聊天没话题怎么办？第一次相亲男生怎么跟女生聊天？

 xiangqinyuehuishirujinxuduo weihunnannvgaoduixiangdeyizhongfangfa，zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？diyicixiangqindeshiyaoxiangjilingyifangliuyouyigehaoyinxiang，ruhewenminglimaofengqudexianliaoshihenzhongyaode，bubiyouyijuxianxinghuatitaolun，dangranfangsongdianjiuhaole。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？zenmedashancaihao？

第一次相亲男性和女性聊些哪些

1、谈一谈各有的性情。

 zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？lejiebicidexingqinghenzhongyao，weizhihoudexiangchuzuozhunbei(jiaruniduinixiangqinyuehuideta/tahenganxingqudehua)bingqiexiangqinyuehuiquanshibenzhewanhundemudequde，zhaoyigexingqingtouyuandecaisuanshizhongyao。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？zenmedashancaihao？

2、问起/她有哪些个人爱好：

 gerenaihaonenggouliaoxuduo ，zhidaota/tadegerenaihaoyihou，nizijihaikeyiguliangta/tashiyigeruhederen，dangran，jiaruniliang/taquweixiangtouneimejiugengqiangge~

3、探讨一些受欢迎的电视栏目：

 nadianshilanmuzuokaichangcifeichangrongyi，yebuhuinankan。zhongjiurujindenianqingrenduiyulejiemuhuanshihenxihuande，gechangde、xuanxiujiemude、xiangqinyuehuidedounenggounaeryan，xianbaxianliaodefenweigaoreqilai，xiangqinyuehuikaizhanxialaibianhuijiaoweifeichangrongyile。

4、工作中的状况。

 nenggoutantaogongzuozhong，lejieta/tashizuoshenmedejiukeyile，bubiwenjibie，yebubiwenshouyi，jiarubicijuedehao，zheizhongnantidanengcunzhezhihouzaiwen，lejiegongzuozhongzuishaoyouyigedi，nizhidaota/tadegongzuozhong，ta/tadeshouyiyouduoshaoniyecaichulailaila。

5、喜爱如何的幽会。

 jiarubicijuedehaodehua，yejiaohuanleshoujishang，xianliaoyehenhemu，jiukeyitizaozaiyouhuiwanbideqingkuangxiayueta/taxiayicichulaiwan，wenyixiata/taxiaidaonaqu，shita/tajuededaonidetiexin、zixiyuzhouquan。

第一次相亲男方闲聊必需三大工作能力

1、倾听的工作能力

 nvhaishijishanghenfanganzheixiekankanertan、ziwopengzhang、suiyiqieduantarenjianghua、congtouzhiweizhitujiangzishendenansheng。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？daduoshunvhaiyingduineiyangdenansheng，zongshineixinxiang：nidaodixiangzhengshinaxie?bierenweinvhaihenchun，neiyangnizongshirangquexianpuludedaliang。yaoyaoshiqudechenggongdegoutongjiaoliuyinggaishishuangzhongde，yincidangnvxingkenzhangkoushi，nizhangkaierduolimianyongxinting。tashiduinichuangjianjibenxinlaidebiaoshi。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？zenmedashancaihao？

 dangnanrenhenvrendexiyinzhuchuangjianzaixinlaidefuwupingtaishang，zheiyiduanguanliancaisuanlaogu。ziran，qingtingbingbuyiweizheshahuhuting，nideguanjianmudizhiyibianshi：shoujixinxineirong。niyaonenggoucongnvxingdejiaotanzhonghuozhi：taqipannaxie、fangannaxie、zaihunaxie，jiqitaduishierdexintaiyujiazhiguannian。

2、提问题的工作能力

 zheileigongzuonenglijiudebawoyongchangkaishidenantiquzhengqueyindaonvxingjianghua。julishuoming，youshihouhuituranzhengjingqilaiwenta，nijuedegongzuozhongduinieryanjiaodadetiaozhanzainaer?nijuedetanyiduanqingganzuizhongyaodeshinaxie?zheizhongnantizhakanshangquhenyansurenzhen，danshitangruonengzaishidudefenweixiaxuanze，haowuyiwenhuichuxianchuhuyiliaodeshijixiaoguo。tiwenchukainengshoujixinxineirong，lingwaiyeshishengchanzhizaohuatitaolun、chixuhuatitaolundezhongyaofangfa。

3、说故事的工作能力

 hexiangqinyuehuinvshengliaotianshi，bubiyouyijuxianxinghuatitaolun，yaoxiangxianliaoshushi，guanjianshiyaogoujianyouliangdefenwei。jianyieryanbianshirangnvhaijuedegenwoxianliaohenshufu、meiyoubushigan。danshinvrenyaodebuzhishifenwei，tamengengqidaipengdaokeyijiqitamenxinxudenansheng。yejiushishuo，tangruonengshidufabuniduishierdutedekanfa，huozhedianchuweicengbeifajuedebicizhijianzhichu，bingyixiangjinjianggushidejuqingzuoxushu，nijiangshitazaochengshiwuqianlidezaodong。

