聊天技巧有哪些？恋爱与制作人教你怎么谈恋爱

 jinqihuizhangdeweixinpengyouquanhexinlangweibochukaibeiduorouzhiwubaping，haimomingqimiaoduoleyikuanjiao《lianyuzhizuoren》demalisulianaishouyoudeyingzi。zenyangyoumoliaotian？jinriwangbianjidahuoergongxiangtanlianaiyuzhipianrenxumohuiying，bangyangshilianaijiaoxue。ruhezhaohuati？liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？bubimilianzhipianren，xuehaolenihaikeyi，kuailaihewangbianyiqikanyixiatanlianaiyuzhipianrenhuiyingshiruhedeba!

谈恋爱与制片人许默回应

1、更“贪婪”一点

“wodecunjinchi，yaonidesuoyou”

——许墨

 zenyangyoumoliaotian？chuduixiangshi，bixuliangrendougengwei“tanlan”yidian。yinweiai，yinci “tanlan”yunijiaowangdemeifenmeimiao。budan“tanlan”niderujin，gengxiang“tanlan”nidejianglai。zheileishidude“tanlan”，shijilingyifangdeyizhongyilaixingyuxinlaigan。ruhezhaohuati？liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？

2、电話不一定能秒回

但一定要回

“paodancongwoerpangcaguodeqingkuangxia，

woxiangqidejingranshihaimeiyouhuinindedianhua”

——高渐离

 renzonghuiyoufanmangdeshike，buyidingnengmiaohuixinxineironghedianhua。danqianwanbuyaowangdiao，kongxianchulaishiyidinganzhuhuibajian，jiusuanshiyigejianyidehuiying。bubirangreqingdeguanaitunmeizaizheixiezanshiwufajietongzhong。ruhezhaohuati？liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？

3、相互共享与担负

“zhihoupengdaoshenmewenti，

gaiyaowojiububizishenshabeizhe。”

——李泽言

 youxierenshuo，xihuanshihaodeyiqigongxiang，eraiqingshihuaidexianghudanfu。zenyangyoumoliaotian？shide，liangrenzaiyiqidouhuiyushangnanti，qingkuangchanshengshidiyifanyingbuyinggaishizhize，zhishiyiqifentanxianghuchuli。

4、给TA归属感

“跟着无需怕，

wulunfashengleshenmedouyouwozai”

——周棋洛

 haodeaiqingyinggaishijirennengliangde，neileinengliangshixiangqilingyifangjiuganjueningjing，shilejielingyifangshizhongbuhuilikaidejiandingbuyi，shilejiewulunnishenmeyangzilingyifangdouaizhenidexinlai。

 nenggou zaicuozheshi，xiangyaojiliheshiyongta;shizaitajiabanjiadianhenwanjinjiashi，huijitaxiayiwanmianchi;zaitadanxiaohaipazouyeludeqingkuangxia，shuoyiju“lizaineibianbuxudong”，wojieni…zheiyiqie，quanshiyibianrangtaganshoudaoanquanxinghebeizaihu。

5、爱的小套路

“zhenqiaoazaizheiliyujianni”

“zaohuanongren，wozaidengni”

——高渐离

 “ziguyilaiqingshenwufaliuzhu,huanshitaoluderenxin。”qinglvrichangzhongdexiaodadonglaiyuanyugoutongjiaoliu，wuyijiandeyijunuanxinduanjunuandeshitadequanbuxinshi。yaoxiangtianmimidetanlianai，youshihouyebixuqinghuaxiaotaolu。

6、学好思维方式变换

 jiaruninanyoumailaizuixinkuanshoujierji，zhengtiqianzhunbeisongqudeqingkuangxia，caifajuenanyouzaoyizishenmailai。ninanyouhuiruhezuo?

 youxili，jizhouqiluosongshoujierjideqingkuangxia，zhoumengmengtianshibaobeidezuofazhenshirujiaocaiyiban：tajienalenisongdeshoujierji，youbazijimaideneifuerjijini。zhouqiluohaishuo，neiyangbudantashoudaolenidelipin，niyecongtaneibianshoudaoleyifenlipin。

 liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？xuehaohuanweisikaoyixia，lizailingyifangdeshijiaotitakaolv，dangyushangnantishi，xuanyongbianhuanxingfasansiwei，jiunengjiechuxianghudenandian。