如何把聊死的天聊回来？怎么和妹子聊天不冷场？

 ruhezhaohuati？huijianghuadehebuhuiliaotiandepenyoujindaoshehuifazhanyihouyufaganjuebicizhijiandechabie，huishuohuaderenzaishejiaoyouxiaodegoutongcengmianzhanyoufeichangdadeyoudian，xiabiandajiajiueryanshuoruherangzishenyuelaiyuehuixianliao ruhehemeiziliaotiankaichangci？liaotianxiaojiqiao：ruhebaliaosidetianliaohuilai？

如何让自身越来越会讲话

 ruhezhaohuati？huopokailangderentongchangdoujiaoweihuijianghua，zheizhenduineixiangxingzheeryanshiyidayoudian，zaiyingpinqiuzhidequanguochengzhongfanyingdegengweixianzhu，huishuohuaderenjirendeyinxianggengqiang，nengjiangchugerenyoudian，biaoshuzishendejianjie，tarencaihuiganjuenizhibuzhiyong，erbuhuiliaotian，xinggeneixiangderen，jibianyoucaikeyi，bukeyibiaoxianchulairangtarenlejie，huiyixiechidakui，neimazenmecainengrangzishenyuelaiyuehuijianghuahuixianliaoni？liaotianxiaojiqiao：ruhebaliaosidetianliaohuilai？

1、积极一些

 buxihuanshuohuaderenchangchanghuichuzaiyigechuyubeidongdeqingkuang，tarenwenshenme，zishenjiushuoxieshenme，zishenyebuhuijijizaishuole，youshihuirangchangjingshenxianyigenankandeqingkuang，yaoxiangyuelaiyuehuijianghua，zuixianderangzishenjijiyixie，hebierenzhaohualiao，yikaishijianghuiyixiebushihe，jianjiandideshuoduolejiudangranle，biehaipajianghua，fangkuanzishen，caikeyitigaozijijianghuadegongzuonengli。

2、交朋结友

 huijianghuabianshiyibianhetarengoutongjiaoliu，duojiejiaopengyoushiduanlianjianghuadeyizhongfangfa，nenggoucongpenyoudeshenshangxuedetamenjianghuadefangshi hefangfa，jinertishengzijideyuyanjiqiao，zaiquntizhongbubiguodujianmo，huoyuexingyixie，neiyangcaikeyijiaojidaliangdepenyou，hebuyiyangderenxianliaocaikeyizhangwotamendeniantou，yuelaiyuegenghuijianghua。

3、提升经验

 jianghuabingbushishuozishenyigerenduanlianjiukeyide，huishuohuaderentongchangyouhenduodejingyan，ruhezhaohuati？lejieyingduishenmeyangderenyingdangshuoshenmehua，zheizhonggongzuojingyanquanshileijierchengde，feichangshaoyouxierenyushengjulaijiuhuijianghua，nenggouduobaomingcanjiayixietuantihuodonghuoshishibaomingcanjiayanshuohezhengbian，duanlianzishendeyanjiangkoucai，rangzishennengjianghua，gengweihuijianghua。

如何和妹子聊天不尬聊

 nanhaieryunvshenggoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，xianghukanqilaihenxiuse。yixienanhaizixianghexinaidenvshengfayan，queyoubuqingchuruhezhangkou，meishier，kanlebenwenbianhuiyouyidingdexiezhue，jiaonizenmehemeiziliaotian，jianjiandizengjinganqing。liaotianxiaojiqiao：ruhebaliaosidetianliaohuilai？

1、微信聊天方式

 （1）bubishashadedezhangkoujiuwen：nichifanlema？zaiganshenme？？zheileimeiyouyingyangchengfendenanti。xiangxinziji，meizhiyijiandaozheileinantijiutibuqilaixingquaihao。

 （2）xiangzhaomeizimeitiankeshibuqingchuruhekaishi？tuicunyizhaoba，nenggoubazaiwangshangjiandaodegaoxiaodetupianhuoxiaogushifasongjimeizhikan，huoshinijintianpengdaolenaxieyouyisideshishuojimeizhiting。houmianyizhongbiqianmianyizhonggengqiang。

 （3）zhangwomeizhijiaoda dexihao，lirumeizhixiaikandianshiju，jiuhetaliaoyingpian，wentazuiaideyingpianshinayibu，jiaruzheibuyingpiannikanle，hetaliaoyiliaonidexindetihui。yaoshimeiyoukan，haijideyidingyaoqukankan，kanlegaozhita：”wobujiukanguonizuiaideyingpian，jianzhiyibuhaodianyinga！“suihougenmeizhitanxindetihui。shizaihemeizhixindetihuiyizhidelingwai，haijiangchudianqitakanfa。

