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聊天没话题怎么办?怎么聊天才能不尬聊

 zenyangtigaoqingshang?yaoxiangtidaonvyou,zuixianbianshiyaohuijianghua,xuehuilexianliaodaonadouburongyigaliao,neimanankanmeihuatiliaozenmebanni,ruheliaotiancaikeyibuganliaoni,liaotianmeihuatizenmeban?ruhezhaohuatiliaotian?xiabiankanlaiyixiaba。

难堪没话题聊该怎么办

1、交换式提出问题法

 huiyixiazishengennvhaikaijudeqingkuangxia,shifouquanshizaitichuwenti?“ninhao,nishi?”“qingwennijiaoshenme”“wojuederenshinixingma?”yibanzheizhuangkuanglingyifangjiufeichangshaohuilini。zheishijishangbianshifanle,zhiwenlingyifangxinxineirong,quebuyongshuozishenxinxineirongdecuo。zenyangtigaoqingshang?yinci changdao“huhuantichuwentifa”。ruguonixianchushizishendeshiyongjiazhi,zheileishiyongjiazhibianshiyuyanshangdeshiyongjiazhi,xingquaihaoshangdeshiyongjiazhi,erbushiqusuoyaotadeshiyongjiazhideqingkuangxia,wentarennantibianshiyizhongsuoyaoshiyongjiazhi。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban?ruhezhaohuatiliaotian?

2、求知欲闲聊法

 qiuzhiyushizuinengqudongqineixinde。ruguoniduiyigerenhuoshiyijianshizaochenghaoqixindeqingkuangxia,niyejiuhuixiangfangshefadexiangyaozhidaoweihe。xianliaodeqingkuangxia,nengrangnvhaiduinizaochenghaoqixin,neimanvhaibianhuijiangnidanglipinlaizhuiqiuwanmei,jijigennidashan。wangliaoshineiyangdahua,youyunijuededeshihetaxiangguandeshi,tamingxianxiangyaozhidaoshisha。nvhaibiranxiangzhishifeichangzhideyouyisideshi。yinci tazhiyouxiangzhuilipinyiyang,zhuiqiuni。

3、开放式提问法

 henduorenxunwennichiwanmeiyou,huiying,chiwan。huatitaolunjiumeile。nixiaigoubu,huiyingxiai,jiumeiyouhuatile。womenyaorangnvshengshuodaliangdehua,xuduo nanhaizitingnvshengshuoneiyangdehuahaowuyiwenhuifuhetashuodehua,dangaoqingshangdenanhaizizeburongyi。jiezhaonvhaiyidinghuishuoduiganqingguandian,neiyangnicongtadaliangdeyujuzhongjiukeyishuozishenduiganqingdeguandian,xiangduixingzhaoyixiegennvhaiguandianjichuleiside,zheileibianshisanguandeqiheduyizhi,jianjiandidezaizheileigoutongjiaoliuzhongzaochenghaogandu。

如何聊天才可以不尴聊

1、互换标准

 jianghuinidexianliaobingmeiyouxiangshangbianchangshuodeneiban,danyebajiubulishi。jingchangdewennvshengwenti,quewangleyaojiangchuzishendexinxineirong。danfangdetichuwentishiyizhongsuoyaoshiyongjiazhidegerenxingwei,pubiandebianshichaxunhukou,rendaobeichaxunhukoushi,doushijuededaobushufu。rendouxiaizuoruhedeshier?ziranshiduizishenyouyichudeshierla,ruguonixiangnvhaichushilezishendexinxineirong,tacaihuijiangchutadexinxineirong。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban?ruhezhaohuatiliaotian?

2、造成求知欲

 youqiuzhiyucaihuichuxianxingquaihao,ruguoniduiyijianshiqingtianmanhaoqixinshi,nibianhuifeijinxinsiyiqiebanfaqunonggaoqingchuta。zenyangtigaoqingshang?zaixianliaoshi,dajiayouxiaoyingyongqiuzhiyu,nvhaibianhuijiangnizuoweishiyigehuobao。jiaruniyaozaicizaochengnvhaidehaoqixin,ninengxiangaozhitaerdian,ru:youaixin,youpinwei,henyouhaozheixie,daodisandiandeqingkuangxiashuo:disandianwobunengshuo,jiangguoniyejiuburongyineimeganle。

3、开放式提问法

 jiaruniwennvhainichifanlema,nvshengshuochiwan,dajiadehuatitaolunjiushizheiyangbeijieshule。jiaruniwennvshengxihuanmaoma,nvshengshuohaihao,dajiadehuatitaolunjiushizheiyangbeijieshule。zhishangsangenanti,jirenhuiyingdeshineikongjianfeichangda,bingqie,niyegengfeichangrongyijiehua,neiyanghuatitaolunjiumashangdakaile,buhuizuoyigeliaotianzhongjiezhe。kaifangshitiwen,bianshirangnvshengzijiquxiangxiang,huatitaoluntongchangjiuzheiyangbeikaiqide。

