如何和刚认识的女生聊天？这些聊天攻略赶紧收好

 heganglejiederenxianliaoyizhihuichuxianyixiexiedexiuse，zenyangheganglejiedenvshengliaotianni?liaotiangonglveyounaxie？jiarunizaoyijianghenvhailiaotiandeziranhuanjingdahaola，neimahenvhailiaotiandequanguochengbianhuiyuelaiyuefeichangrongyi，liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？yinggaizenmedashan？xiabianjiuhewangbianyiqikanyixiaheganglejiedenvhaiyaozenmeliaoliaoba!

怎样和刚了解的女生聊天

一、女人是情绪不稳定微生物

dajiajuhaoduogepubiandeshili。

niyaobatayuechuqu，silaixiangqu，nixiangchuquleyigeliuyi：qingtayongcan。

yibandenanhaizihuizenmejiang?

“libaitianyoushijianma?wojuedeniyaochigefan。”

 liaotiangonglveyounaxie？jiarudajiayiqianmeiyoujingliguoyiqiedemaixiafubi，neimazheihuachurukoukendingshiyaobeijujuede。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？yinggaizenmedashan？

 dajiabazheihuaqiefenyixia，“wojuede”liangzichedidepululenidenanxingsiwei，wuchushi“libaitianyoushijianma?”huanshi“wojuedeniyaoyongcan。”

 zheizhonglizudiandoushiyiyigenanshengdeshijiaoqukaolvdaode，zheiyejiuyiweizhelequhuoshimeiqu，zheiyizhudaoquanbawozailenvshengdeshouli。

zaiyiduanhunyinguanxigangkaishiyiqian，nanhaizishouchongdongdecaozong，ernvxingkaodeshixintaidecaozong。

huanjuhuashuo，jiaruxiangrangyaoyuechuangli，neimazaizheiliyiqian，nixuyaochongfenkaolvnvhaidexintai。

yincizheihuaqiadangdefangfayingdangzenmejiang?

“niweixinpengyouquanfadenageniubakanqilaizhenhaokan，youshijianyedaiwoyiqiquchangyichangba，xiangxinnidepinwei!”

 haoduogeguanjianzi，chedidezhaoliaolaidaonvhaidexintai，jiangwanyihou，yaoshidajiayihoudexianliaobuchuxiannaxiechazi，jinhoudeyaoqingdabufensuanzuochuanglile。

 liaotiangonglveyounaxie？zheiyishilijiukeyihenqingqingsongsongdezhengshi，zaixianliaodequanguochengzhong，nvhaidaliangdeshizaihuyunixianliaodeqingkuangxia，zishendexintaishiruhede。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？yinggaizenmedashan？

meiyourenxiaiheyigeyiliaozishenjiuyiduziqiderenxianliao，meiyigerendouxiaiheyouyoumofengquderenxianliao，zenmehuishi?

youyufahuoshixiaojiqingxu，eryoumoderennenggourangzishengaoxing，yincinishenpangdezheixiedoub，jihuyebuquexiaonvhai。

二、用首因效应去吸引住她与你闲聊

rendemingshudeying，jibianmeiyoujiguanshiyedanweihun，nidepinpaixingxiangyeshishifenguanjiande。

 zheierdajiashuoqiyixiashouyinxiaoying，shuobailedeshouyinxiaoyingyijuhuaguinabianshi：diyicijianmiannijinvhailiuyoudeyinxiangnenggoulijiweihaitaduinideguandian。

 jiarunvhaidiyimiandeyinxiangtebiehao，neimayihoudexianliaozhongtahuiqingbuzijindebeinixiyinzhu，jiusuannizhenzhengdemoyanghetasuolejiedexiangjuleshiwanbaqianli，tayehuiqinfenbazheilianggechedibuyiyangdexiangxiangxiangyiqikao。

yincizheierdajiabianshuoyixia，zaigangkaishixianliaoyiqian，nigaijiaruqugoujianzheiyishouyinxiaoying。

 ruguoshixianxiatuiguangdedahua，diyicijianmiannixuyaojinkenengzhuyaobiaoxiandeshifangyali，daqi，fuzhuangdedang，neiyangbudannengtishengnixuyaodaoweixinhaomadegailv，bingqieyihoudajiadexianliaozhong，taduinideyinxiangyehuishidiyicijiannideqingkuangxiaxuduonianyihou。

ruguoshiweixinshangjiade，lingyifangbingmeiyoujianguoni，neimaniyejiubixucong2gecengmianqudajianzheiyishouyinxiaoying。

