizhiyixiedixiongxiaigennvshengshuozaoshanghao、wananhaomeng。gangkaishideqingkuangxialingyifanghenyoukenenghuihuiyingni，keshizhangciyiwangjiuburongyizailicainini。

yincibubiyibianxianliaoerxianliao，niyaohetaxianliao，niwubiqingxizishenmeiyibuyingdangganshenme、shuoxieshenme，burannidexianliaobianshiyizhongcuican。laoshishenpangdenvhaiyijianfankui，pengdaoneiyangdezhuangkuangdequehendichu。kongbudeshixuduodixionghaibuyiweiyi。rouruobingbushizuikongbu，kongbushiyumei。

五、重视闲聊体会并非逻辑性

dajiahenvhailiaotiandemudibingbushiyibianjiejuekunnan，zhishigenjuxianliaorangnvhaizaochengqingxubodong，rangtaduinizaochenglianaideganjue。bushanyancideni，henyoukenengshifendegangtiezhinan。

youyunanshengdeluojixingshixiaojieshide、jiejuekunnanshide，jichangxianliaochulai，nantibeijiejuele，dajiayemeishenmehaoliaodeneirongle;ernvhaideluojixingshipianxiangshixiade，shiyouguanxintaide、tihuide，huatitaolunshizhuisuixintaierdong，renyixiangdaode。

六、问与答意见反馈

jiarugenjushangbiandeneirong，rengranbuqingchugairuhequhenvhailiaotian，zaizheierlaoshiduinishuoyigefeichangjiandandexianliaoshitimoxing：wenyudayijianfankui。

liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？nihenyoukenengjuedezishenqianqueliaotiandehuati，shijishangbingbushizheiyangde。youyuliaotianhuatishinenggouxiangdaohefajuede。jiarujinjindanchunxingdeduiyuliaotiandehuatierquxianliao，huidachuxian，nidexianliaoyejiuyinerwanbi。niyoudezhaoxunxindehuatitaolun，zheishiyigewuxianxunhuan。