恋爱初期应该怎么聊天，聊天技巧有哪些

 zenyangyoumoliaotian？zaigangjindaotanlianaidequntiquanshijiaoweihaixiuheshengshude，neimazheishixianghuyingdangruheliaotiancaikeyicujinganqingerqiebuxulingyifangdichuni？ruhezhaohuati？liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？gensuiwangbianwomenyiqilailejieyixiaba。

谈恋爱前期如何聊天

和女朋友聊天的方式 一、聊一聊相互的个人爱好

 nibutaikenenglikejiuchedilejieyigeren，nenggou lejieyixianvyoudegerenaihao，haikeyishuoyishuozishendegerenaihao，ziran，jiangguojiuxuyaojilaoyo，bubihuaizhefuyansaizedexintaiqujinxingciciyouhui，erliyingyizhenxinshiyidexintaiqukaixindejienacicixianliaotijideyixieshiqing。zenyangyoumoliaotian？yifangzaizhihoubixusonglideqingkuangxiahuishouzuwucuoyo。ruhezhaohuati？liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？

和女朋友聊天的方式 二、找一些普遍的话题讨论

 jijizhaohuatiliaotian，nanhaizizaizheigeshihounenggou jijizhaoyixiehuatitaolun，keshiliyingshijiaoweipubiandehuatitaolun，youyuhuatitaolunguoduxiaxiaoleyihou，jianghuinvhaihuimeishenmexingqu，huoshiniyongyuanbuzhidaonvhaijiujingxiainaxiedehuatitaolun。zheigeshihoupubiandehuatitaolunjiunengfangzhizheizhongnanti。ziran，nanhaizihaikeyijiangyixiechanshengzaizishenshenpangdeshierhuoshishiyixieyouyisideshi，neiyangjinenggou diaozhengfenwei，youkeyishixianliaozuyijianchixiaqu。

和女朋友聊天的方式 三、闲聊时观查她的兴趣爱好度

 zaihenvpengyouliaotiandeqingkuangxia，kexiangyaoguanchayixianvyouduichangshuodezheizhonghuatitaolunshibushiyouxingquaihao，yaoshimeiyouxingquaihaodehua，naizhijuedehenkuzaodehua，neimajiuxuyaoxiangyixiashibushiyingdanghuanyigehuatitaolunleyo，yaoliuyichayanguanse，zenyangyoumoliaotian？youdeqingkuangxialingyifangbuyuantantaozheiyihuatitaolun，keshikaolvnijuededexingzhibobo，guoyibuquqieduan，keshineiyangdejiaowangshihaowuyiwenburongyihenkaixinde。zaixianliaoqingkuangxialiuyiyixieqingkuangxiajianghuadeyudiao，yeyoujianghuadeneirong，bubibatianliaosile，nongdebierenbuqingchuzenmehuida，zheigeshiyouqiyaoliuyide，kaolvyixianvhaideguandian。

谈恋爱前期怎样聊天

一、聊个人爱好

 lianaiguanxigangjianlideqingkuangxia，bixutishengduilingyifangdezhangwo，zheishinenggou genjuliaoxingquaihao、liaoxihaotigaoxianghudezhangwo，nenggou liaolingyifangjiaodadexingqushishenme，haikeyiliaolingyifangpingchanghuixiaizuoshenmeshiqing，younaxiexihao，congzheidangzhonglejiexianghujianshibushiyouxianghudegerenaihao，haikeyicongzheidangzhongzhangwodaolingyifangderichangshenghuoheqinshenjingli，yekeyilejielingyifangdegexinghuahepinwei。ruhezhaohuati？liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？

二、聊平时

 xuduo qingkuangxialiangrenjiaowangqueshimeiyouneimeduohuanenggou liao，keshiwomenderichangshenghuohuichuxianyixiefeichangdeshierchansheng，neiyangzaijiaowangdeqingkuangxianenggou liaoyixiezishenshenghuoqijuzhongpengdaodequweide、gaoxingde、xinxiande、nanguodeshier，neiyangnenggou ranglingyifangjibianmeiyoushenpangyekeyijiandaozishenjinglilenaxie，yekeyiranglingyifanggengweirenshiziji。