4、心态共鸣点

xintaigongmingdian,youyigefeichangjiandandegongshijisuan:yiyangdeqinshenjingli+xiangjindeganshou=xintaigongmingdian。

 niyizhizaiyidiyudaoleyigeyunilaiyuanyutongyigediqudenvsheng,dajiazhongjianbianhuifeichangrongyizaochengxintaigongmingdian,erqie,niyefeichangrongyihuodemeizhideqinlai。youyudajiazhongjianyouhenduoxiangtongzhichu,youhenduogongtonghuati,erqie,niantouyedaduoshutongyang,nvhaishunlichengzhangdebianhuiyaoxianghenizaiyiqi,zheijiushixintaigongmingdiandeyichu。

微信上如何聊天才可以造成女孩的兴趣爱好

1、先观查女孩,获得聊天内容

 ruguonilejiemouyinvhaihou,zuixiannixuyaolejiezheiyinvhaishishazhongleide,taxiainaxiedewupin,bianyuniyihouzhaohuatiliaotian。yiban,fenbiannvhaiguishuyunayigezhonglei,congtadeyizheqichang,jianghuayudiaodengcengmianjiukeyikanchuqu。liru,zheiyinvshengxihuanzaipenyouquanzhongshaizipaizhaoyushenghuo,neizheiyinvhaishiguishuyuneileijiaoweixinggewaixiangderen,zheiyinvhaijiaoweizhongshishenghuozhiliang。yinci ,ninengcongrichangshenghuoyileihuoshihaowaner,quweiyileideshierqujinxingliaotianneirong。

2、若要提出问题,谨记,不必太暴力行为

 shenmenantichengzhiweishibaolixingwei?niduoda?niduozhong?niyueshourushiduoshao?nizhuzainali?nixiaiquna?zheixiezheizhongquanshihenbaolixingwei。buduandetiwenti,nijianghuidoushiganjue“woshibushiwentaiduole”,niyejianghuihuijuedebutaidui,ruguonizaochengzheizhongganjuedeqingkuangxia,ninengzaoyibeilaheile。

3、闲聊时学好用,情况+体会,叙述+体会

 liru,nvhaiwennizaiganshenme,dannijinjinjianyidehuiying:zaigongzuo。nizheideduofaweiya,yinci ,henvhailiaotian,yingdangzaijiazishendetihui,neiyangdexianliaocaiyouquweixing。zheiyigexianliaosiweimoshigengweiguanjian,youyutashinvhaizuiaideliaotianhuati。

用心聊天的技巧有什么

1、架构式闲聊法

 shuobailedejiagoushixianliaofa,zhidebianshizaixianliaoyiqian,niyejiuzaoyigoujianwanchenglejiexiaqujiri,naizhihaoduogelibaiyigeyuedeliaotiandehuati,zheileifangfashiquanbudeliaotianhuatizhongfengxianxingzhishao,yinglide,yeshizuibubian,zuiwufabushude,xiaojieqilai,jiagoushixianliaofayigongfenchengwugedabuzou,wenzhawenda,duodehuanxin。

2、第一次沟通交流

 jialetadeshoujiweixin,ruhequhetawenhao,tashigefeichangzhidesisuodenanti,zhengsuoweikaitounan,jiarudiyicixianliaoniyejiujitaliuyoulebutaihaodeyinxiang,neimajiexiaqubuguannizenmezuo,zheiyihuaiyinxiangdoushipangenzaitadenaohaizhongli。

3、展现使用价值

 nvrenhenanrengangkaishixianliaodeqingkuangxia,yushengjulaidetongxingxiangchinengrangdajiadegoutongjiaoliujianchixiaqu,keshinengzaiciduozhangshijianjiubukeyihaowuyiwenle,wojianyiguoguoduocongshengshudaoliaotianjieshushijianchaodanshiwufenzhongde,yuangujiuqujueyu,nanhaizimeinengzhanxianchunvhaihenganxingqudeshiyongjiazhi。

4、创建闲聊舒适度

 youdanaodenanshenghuijiangxianliaochuangjianchengpingshi,meitounaodenanshenghuijiangxianliaobianweipingshiguancha,zhijieyuanyinjiuqujueyushibushizaoyichuangjianqilexianliaoshushidu,dangxianliaoyingbianchenglechangtaihua,taxiangjijilianluonidoushiyuelaiyuedangran。xiangfan,jiarushushiganmeiyoujianquan,tajibianxiangrangnifaleshoujiweixin,doushikaolvyixiashifouhuitaishengying,xiabiandajiaeryanyixiazenyangchuangjianzheileixianliaoshushigan

5、模糊不清邀请和宣布邀请

 xianliaodezuihoumudishijiangnvshengyuechuqu,yinci yaoqingzheiyibuhenzhongyao。shijishangjiaruqueshiyizhaoshangbiandeliuchengyibuyibudelai,yaoqingjiuzaoyibingbushinandianle,dajiadexianliaoshushiganzaoyihenjizhi,nvshengdexinliyejiuburongyiqueshihuijueyuniyouhui。yinci womenyaoxuehaomohubuqingyaoqing,lirupubiandehaoduogeci“youshijianchuquzouyizou。”“buyaojindeqingkuangxiaqukankandianying。”

6、听从检测

 liaotianmeihuatizenmeban?ruhezhaohuatiliaotian?zaimohubuqingyaoqingdequanguochengzhong,henduorendoushidanyouyigenanti:tadeyuanyi,shiqueshiyuanyile,huanshijinjinsuiyihuiyingyiju,neixinyagenmeidanghuishier,yinci dajiahaibixuyigetingcongjiance,laipanduantadezhenzhengyiyuan。

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