跟女生聊天总是冷场怎么办？如何把聊死的天聊回来？看这里

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youyutamenheneiyangdenvshengxianliao:

qinjiejie:tingwennishiyishi，feichanghao！

男孩儿:非常好！

qinjiejie:nichangchangpengdaolurenma？

男孩儿:不！

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(死寂)

qinjiejie:niweishenmebucaiyicaiwoshiganshenmede？

男:财务会计

qinjiejie:wa！！meiyoucuo。nizenmecaizhongde？

nanhaier:wosanjiumulaiyiqianbianshuoyiguo！

……

(死寂)

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第二，知彼知己，不战而屈人之兵

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闲聊:

genjuhewojiejiexianliao，zhaodaotadeaihao。

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第三，创建相同点和感情联络

shuobailexiangtongdianjiushizhinenggou huxiangcanjiadeshier。gengjutidishuo，zheisigeci“zuonixiaide”。

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 jianyanzhi，bianshiyijusoujidaodeqinmeimeidexihaojizijibuxi，jianyi！yaoshidajiajinjiaodaqinfen，dajiajiunengzaojiuchu“zhixin”dechuxianhuanjue。

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