 （4）meizhishuo：woshuile。woxianzaolaidao，woyaochifanlezheixie，anshizhenibuxiangzaiciliaoxialaishi，buyaozaihuixinxineirongle，biezhububihui！！

（5）yuyanshangbubifengchengmeizhi，feichangrongyirangmeizhibiandini。wubibaozhengbujiaobuzao！！！zheiyidianyehenzhongyao！

 （6）shiduhemeizhikaiwanxiao，zaihaibutaishudezhuangkuangxiabubitaiguo，jiarunizishenshigeburongyiwanxiaoderen，zheiyidianduinibushihe。

 xiaojieyixia：zuixiannanhaizizishenwubiyoudianerneirong，bieyijianghuabianshiganbiedejiju。xianliaowubiyoujifameizhidexingquaihao，jifameizhiyunixianliaodechongdong！！！

xianliaopianjiuzheiyang，laishuofeichangrongyiyonglainan，kandajiazishendeconghuile。

2、心态状态

 xianliaoyiqian，xintaizhuangtaiwubiyaoqiadang，xuduo dixiongzaimeizhibuhuixinxihuoshijiyubujiayijianfankuishijinghuangshouzuwucuo，jinerzaocheng ：

（1）yizhibiwenmeizhiweishenmebuhuixinxi。

（2）yidaduanyidaduandexinxihongzhayiwang。

 shexiangyixia，jiarunishimeizhi，ruguonipengdaoyigenibuxianglicaieryouyizhisaoraonidenanrenshi，ninenggaizenmeban？womenyaojiejinsuonengxiangyixiangmeizhidetihui，erqiexianliaoshiyaoxiangqishihoudeliangsanjuhuayingdangzenmejiang，qiewuyizhangkoujiuhuiyouyigunongnong“diaosi”qichang，neiyang，dajiacaiyongyouhemeiziliaotiandelilunyiju。

 chucizhiwai，jiagoudechuangjianyeshibixuqiangjingdexintaizhuangtai，erxuduo yuehuixuechuxuezhe，youyuweixinlibingmeiyouneimeduodemeizhi，yinci xintaizhuangtaitongchanghenbuwending，feichangrongyibeimeizhidepianyanzhiyuhuoshipengyouquandongtaisuomengbi。jugeshili：

 xuduo nanshengjiandaomeizhifadexiangjinneiyangdedongtaixing，doushijinbuzhudexiangdongxiangmeizhizhengshizishendehao，zishenshigehaolaogong，renweineiyangbianhuihuodemeizhideqizhong。qishibushi，meizhichuanchulaizheiyitiaodongtaixinghou，huichuxianxuduo diaosi“shoupianshangdang”dequtaojinhu，jiaruniyequdangshangzaiqizhongyiyuan，jiuhebiedediaosimeiyouchabie。erqiadangdezuofashi，hushi。zaizishenxiangliaohuoshimeizhiwuliaodeshihouzaiquzhaomeizixianliao。

3、架构

 yongyoushangmianyigeliuchengyihou，dajiazaishuotanyitanshenmeshikuangjia，shuobailejiagou，bianshihexinhuihuadejiezougan，neima，zenyangcaikeyibaozhengjiagouqiangjingni？

 （1）nideweixinliyaoyouhenduodemeizhi，neiyangjiuburongyibujidemeizhibuhuiyingnideshiqingle。jiarunideweixinlijinyoubushang20gedenvhai、meiyicizhiyouliao3dao4genvhai，niyidinghuiyouyuzaiqizhongyigezongbuhuiniernanyishihuai，fandouchibuxiang。

 danjiarunideweixinliyou200genvhai，meiyicinenggouliao30gemeizhi，tamenzhongdehaoduogehuizongbuhuiniduinilaijiangyebuguanjianle，youyunizaoyiliaodetaimangle。zenmerangzishendeweixinliyouhenduomeizhi，nenggoujiashangwodeshoujiweixin：life110，huodepaoniumiji。

 （2）yaocaokonghaohemeiziliaotiandepianfuhepinlv，wenzhawenda，neiyangmeizhizaiyunihudongjiaoliudequanguochenglinengganshoudaonidexintai；erbushixiangzuoshiyiyangwuyuanwugujiudachuandachuandexinxiyiwang，rangmeizhiduinijinshengdeyidianxingquaihaoyemeile。

