和女生初次聊天话术哪些有效？怎样提高情商？

 dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？henduoxiusedenanhaizibuqingchudiyicihenvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxia，yaoliaoshenmehao，henvshengdiyiciweixinliaotianjiqiao900jukeyubukeqiu，tanlianaixinshoukanguolai，diyicihenvhailiaotianwuxuguodujinzhange!liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？

和女生第一次闲聊的话术开场白：

一、自来熟闲聊

 1、dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？“kanzheniweixinpengyouquandexiangpian，woxiangdaolewodelaotongxue，juedeyixiazifanhuileershi”(zanyang)liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？

2、“dabolangjuandexiufajiashangnidedairongwaiyi，kanqilaininhaoyouqizhi”(guanjiandianzanyang)

3、“xiaoyemaoruhehaibushui”(qiwaihao，shiyongyeli)

4、“xingzuoshushangshuodajiajinriheshixianliao”(shengchanzhizaohaoqixin)

5、“nideyizhehenyouyizhongttaiyunwei，juedenidechuanyifenggeshifenfeichanghao”(lengdu)

二、展现高使用价值

 1、“xianzaiwoquanshenjuedechongmanlenengliang，bujiuzaijianshenhuisuoduanlianleyigexiaoshi，rujinhuijialexianzao”(zhanxianchuzishenxiaiyundongjianshen，youyizhongjiankangdeshenghuofangfa)

 2、“hepenyouyiqichuquyongcan，daoxianzaidoudouhaimeishangcan，juedeyaoetilitouzhile(diuyizhanggaoduandaqidecantingzhaopian)”(zhanxianchuzishenderichangshenghuopinwei)

3、“jinqidajiaqiyeyouhenduoxinxiangmuyaozuo，meiridoumangchenggou”(zhanxianchuzishendejinquxin)

4、“meiyicidajiaqiyejuhuihuodong，tamenbixutuiwodengtaigechang”(zhanxianchuzishenpingehao、huigechangdezhuanzhang)

 5、dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？“xiaizheileiwujuwushu、wujushudejuede(diuyizhanglvyouzhaopian)”(zhanxianchuzishenaihaolvyou、richangshenghuofengfuduocai)liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？

三、情绪不稳定闲聊

1、“pingwo20henduoniankanmingdepanduanli，woganjuenidexingqinghenxiangmao”

2、“dajianvxingdediliuganzhenzhun，dajiananrenzaidajiayanqianjiufangfomeichuanyifu”

3、“nizhunbeiyaoshouchudianshanrangquantiandiquanbudenvxingdoudujinibu”

4、“jinguannikanqilaitinghua，danlaolaoshishidebiaomianxiaqueyanzangzheyikebusuibianfushudexin”

5、“kanzhenixiangpianbangwoyizhonghenwenyifanerdejuede，bingqiewenyifanerdenvhaiyibandoujiaoweilanman，nishineiyangdema”

和女生第一次闲聊得话术

第一次和女孩聊天的推销话术：

一、不必顺从女孩

 zheinenggoushuochengjuedaduoshubeiyongtai、maidanxia、zhuiqiuwanmeihenduonianweiguodixiongdeguanlianxing，keyishuotashizhuinvhaiziquanguochengzhonghenyanzhongdeyizhong“diaosi”luojisiwei，neizaiqingganzhong，shenmeshi“diaosi”ni?jianyieryan，buxunvxingdongnaojindenanrendoushi“diaosi”，liruwuxucaijiulejieninengdaozaowuwananhaomeng，falexinxineirongjiulejieniyidinghuichuxian，shuohaoguimimaigebaobao，zishenbushede，jiunengjiedaodahongbao...zheixie，tounaodouwuxudongle，nirangnvshengzenmexindong?

 jilao，nanshengwubishiyouzhengjingshide，nilaiquyuelingyifang，zhiyoukanqilaini“meiyounvrenxihuan”，bingqiemeiyouzishendebiaozhun，yigemeinvshengxihuan，meiyouzishenbiaozhun(haikeyijiao“nanxingfengcai”)denansheng，shimeifaxiyinzhudaonvxingde，shuzuiduoyejiushidanggebeiyongtai、maidanxia。

二、新鲜感

 doulejienvrenxihuanlanman/yiwaijingxi，duiyiqieshenmideshiqingdoutianmanhaoqixin，shijishanglanman/yiwaijingxiyeshixinxiangandeyizhong，danxinxianganbushishuo“buqingchudewupin”，nibunengjimeizhijiangniudundeliangzilun，yebukeyijiangshidifenhuojinshijianjianshi，ziran，jiarumeizhishige“nvboshi”neijiushilingyishuo，xinxianganjiushizhi“yugaoshiyongjiazhimiqiexiangguandebuqingchudewupin”，ergaoshiyongjiazhidaliangdeshizhinideqingshangzhishang、richangshenghuo、gerenxingwei、guannian、gerenaihaozheixie。yinci womenyaorangnvhaizhuomobutoudajiadegerenxingwei、siweifangshi。

三、推拉门

 tuilamennenggoushuochengjifanvhaixintaidechaobisha，shenmejiaotuilamenni?tui，bianshixuanyongyixiexiangduixingxiaochendeyuyanhuoshigerenxingweifouren、huijue、tucao、tiaozhanlingyifang，rangtajuedeniduitameiyouyiqiehanyidegerenxingwei;labianshixiangduixingde，dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？xuanyongxiangduixingjijizhudongdeyuyanhuoshigerenxingweiquhaowuyiwen、qinmijiechu、zanyang，xiyinzhulingyifang。erzherongheyingyongbianshituilamen，zaiyituiyilazhongjian，rangnvhaidexintaicongyaoxiangduinixiaoquanquanfushidaoxinliyouxiaoxiaogaoxinghexinxi，congdichaoqidaogaofengqineiyangdechuizhiguoshancheshidexintaiganshou，zuodaorangdajiadeguanliankuaisutiwendeshijixiaoguo。