三、聊儿时

 meiyigerenfazhanshangdouhuichanshengxuduo xiaogushi，tongnianshihenduorendouwufawangdiaodejieduan，zaiershi，zonghuiyouxuduo lingrenjiyilikegumingxindeshier，nenggou helingyifangliaozishendeershi，liaoyiliaoershichanshengguodegaoxing、shangxin、haiziqi、youyisideshi，jinguannideguoqulingyifangmeiyoucanjia，keshinenggou zaixianliaozhongzhangwonideguoqu，neiyangnenggou lajinxianghujiandejianju。

谈恋爱前期聊天的技巧

1.发消息注重技巧

 dangdajiazhaodaoshihedehuatitaolun，xianliaomanmanlaidaogaochaodieqideqingkuangxia，shuangfangdexingquaihaodouzaoyibeijifaqilai，yaohaijidemingbaizhangwofencun。lirugaozhilingyifang“wodechulaiyixia”、“woxiangjiegedianhua”，rangdajiazaimeihaodeqifenzhongwanbi，zaikaizhanxialaidehua，dajiajianghuijiubianweimeihuakeliaodehuanjie。bibushangshidudezhongzhi，ranglingyifanghuiweiwuqiongcicidexianliaoganshou，ranglingyifangxiwangyunidexiayicixianliao。jiurutesemeishiyiyang，jiaruniyicichidaocheng，neimayuedaohoubian，tesemeishirangnideganshoubianhuiyuedazhe，jibiciliugekongjian，caikeyiyouxiayicigengqiangdegangkaishi。

2.明白嵌入心锚

 liangrenganqingfazhanqushixunxujianjin，tongchangbianshibicideyinxiangzhujianqingchudequanguocheng。zaitanlianaiqianqi，lingyifangtongchangduiniyouyigedagaidezhangwo，keshiyoubutaihuihuiyiqini。cike。xinmaodebiyaoxingjiufanyingchulai。shenmejiaoxinmao，shijishangzailianaizhongdexinmaobianshichujingshengqing。lirudajiachangchangjiandaoyingshijuzhong，nanzhujiaohenvzhujiaochangchanghuiyouyuyixieqingjinghuomouyishiqingxiangqilingyifang。lirujiandaoqiqiu、jiandaoyanhua，ranglingyifangzaimouqingmoujingzhongxiangqileni，ranglingyifangduinideyinxiangyulaiyuqingchu，niquandoumeizuo，lingyifangjiuxiangqilenile，zheibizuoshenmeshiqingbixuyouyong。

3.适度的推拉门

 zairichangshenghuozhong，meiyouquweixingdeshiertongchanglingrentibuqilaixingquaihao，lirunidayikuanshoujiyouxi，laoshizoubuguoqu，niyejiuhuiyizhiqianguazhe。danjiaruoniyibianguoguan，zhaolezheigeshoujiyouxidewaiguaruanjian，naxienanduxishuzainiyanqiandounenghenhaodeshiyong，neimaniyejiuhuixunsusangshiduizheigeshoujiyouxidexingquaihao，tanlianaiyeshizheiban。

谈恋爱前期闲聊的忌讳

1.谈及前男友

 zheiyihuatitaolunzaixiangchuzhongshifeichangrongyibeitanjideyigenanti，keshiduiyuzheigewenti，querangxuduo nanhaizibumingbaibakong。youyuxiannvpengyouhuichangchangwendaoniyuqiannanyoufenshoudeyuanyin，nvhaiyizhihenjiaozhener，yaoxianggaoqingchunipangbianrenzenmefenshoude。yinci，nanhaiziqianwanbuyaojijitanjiqiannanyoua！

2.给女孩讲理

 nanhaizishikeguande，ernvhaiqueshilixingde，xuduo qingkuangxia，biechangshigennvhaijiangli，yaoburanzongshirangnanhaizigaoqingchunvhaideshengsilijie，yixieqingkuangxia，nanhaizihuanshijinliangdekuanrongnvhai，biejinvhaiyiweijiangli，zhongjiu，ruguonixiaita，jiuyingdangchongta、kuanrongta。

3.释放负面情绪

 ruhezhaohuati？liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？shijishang，xuduo qingkuangxia，nvshengxiangyaocongnizheierhuodeshehuizhengnengliang，ernanhaiziqueyizhiaimaiyuan，maiyuanshiji，baoyuanshehuifazhan。youshihouyiliangci，nvhaihuitiaoxuanlejie，keshijiarunanhaiziyiweiweichizheileixiaochendeqingkuang，zongshirangnvhaigennixianliaojuedenihensang，yizhiyubukengenniguoduodegoutongjiaoliu。