聊天宝典：第一次女生搭讪应该聊些什么？

 zenyangyoumoliaotian？yibannvhaikandaishengshuyixingpengyoudoushiyoutifangxintaizhuangtai，zenyanghenvshengliaotianzhaohuatishihenduorenyebutaiqingxide，zuixianxukanlingyifangshishazhongleidexingqing，zaijuecenidekaichangci。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

第一次和女生搭话该怎么讲

1、ninhao，kuaijiwodejuedehenfeichang，wodeliangjiaofanyingchidun，yaoxianghuilairenshini，jieguojiulaile。

2、wojuederenshini，danworenweimeiyouhaodefangshi，yincijiulijihuilaigennidagezhaohu，wodemingzijiaoxx。

3、querenguoyanshen，juedenishiduideren，bibushangdajialiaoyiliaokan。

4、kanni，shiwolianaideganjue，bibushangdajiajiaowangba!

5、woshibushizainaerjianguoni，shimengzhongma?

6、nikanqilaifangfonvyoue!x

跟女生聊天不尬聊的方法

1、从自身的的身上找话题聊天

 ruguoninaozhongyipiankongbai、lichubulaisixushi，xianshenxijiyikouqi，hebuqugeweishengjianshulixiagousi。huiyiyixiazishendeshanzhanghuatitaolun，chenzhezheizhonglejiedehuatitaolunxiufuxianliaofenwei。zenyangyoumoliaotian？zheizhonghuatitaolunshibixushiqianyoutiqianzhunbeide，nenggoushejidaodecengmianhenguang。lirunidexihao、qinrenyouqudeshi、gongzuozhongjiongshi、tongniandegushi、nideyuanxiao、nidepengyou、nizuiaideyishougezheixie，yaoshijiushininengjiangdedounenggou。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

2、从周边环境找话题聊天

 yibangaliaohuichansheng，shiyouyunijuedezishenshanzhangdehuatitaolunzaoyidoushuowanle，buqingchujiangnaxiehao。neimajieyoushangbiande“niaodun”zhihou，niyaonenggouzaiweishengjianli，xixinxunzhao，congzhoubiandeziranhuanjingzhongzhaoyixiehuatitaolun。zenyangyoumoliaotian？liru，zaihenvshengxianliaochuxiangaliaoshi，qiahaochuchuangzhanshiwaibianchuxianmaidanglaohenxianyandeguanggaoxuanchuan：wuzhetaocan，zheishinibiankeyishuo：jinguanwojinqimeilaiguomaidanglao，danmaidanglaoyingjifabushenxinchanpinwodabufendoulejie……guanggaoxuanchuantaiduole……nishifouhuiyechangchangjiandaomaidanglaodeguanggaoxuanchuan……tingwenzheiyiwuzhetonghenkeng……jinqireyingdedianshilianxuju、wangzhijinritoutiaodengdexinwenbaodaojujiaodian，tamenjishifeichanghaodeliaotiandehuati，yeshirongyizaochengnvshengliuyidedian。

3、从另一方的身上寻找话题讨论

 naxie?nizaoyi“dun”weishengjian，danshiyiranzhaobuzhehuatitaolun?zaihuasanshimiaozuoyizushenxiqi，bixushixibalian，huiyixianiyunvshengdehuihua。tayoutijinaxiedajiameiyouliaoxialaidewupinma?you!taganggangtidaotamuqinyaotahuijialeqianwangmaibaoquanliang。neitajiadexiaogoushigehaohuatitaolun。liaoxiaogoudeshenghuozuoxi，yekeyitixianletaderichangshenghuoguanjiandian!

和女人的聊天的技巧

一、适度的撩拨女性

 zainvrenhenanrendexianliaozhong，yaoxiangbaliaotianhuatiyuelaiyuenuanweiquwei，feichangjiandandefangshibianshiniyaohuigennvxingdiaotiaodou。huiyiyixiadangshizaiyundongchangshangshizenyanghenvrenwande，xiangyixiangneishihouxiyinzhunvxingdefangshi，xianzaizaiyouhuideqingkuangxiayeshichedikeyongde。wangbianjianxinmeinvmendoushixiainanshengdeliaobo，ziranyibiantuidongdajiadeganqing，nixuyaoshidudeliaobonvxing。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

二、适度的给女性讲幽默笑话

 zaiwomenrichangshenghuokuzaodeqingkuangxiachangchangtingjianyoumoxiaohua，queshilingrendeqingxuhenshishushi，yibandajiajiandaodianshijilijingchanghuichuxiandemingxingdeshenshangdewupinjiudongle，huanshihanyouyoumoxiaohuadenanshenggengjubeirenqizhi。keshidajiahaiyaojilaozheitiaorenshengzhenyan：“fengqudanbuhuaji。”nvxinghuibeirangneiyangdenanshengxiyinzhu。bubizhidianjizheshuozuigaoxiaodexiaohua，yaoduohuayongxinxiangmeinvmenchengxianzuilingrenjidong、zuiyoukuailedeshiqing。

三、适度的维持新鲜感

 yibanmeinvmendouxiaiyouquweixingdenansheng，erxiainanrenmenjitamenchanshengdexinxiangan。jiaruniyaorangnvxingweichiduinidexingquaihao，nixuyaorangtaganjuetabixujianjiandiyingnidehuanxi。jiarutajuedenitaihaonadaole，tajiuburongyiduijinixingquaihaole。zaixianliaodequanguochengzhong，ninengshidudetaolunyixiehuatitaolun，zhenduituxiandeguanjiandian，ninengduinvxingweichishenmi，jianxintahuiyizhiyaoxiangnidedaan，bianhuiyizhizhuisuiyuni，ziranzheileifangshiyaoshidu。