 （3）yaoxuehaohemeizhilajinjianju，genjuyuyanjianjiexinggaozhimeizhi，woliangshigongpingdeerbushiwohaizaizhuiqiuni。wangwangxuduo dixiongmaiyuannvwangaojiao，bianshiyouyunimeiyoujinidenvwanggaoqingchuzheiyidian。ziran，jiarunizishenjianshedebuzuhao，zaiqiangjingdehuashu，yejiejiubushangnidejiagou。

ruguonizhanshimianchongzuqiangjingshi，jiukeyiyingyongqunfaxiaoxijiagoumoban，xunsutiaoxuanmeizhi，yuechunidexinaizongtimubiao。

 meizhiyibuxiaoxindezhanshimiansuoxiyinzhu，yinci zheishiqiangjiagoudegongxiaojiutuxianchulai；yaoshimeiyouzhanshimiandexiyinzhugongxiao，shiyuechubulaimeizhide。

 jinguanzheiyicaozuobuzhouyoudianguoduguoduan，jianghuiduiyixiechuantongyidianerdemeizhibutaiyouyong，danzheizhaonenggouxunsutiaoxuanchuxiangyaoyunichuqudenvhai，rangniyaoyouhuideqingkuangxiabuhuimeiyourenyingyao。

 ziran，qingwaxiaoyingdeliaotianhuatiyeyiqiezhengchang，keyichizhudabufendenvhai，keshineiyanggengmoliannidejishuxing，youyuliaodaoyuezhang，yuefeichangrongyichuxianxitongloudong，xiyinzhuyejianghuihuitoutouwailiu。

4、性张力

 xuduo dixiongxianliaoliaodaofeichanghao，keshibianshiyuechubulaimeizhi，zheishiweishenmeni？zaiqizhongyigeguanjiandeyuangubianshidahuoerxianliaoquanguochengzhongmeiyouyinjinxinghuati，meiyouxingzhangli。xingzhanglizainannvliangxingguanliandehudongjiaoliuzhong，shifenguanjian。

shexiang，meizhiyuniyemeiyouqinglvdejuede，weiheyaoyunichuqu？

 yinci ，xianliaodequanguochengzhongyidingyaotianjiaxingzhanglideyibufen，rangmeizhiganjuenibushidanchunxinghetazuopengyou，zhishiyaozuoqinglvde。neiyang，zaihoumiandexianliaoquanguochengzhong，jiukeyiyuanmanshengjiguanlian。

比如：

meizhi：（butaihaofanying）（iod）

xiaorong：neixiayiciyaodapipi

 shangbiandejijuhua，jinengxianshixinxichuxingzhangli，zhuyaobiaoxiandeniyubiedediaosibuyiyang，youkeyikuaisulajinguanlian，haikeyirangmeizhixiangyixiangjiemian，quanzidongkaizhanjiaosebanyanyouxi，neiyangduofanfujihui，rangmeizhirongrunidejiezougan，zhangwonidetexing，zheijiushixingzhangli，yizhongshenmiqienengxunsushangshengniyumeizhiguanliandefangfa，qidaidahuoerlejieyingyongta，cinaidashaji。

5、对话框掌握

 liaomeizhong，duihuakuangshiyigezhiguanzhongyaodezhibiaozhi，meizhiduijiniduihuakuangshi，jiuyingdanggongji，erbushixiangyigeweishanyiyangweishouweijiao，zuihoubeimeizhilajinyouqingqu。neima，shenmeshiduihuakuangni？jugeshili：meizhiwennizaiganshenme，bianshiduihuakuang，cikenenggouhuiying“nizhidao”laijifameizhixintai，tahuiganjuenihuanshimanyouyiside，erbushiyigezhilejiejiedawentideshanren。

 duihuakuangzaixianliaoquanguochengzhongyouhenduo，erdahuoeryaoxuehaobawozhuduihuakuang，xiabian，jidahuoerlijuhaoduogemeizhiyouduihuakuangdezhuyaobiaoxian：

（1）meizhijijifaxiaoxi，biruwennizainaer，zaima，zaiganshenme，naizhirangnifabiaoqing。

（2）meizhidafujijizhudong，pianfuduo。

（3）rangnipengyouquanpinglun。

（4）budizhinideyuyan。

（5）mohubuqingyaoqinggenju。

（6）meizhizhaowoliaozhaowoliaojijirangnifayuyin。

 zhishanghaoduogefanying，shimeizhiduijinihendaduihuakuangshihouyoudetedian，dajiadegousishizaiyouzheizhongduihuakuangdeqingkuangxia，bawojihui，jishichulibingshengjidajiadeguanlian，birujiaolingyifangshangpindeng，jinershidajiazhongjianxiangqinglvyiyang。

 ruhezhaohuati？youyuwomenzailiaomeizhongyidingyaobawoyigejunheng，jiarumeizhiduinibiaoluchuxingquaihao，niyejiudeduimeizhiganenhuikuiyixingquaihao，zheijiuchanshenglejunheng！zheiyishifenguanjiandeyigedingyi，dixiongmenyidingyaoqieji！