如何找话题聊天？恋爱行为学的聊天技巧哪些好？

zuoyigehaodegoutongjiaoliuzhe，zuixianyaotingdedongduifangdeyisi。jinriwangbianjidahuoergongxiangpaoniujiaochengliaotiandejiqiao，jinyougaoqingshangderencaidong。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？haodegoutongjiaoliuzhe，burongyijiqieduilingyifangshuodehuahuozheigerenzuochudianping，caikeyijiyulingyifanggengdadeshineikongjianlaiyunigoutongjiaoliu。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？kuailaihewangbianyiqikanyixiayunvshengliaotianfangfaba!

泡妞教程聊天的技巧

1、学会放下自身自豪的物品

zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？lirurongmao、jianshi、conghuidengquanburangzishendeyiwangxingdewupin，bazijifangjinzuiposhidediqu，yiyigerendewaimaohelingyifangxiangfeng，qutinglingyifangsuobiaoshude。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

2、从另一方表层的語言感受到本质的深层次含意

daduoshuqingkuangxia，dajiadeyuyanquanshifangyuliheyanzang。

liruyouyiweilaoyezi，changchangdeyiwangxingshuo“tarenduitazuishizhongshi”，shishishangtashijiqiquefazixin，bixugenjutarendezhongshi，laizhezhuxinlideqienuochanruo。

ruguonitingdedongletadeyuju，henyoukenengburongyitaifangantaxingxingzuotai，fandaolianmintale。

3、擅于发觉关键点

yixierendeqingganshijiqifanghuhefangyulide，youyutadetongchuconglaimeiyoubeirongxubiaoshuguo。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？dangtashuodao“meishier”deqingkuangxia，chuixiadeshangyanjian、fadoudexiangshengjiqiduosuodeliangshou，zheizhongzhitiyuyandoushichushoutadexinli。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

ciwai，ninengzixiguanchazijilaifajueguanjiandian，jiarunishiyigeduizishendejuedechongzuganxingderen，lingyifangdetongchuchuoqi，shijishangnishifeichangrongyibuhuode。

4、试着自身曝露

xintaidashimakesizaizixunzhong，jiaruqiuzhuzhetidaoduizishenshifenxiaochenxinhan，juedezishenyiwushichushi，tayehuibiaomingzishenchangchangyouneiyangdeniantouhejiongjing。

liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？yincizaigoutongjiaoliuzhong，jiaruniganshoudaolingyifangzheiyidiandehua，qupulugongxiangzishenxinlidequedian，yeshiyigexunsuchuangjianguanliandefangshi。keshizhongyaoyaozhenxinshiyi。