1.微信图像

 rujinxuduonanshengxihuanchuxing，gou，yuanlinjingguanzuoweiweixintuxiang，henvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxiashibunengyongzheizhongtouxiangtupian，buxiangxinninengfanyixianidepengyoumulu，zhiyaoshiyonglewojiangdezheisangedangtouxiangnanren，baifenzhijiushiquanshisishizhishangde，jianghuiyeyouhaoduogesanshizhishangde，zheizhongtouxiangtupianmeifazuodaoxiyinzhunvhai，shidetiaoxuanshiyongyizhangxiangjindezipaizhaodeshuaigedezhaopian，huoshiyongjiaoweiwenyifaner，keaidetouxiang，shuaigedezhaopianhuirangnvhaibuyouzizhudejuedenizijihexiangpianshangkanqilaiyingdangleisi，erwenyifanerdetouxiangtupianhuirangnvhaijuedenijiaoweiyousuzhi，duliyoudianerheimoshui。

2.微信朋友圈

 zaimeiyoupengmianyiqian，lingyifangzhangwonideguanjianfangshibianshiweixinpengyouquan，jiarunidepengyouquanzhongquanshiyajia，jizandedongtaixing，lingyifanghuijuedenishigefeichangxiaitanbianyideren，erduixiaowanyishaideguoduo，lingyifangbianhuijuedenishigeweishangdaili，xiaojiqingxufadeguoduo，lingyifanghuijuedenishigeqingxubuwendingderen。

 qiadangdeweixinpengyouquangoujianfangfayingdangyizhanxianzhudao，zhanxianrichangshenghuo，zhanxiangongzuozhong，jinkenengfayixiaxiuguodexiangpian，jinjibubifazishendechouzhao。

三、把握话题讨论拓宽的方法

 ganglejiedeqingkuangxianiduilingyifangbingbulejie，xuduohuatitaolunbuqingchuruhequjinxing，yincibujiujiaweixinhaoyoudeqingkuangxia，xuehaoquyouxiaodetuokuanhuatitaolunshijianhenzhongyaodeshi。

liru，kaichangcijiangwanle，jibenqingkuangzhangwowanhou，niyejiubuqingchushuoxieshenmele。

ninengwenyiju：ganshani?wenwanyihoudengnvhaihuiying，tiqianzhunbeituokuanhuatitaolun。

nvhaihuiyingshuo：“kandianshijuni。”

 “kandianshiju”zheiyiquanguochengbianshigehuatitaoluntuokuandedian，zheigeshihouniyejiunenggoushuoyixiashixiahuozaideyixiedianshilianxuju，lirunenggouhuiying：

“ai，jinqixinshangde《chuanwenzhongdechenqianqian》nikankanlemeiyou?”

 buguanlingyifangshuokanhuanshibumingbai，jinjinweiraozhedianshijizheiyihuatitaolundouzaoyituokuanchulai，jiexiaqujiugensuiduizhengzhiliao，takanguonaxieniyejiuliaoshenme，liaolibiandeyouxijiaose，liaokanguodianshijideqingxu，liaozhutigedaodishisheixiezuode，liaodianshilianxujupaishedequanguochengzhongyounaxiejingcaifenchengdehuatitaolun。

 jibianmeiyoukanleyemeishier，yibianbaidusousuoyibianshuohaikeyi，xianliaodemudibingbingbushiyidingshuoqiqingxizishenduizheiyijuyouduozhangwo，duojiangliangsanju，hundaolianshu，tishengyixiexianliaodeshushigancaisuanshizhenshidemudi。

 liaotiangonglveyounaxie？congxianliaodeyagen，daoxiyinzhulingyifangyunixianliao，zuizhongyouxiaodetuokuanhuatitaolun，youxiaodebawolezheijigefangmian，ganglejiejiebeixinxunsujiunengqingsaozhengjie，shuobailewankaitounan，yaoshitiqianzhunbeiqiadang，shiyongfangfakexueyanjiu，meiyouzhenshidenan。