怎样提高情商？如何高情商问候女孩吃没吃饭？

 zhuiqiunvshengbingrangtaganshoudaodajiadeguanzhuheguanxinshiwanbizheiyiduanguanliandehaofangfa。biru，wennvsheng，“nichiguolema？”“nizaiganma？”“youduolei？”zheixie。dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？shubuzhi，jiarunimeiriwenneiyangyigezhijieledangdenanti，suirannizhuyaobiaoxianchuguanzhu，nvshengzaijiaozhangyiduanshijianhoujiangnanyibimiandijuedewuqu。liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？

 dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？jiexiaqu，bianxiaojiangjiaomeiyigerenzenyangwenhaoyigexintaigaozhishangdenvsheng，wuluntachibuyaochi，neiyangniyizhizaibiaoshunideguanzhushijiuburongyibeitadezuile。liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？

一、低情商智商的问女生吃没用餐

1、立即讲出目地

 yibanlaishuo，niwenyigenvhaishibushichiguowupin，taxianghebierenjianghuahuoshiyuebierenchulai。jiarunvshengxiangyaohuiyingni，neijinjindaibiaozhetaxianghenijianghua，danbingbudaibiaozheninengzhuonongta，yuetachulai，biru:

男生:你吃过了吗？

女性:不，为何

男:我你要吃。

nvxing:dajiaxianghuzhangwoma？

nansheng:wolejietajihui。

女士:…..

 gennvhaiziliaotianshi，niyuekuaiduinvshengbiaodaaiyi，niyejiuyuehuirangnvshengganjueniqianqueai，niduinvshengdezhenchengzongshishi“guizhetian”。tazongshiganjuenimeiyouyingxiangli，jinyouzheixiemeiyouyingxianglideyouxiurencaihuiyuanyihezishenxianliao。

2、闲聊不容易回应得话

 dajiayizhihenguaiyi。henduonanhaieryicicibiaoshuleduinvshengdeguanzhu，dannvhaimenbingbutongyi。huoxuyouyicitamenhuihouhuimojiyuanyi。dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？henduonanhaierbuqingchuzenyanghuiyingzheigewenti，liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？biru:

nansheng:nvwang，niyaomeiyongcanma？

nvxing:wohaimeiyouyongcan。zenmela？youshenmeshima？

nansheng:e，wohaimeiyouyongcan

nvxing:jiaruniyaoyuewoyongcan，wohenyuanyi。

nan:keshiwoyijingchiguole，bukeyilaidao

女士:…

 nvhaimenzaoyibiaoshuleduinanhaiermendeai，dannanhaiermenxianeryijianbuqingchugaishuoxienaxie，tamenbuyuanyiyongcandeweimingyaoyuenvhaimen，zheibudanshuomingnanhaiermenbuhuiliaotian，bukeyiliaomei，yeshuomingtamenbanshifangfaculu。

3、闲聊时用劲开启

nan:meizi，nichiguolema？

nvxing:niyoushenmedongxima？

nansheng:meiyouwupinwoyezhaobuzhenibu？

女士:…

nansheng:jiarunimeijinshi，wonengjiedainide。

nvxing:jiwoyigeheniyiqiyongcandeyuanyin。

nansheng:wozuixihuanni，nijiangwosuanjinquma？

nvxing:haohua，nixihuanwo，woyexihuannima？

nansheng:jiaruniyaoxihuanwo，zheibushibutaikenengde

 dangyigenvhaidexianliaoxintaibutaihaoshi，ninengyoujinpogan。biru，“niyoushenmedongxima？”".."quanbuzheizhongdoushuomingnvshengbuyuanyunixianliao，yincizaiciguizhetianzongshirangnvshenggengwuqu。

二、情商高的问女孩吃没用餐

 jiarunixixinkanyixiazheiyi，ninengfajuenvhaimendui“nichiguolema？”youyunvshengshouxintaicaozong，xiangneiyangxianliaonenggou jitamenchanshenghengaodexintaiganshou，erlijiguidingnvsheng“chi”xianeryijianbukeyiqudongqinvshengdexintai。

eryaoyuenvshengyongcandemudizhibuguoshixianliaohuoyaoyue，neimawomenkeyicongzheizhongfangshizhongtichuwenti:

 1.yongcandeqingkuangxia，jinvhaifalexiangshenghuoshitongdianhuagaozhitawotingjiannidefubugangkaishigugugujiao。linihenjinyouyijiacanyindian。ziranhuanjingfeichanghao，weieryehenhao。niyidingxiai。shiwomenhenhencuoba！

 2、yijunvshengdechicunwennvsheng，jiarupianshou，shuonitaishoule，yingdangduochixie，woniyaochimeiweide，niyidingxiai。jiaruzheiyinvshenglveweipangyidian，neimatashuotazhangbupang，bingqieyiranjianfeishoushen。jinritahuiliwaiyuwoyiqiquchimeiweideshiwu。

 3.ninengwennvhaimenmeirichisha。ninengjiwoxiangyixiang。dangnvshengduinishuohuidashi，ninengkeyijiecijihuiyaoyuenvsheng:“nishuodehuahenmeiweima？dajiayiqiquyongcanba。”

tingshuoxincanyindiandeshicaishoufeibiaozhunbugao。wulunruhe，buxiangxin。dajiaweihebujinianqingdelaozongyigejingyanjiaoxunni？

woxiangnimeiyongcan，suoyiwotizaoniyaoyongcan。

 6.jiarunijinqibunengchixinlashiwudeshicai，shiwomenchidiankouweidande。niyidingxihuanwotiaoxuandezheigedianpu。tagaosuwochitaduinidejifuhenyouyichu。

 7.fayizhangmeiweishiwudexiangpian，shuoniyidingduziele。liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？jiaruzheiyinvshengshuotaduziele，neimawonengshuoyinweiwoduziele。wodehaopengyoujilaiwode。taikehenle。womingbaiyijiabizheigengqiangdedianpu。rangwomenyiqishiyixia。