四、适度的讨论“感情”话题讨论

 zaihenvrenliaotiandeqingkuangxia，niyinggaitaolunhe“ganqing”xiangguandehuatitaolun，rutongnianjiyi、jianglailixiang、huoshinvrendeaihao，wangbianjianxinneiyangdehuatikeyikaiqitaxintaideshuilizhamen。ziranneiyangdehuati，nixuyaoshidudehenvrengoutongjiaoliu，zaitaqingxubodongfeichangdadeqingkuangxia，nijiangdezheizhong“ganqing”huatitaolun，tabuyidingfashaoganmao，jiangduolefandaotahuitingdenile，duininaopiqi。

五、适度明白用“访谈”方法闲聊

 ruguonixiangyaozhidaoyaoruhegennvxingjianghuacaikeyirangtamenganjuebuwuqu，nenggouxuanyong“fangtan”deliaotianhuati，zirannishichanshuduishiqingdejianyi。bingqienixuyaoliuyinvxingrangnidefeiyuyantixing。jiarunizaidelitakaojin，jianghuashikoushuixingsijian，huozherangtazaibiedecengmianjuedexinlibushufu，tahuirangnianshizhe，yaoliuyizheizhongtixing。“fangtan”fangfayaodiandaoweizhijiuxing，neiyangdajiaxianliaotuidongganqingshizuiyoushijixiaoguode!

第一次和相亲约会的目标闲聊聊啥

1、聊喜爱的特色美食

 jiaruyouhuidechangdizaijinshidedifan，neimahebujiujinyuanzetanyitangeyouxiaidemeiweikekouba，zheishiyigerangrenkaixindehuatitaolun。taoluntesemeishi，nibudannengzhangwotadekougan，xunzhaoxiangtongdian，bingqiecongcibubidanxinmeiyouhuatile。

2、聊本人兴趣爱好

 meiyigerendoushiyoushidudexingquaihao，zhaohuatiyebuhaipameiyouhuashuo。bingqie，liaozheiyinenggouzhangwoxianghudexingquaihao，shiyigeduijianglaihenzhongyao、yefeichangrongyiyinqihuanxiaoshengdehuatitaolun。jinjinyaoliuyizhangwohaoxiandue，qiebukefangzonghahadaxiao，ranglingyifangganjuenimeihanyang。gengguanjiandeshi，jiarudajia2geyouleisidexingquaihao，nenggouweidajiakaiqilingyigegengshencengcidehuatitaolun。ziran，liaogerenaihaoshiyebuyaozaijiaotanzhongyizhijinjinweiraozhetadexingquaihaohexihao。neiyanghuikanqilainiduitadexuqiuganhenqiang。niyinggaihexinzheiyijiaotan。nizhangwotashijishangbingbukeyixiezhunixiyinzhudaota。

3、聊兄妹

 chucijianmianshuobabamamayoudianerbudangzhichu，wanyitadebabamamaliangdifenjuhuoliyi，huizaochengtadehenman。yibandehuatitaolunbianshitanyitanxiongmei。liaoyiliaoxiongmei，nenggouxianghulejie，huoyuexingyixiafenwei。bingqieniyaozhangwotadejiazhong，biaomingnixiaita，neiyangyefeichangrongyihuodetadexinlai。

4、聊工作中及未来计划

 liaoyiliaoxianzaizaiganshenme，weilaiyounaxiefangandeng。tajianghuiduizheizhonghuatitaoluntebiexiai，datanertetantaderichangshenghuo，youyisideshi，huodedegezhonggeyangshurongdeng。keshi，tayejianghuifanyinglengmo，jinjinshuoxianjieduandegongzuozhongzhuanyebuduikou，suihouzhuanyihuati。danshi，wulunchuxiannayangzhuangkuang，doujiniyigekaidaofengchengtadehaojihui。jinjin，ninenghetaliaogongzuozhong，danbubiwenshijixinshuidengsiminanti，zheihuiranglingyifangganjuenishige“aiqian”，baqiankandetaizhongderen。

5、聊身旁的盆友

 huoxunimeilejietadepenyou，danzheimeishier。tahuifeichanggaoxingtantadepenyou，tamenxiangchudeguanjiandian，pengmiandeshijian、dizhi。huoxuniyidianyemeishenmexingqu，danqianwanbuyaoyanfan，zheidanshinizhangwotadedahaojihui。xianghetazaicifazhanqushima?congzhangwotadepenyouxianzaikaishi。

6、聊礼拜天干什么

 zheizhendeshiyigefeichanghaodehuatitaolun，nibudannenggoulejietameishierdeqingkuangxiazhenshideqingkuang(wuxugongzuo，youyiduisuiyishijiandeqingkuangxia)，nenggouzhangwotaruhefenpeizishenderichangshenghuo，yeyoudianeranshidebiaolu“huoxudajialibaitiandeqingkuangxia，nenggouyiqizuodianshenme?”

7、聊社会发展

 liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？shehuifazhanyingyoujinyou，nizairichangshenghuozhongzonghuiyouyixiezuizhenqiedeganshou、zuixiangshuodehua、zuiyanfanhuozuiaiderenheshi、zuiguanzhuhuozuiqidaihuodedeshenmeba，neima，niyupenyoudejiaotanchuxian“kazhu”shi，jiusuiyidijianzaiqizhongyigenizuijidongde“dian”qutanba。jinjin，liaodeqingkuangxiashidufabujianjiejiuhaole，zhenduixinwenshijian，yixiezhuangkuangbubidazhangqigubiaoshunidejianjie，youqishipianjidejianjiegengbuyaoshuo，bieranglingyifangganjuenishigegouqietouandefenqing。