聊天找话题，不知道和妹子聊什么该怎么办？教你4个技巧

 ruhejiaopengyou？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？zhuinvshengshi，xianliaorangdixiongmenzuitoutong。yujiejiexianliaoyizhibuqingchuyaotannaxiehuatitaolun，yizhimeiyouzhenduixinghemudexingditaolunyixiehaowujiazhidehuatitaolun。meiduojiu，wobiaomeijiushiquxingquaihao，manmanyuelaiyuefuyansaize。liaotianzhaohuati，zhaoshenmehuaticainengjiaodaonvpengyou？

 jiexiaqu，wojiangjiaonisizhongfangshilaixiezhunibaituozhuinvshengshixianliaodejiannan。ruhejiaopengyou？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？buqingchuhemeizhiliaoshenmeyinggaizenmeban？sigefangshijinihuatitaolunchixudiyizhang。

一、往上想到法

wangshangxiangdaoshishishangshiyijuduifangdeyisilaixiaojiede:

nvshi:“yanfangongzuozhong”

 nanshi:“niwubixiexiezheiyifengongzuozhongdailainidejianku。nirenweiqisecaihongmeiyoujinglimonanhuizenmeyang？”liaotianzhaohuati，zhaoshenmehuaticainengjiaodaonvpengyou？

nvshi:“yibuaiqingzuimeili”

nan:“shiwomendagedu。jiaruniyizhizaiyinianneizhuiruqingwangni？”

dangdabufenrenpengdaozheileishiershi，tamenyibanyaoshuo，xiexidehenlei，sheihuisunhainierbujuedeshangxin......

 wulunnizenyangshuodongta，tahuanshiyouyugongzuozhonghuotichufenshouerjingshenpibei。nideyigewangshangdexiangdaohuijiangniqinmeimeisongdaoniyutazhongjian，tashiluojisiweishangdechabie。

 kuanweiyigerenbuyongniduojiang，rutongyigeqinjiejielaizhaotadedajieshiduzitengyiyang。meiyoushidefangshishuodongta。fanguolai，tayingdanggenggaitaqinjiejiedeqingxu。tashizuiyouxiaodekuanwei。bubirangtaquxiangfashengshenmeshi。ruhejiaopengyou？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？

buqingchuhemeizhiliaoshenmeyinggaizenmeban？sigefangshijinihuatitaolunchixudierzhang

二、往下想到法

shijishang，wangxiaguanxishiyijuciyilaixifenhuaxianghu:

nv:“wojinqiyizhishimian。”

nanshi:“kanshangqushigongzuozhonghuanshiganqingzaochenglezaihuo。”

nv:“wofeichangxihuanpengzhi。”

nansheng:“shizhendema？jiarurangniyitiaoyu，nihuizenmezuo？”

 nijuededeyueda，niyejiunengcongyitiaoyudeshenshangkaiqichengqianshangwandehuatitaolun。niyiranjuedenanyixunzhaoyigehuatitaolunma？tashiwangxiaguanxifa。liaotianzhaohuati，zhaoshenmehuaticainengjiaodaonvpengyou？

buqingchuhemeizhiliaoshenmeyinggaizenmeban？sigefangshijinihuatitaolunchixudisanzhang

三、向后想到法

xianghouguanxishishishangshigenjuxianghudeciyi，xianghoutuozhan:

nvshi:“dajiajianghuimeiyouyunshi。”

nan:“yizhongrenweilaihuixiangfengde。weiheneimebubian？”

 lakailingyifang，bubijiqiebiaoshunidezhenxinshiyi，youyulingyifangzaoyijujueleni，zheishinikendingbuhuibeiyiqieyigenvhaijiena。

 yinweiyigerenwubikaolvdaoyigejuecehenzhangqi，erbushihuran。cixiangjuecebukeyizaiduanqineineidadao。nixuyaozaojiuyigejiyuweizijiyigepanhuanhezaicixiyinzhu。

lakainiqinmeimei，tahuiganjuenimeiyouyali，yinciweilaihuichuxiandaliangdechupengjiyu。shibaoshimeiyouyiyide。

xianghouxiangdaoshishijiandexianghoujianshenyundongkong。zhenduijianglaidexiangxiang，jiemianqingjingnenggou yijuzhuangkuangkaizhanshidudetuozhanheqianru。

“woxiangheniyiqizouzaizuiyongdu、zuirenaodediqu，suihouqiaoqiaolazhenideshou。”

buqingchuhemeizhiliaoshenmeyinggaizenmeban？sigefangshijinihuatitaolunchixudisizhang

四、平行面想到法

yijuqinmeimeideciyihuoguanjianzilaigangkaishiyigepingxingmiandehuatitaolun:

女:“你在干嘛？”

nan:“gangchile，rujintiqianzhunbeixiexi。”

zheileijixieshebeidehuiying，zainayihoujiumeiyouhuatihaotanle，qinjiejieyizhishuoeeaanijuedenantidaodishishei。

ninengyongnijiejiedeguanjianzilaituozhannidejiaotan，liruqinjiejiexunwennijinriganlenaxie。wozhengzaimaidongxi。wotaileile。

womenkeyijiangzheizhongguanjianciyongyibingxingchuliguanxi:

"jinriwohepengyouquyongcan，fajueleyijiashifenmeiweikekoudedianpu。"

"nibuxiangzaimaidongxishiyuwolanmandiouyuma？"

“shiwobuhao，zheihuijinileide。”

 liaotianzhaohuati，zhaoshenmehuaticainengjiaodaonvpengyou？genjuzhishangsizhongfangshi，niyunijiejiebudannengyizhichangshundigoutongjiaoliu，hainengbuzhibujuegouqitadeganqing，rangtajianjiandiduiniganjueshushi。