男性第一次相亲和女性闲聊流程

1、积极摆脱闲聊困局

 diyijuhuafeichangzhongyao!suhuashuodehaowanmeidekaiduanshiqudechenggongdeyiban!ninengyoudianhaixiudedashengzhaohushuo：ninhao，jianniyimianhenkaixin。cikewulunshibushihuiying，ninengjianyijiandanziwojieshao，huowenjieshaorenshizenmegennixiangxijieshaowodea?yiqiezhengchangdezhuangkuangxiadoushizaitinghounidexiangxijieshaohou，kaizhanzishendeyixiexiangxijieshao，ziranniyenenggouchenjiwenyiwenta。

2、掌握基本情况

 liruxunwennishizenmehuilaide?nizhudediqulizheieryuanhenjin?zheibanniyejiunenggoujibenzhangwodaotadejiatingbeijing。hainenggouchenjiwenyixiatadegongzuozhongdizhi，youeryinchulaitadegongzuoqingkuang。jianxinzaizheigewentishangmeiyigerendoushiyouhaotande。jiaruyishangqujiumaiyuangongzuoshangzheiyibutaihao，nagebuhao，shuoxiaojibeiguandehua，bixushensishulv;taolungongzuozhongdeqingkuangxiahuipumandajiajuedaduoshupengmiandeshijian，yejiushinicongtadejiaotanzhongjuedezheigerenxingqingdeshijiyu。ziran，jiaruniyaozhangwojinliangduodexinxineirong，jiuxuyaoliuyizhengqueyindaojiaotandefangwei，congcizhihou，nenggoukaolvdaoshibushijilingyifangyigejiyu，weizijiyigejiyuleba?

3、为下一次幽会做铺垫

 wenyiwenta“pingchangxiabanledouxiaizuoxienaxie?”neiyangbujinnenggougengquanfangweidezhangwozheigeren，bingqienengcongzheidangzhongzhaodaodajiaxianghuhenganxingqude。lirutahuiying：xiaiwanwangluoyouxi、dengshan、gechang……danniyezhengqiaoxiaidengshandehua，nenggougentashuodao：yinweiwohenxihuandengshande!xianhuoderenke。suihousuibiandishuo“wojingchangheshiqu”、“xiayiciyiqiqua”，weiyoujianghuidexiayiciyouhuizuoxiaxiaoxiaomaixiafubi!

 huoxutazaoyixianshuochurukouyuenixiayiciyiqileni~daozheier，zheicichengweixiangqinyuehuidedejiaotandabufenjiukeyigaoyiduanluo。ninengkanyixiawanbiaohuoshoujishang，fajuetanlehaozhangshijiandemoyang，youyidiandianxiaochayidigentashuodao：nikankanwomendouhuiguzhejiangguo，douhenwanle!meidangenideshiba?……congtashuodaozaijianledeshenqingzhongniyejiunenggoujibenguanchachutaduinidexintaile。

第一次相亲常见问题

 1、liuyiyibiaopan。diyiyinxianghenzhongyao，yaohaohaodichuanzhedabanyixiazishen，huanbianshendeyifukuzi，peidayouxiaodexuezi，xiufabubitaisuiyile，yebubitailuzhaoyaola。

 2、yaowenminglimao。wulunduilingyifangdeyinxiangzenyang，liangrenzhihoufazhanqushihuizenyang，wubiyaobaozhengwenminglimao，jilaonvshiyouxian，nenggouyouxianxuanzekaolvdaonvxingdebixuheguiding。

 3、bukeyiwandao。jiarudiyicixiangqinjiuwandaohuijirenliuyoubugaoduzhongshidejuede，jiaruqueshiyouyuyongduhuoshiqitashierdangele，yaolijidianhuatongzhi，huoshiciwaizaiyue，bukeyishixinheimingdan。

 4、bunengshuoguofendehua。youxierendiyicijiandaolingyifangjuedejiufeichanghao，jiumingquetichuyixietaiguodeguiding，tashihenbukequde，yaodengbicijiaoweilejiele，juedeheshiledeqingkuangxiazaitizheixieliruyoucheyoufangdeguiding。

 5、songnvxinghuijiale。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？zenmedashancaihao？pengmianwanbihoubuguanruhe，nanxingbixumingquetichusongnvxinghuijiale，tashihenwenminglimaoyehenyoupinpaixingxiangdeyijianshiqing，buranniyizhizailingyifangxinlidepinpaixingxianghuishoudaofeichangdayingxiangde。