liaotiangonglveyounaxie?youshininengpobudeyiyingduiyixienvyouduinimingquetichudeshaonaoti,liru,nvyouxunwennixihuanwoshenmea,neiyangyaozenmehuifubijiaohaoni?qianwanbiewanchengshaonaotile,wangbianjiandaoyigepenyoudehuiyingnvyouxunwennixihuanwoshenmechengdeshangzhengquedaanle,liaotianmeihuatizenmeban?yinggaizenmedashan?xiabianjiuhewangbianyiqikankanba!
nvxingdabufenquanshiquefaanquangande,zaihenanhaizidexiangchuzhongyishiruci。liaotiangonglveyounaxie?tongchangheyigenanshenglianai,keshiyouhusiluanxiang,yinerchangchanghuiwen“nixihuanwoshenme”neimeyigenanti,meiyicinanhaizidoubeiwendehenxinfan。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban?yinggaizenmedashan?
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他说道的是:
“nigenggailewodeyixiejianjiea。zhiqianwoyizhijuedexihuanyigerenmeiyouliyoude,haowuyiwenbuyong。danshiyujianniyihouwofaxian,zheijuhuaxiangxinlezheimeduoniandehua,shicuode。nirangwoganjuebixu,henshehuadebixu。jiarushuoyuanyin,neibianshijiusuanxianzaiwomeiyunidaizaiyiqi,keshigennizaiyiqidiannaodazixianliaodeqingkuangxia,huanshinengjuededaonidecunyou。henxuwupiaomiao,erwodequenengjuededao。wonaizhidounengjuededao,dajiaxianliaodeqingkuangxia,niyoushineixinhuixiao,huiwennuanyixie。zheizhongyichangdetihui,yinweiwohuichuxian,woyebuzhidaoshibushiaiqing。danshiworenweiniyizhizaizhenbanga。jiusuanyixiebugaoxingde,gaoxingdedouhao,dangnihewoxianliaodeqingkuangxia,bianhuijuedeniyizhizai,dajiajiuzaiyigefengbishideziranhuanjingli,weiyouniwo。”
剖析之后,这句话关键点小结以下:
1、注重另一方存有的与众不同使用价值
“jiushinigenggailewoxinyangleneimejiudeniantou”,“nirangwoyuelaiyuegengjizhi”,sheitaoyanjiushiyileidecunyou。
2、原因并不是来自于另一方
liaotiangonglveyounaxie?shexiang,jiarunijuedewoainishiyouyunihaokanshiyouyunishencaimiaotiaoshiyouyunixingqingyouyichengjihaoshangmenjiajiaohao,nvhaiyiju“xxbiwopiaoliangbiwogexinghuarutongwoblablablanizenmetaoyanta”,huoshi“neishifouzhihoupengdaogengqiangdenijiuyaoxiaitarenle”jiunengduzhuni。
yinciyuanyinyaolaiziyubenshen,guanjiannenggou fangdao“gennizaiyiqi,wohaoxiangfashengbianhuayigeren”,nvhaishijishangdoudanchunxinghaopianyouziyiweishi,zongjianxinshijieshang“feizishenbuneng”deneiren,zheiyijushuochulaizhengzhongxiahuai。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban?yinggaizenmedashan?
3、委婉是真心实意之母,真心实意是撩妹的爹
meizhiyaodeshiguishugan,tianerbunidenuanxinqinghuasheidouxiangting,kewujibifandekuazhanghuilingrentishengbuanquangan。ganwanbieshuo“woxihuanni”“wojuedezhaoliaoniyibeizi”“jiandaonidiyiyanwoyewufazibadijuecele”zheileide。
nikankankaishineimazhangyiduan,quanpiandouweilijiti“woduomededuiniyouganjue”,aijindeyijushi“woyebuzhidaoshibushiaiqing”。woneishihoukanguozhihouganshoudaodeshiyigebujiujinjunganqingdenanhaier,kaixinjiaolvqingxuyoujidong,zheizhongganjuexiangjilenvshifanhuachideqingkuang,qilegongmingdian。
ciwai,lingyifangdeweiwanyouyibudingqudechenggongjiqinvxingyushengjulaidetianxingguangyun,texiangjiejiulingyifang,batacongchiyizhonglachuqushitafangzhi“nitmbianshixihuanwo,zheitmshiaibiecaiyileshazi!”。
4、代入感
zheisangezibudanshiyonggaobai,haiheshifengxianyuyiqielianaidejieduandenuanxinqinghua。changchuangzuoderendong,dairugandejiegoubixuguanjiandianhexintaizhuangtaixushu,qudechenggongdedairuganjiegougengfeichangrongyijianglingyifangdaidaonishezhihaodeqingjing。
shangyuanwenzhongnage“fengbishideziranhuanjing”bianshiqudechenggongdedairugan,yiqiandebicizhijianqingyimaixiafubineimejiu,zuizhongdoudiaoyigeyounizaiwozuyidefengbishiziranhuanjing,nvshengyixiajiuzhaojiabuzhule。
liaotianmeihuatizenmeban?yinggaizenmedashan?pingchangxiangchuzhong,cuobujifanglaiyiju“xinturan,nuanleyixia”,“tuimaleyixia”,zheizhongquanshihuamianganjiaoqiangdeguanjiandianmiaohui,yongxindewupinnvhaifeichangrongyidadongdao。
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