如何沟通？追女生时如何判断自己该不该放弃?

 dajiazailianaihuoshizhuinvshengzhizhongyoumuyouqinshenjingliguoxialiedezhuangkuang：naqishoujikandaotabingmeiyourangnifaguolaiyiqiexinxineirong，nihuanshihaobuzaiyikaiqitadexianliaokuangjitafaxiangxianghaozhangshijiandehua。dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？zaizaicidenghouyouzhangdeshijian，haoxiang1fenzhongzhenduinilaijiangshi1nian。zongsuanhuixinxineirongqueshibinglengdedafu，nijiandaoyihouyiranzaiciliao，ertaquehuranxiaotuile，ziciyihouzaiyebuhuihui。yincidenglehaozhangshijianniyougangkaishixunhuanxitong，shizhong........ruhegoutong？zenyangyurenxiangchuzhidao？

 “nandaoshuojiushiwoshuocuohualemeiyou，huanshiwodehuabuzuxiyinzhuta;nandaoshuoshitazaoyifanganwole?bu，zheibixushizaimang，bingqieyimangjiushishuomeitian;

 laohuashifoumeiyoujiandaowodexinxi。henduodeniantouzhanyouniderendedanao，nidexinlidoushiyouguantaweihemeilini，nidexinxuquanzaitashoushang，gengmeiyouluojisiweiqushenghuogongzuoxuexipeixun。dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？bujingyikaiqidongtaixinghuoshixianghudegoutongjiaoliuqun，fajuetafaleyizhangtesemeishidexiangpianhuoshizaigoutongjiaoliuqunneiheqitayixingpengyouliaohai。ruhegoutong？zenyangyurenxiangchuzhidao？

 tashishizaitaidechuoxin，sheiyoubingbushineiyanghuilaideni?kanjianneimazuiaideren，quebuqingchuruherangtaaishangziji，fandaotayuelaiyuebulicainaizhitaoyanziji。jiarutayezaihuni，bidinghuiduinihuiying，ruotazhuyaobiaoxianchuxialie3geqingkuang，wangbianhuanshiquannijiju：huanshisheqiba，bingbushitajishizaimang，zhishitabenzhijiubuzaiyini。

一、好久好久也没有回应

 shejiaoruanjianzaoyibianchengrenmendepingshi，shoujishangshouzhongdoushibukehuoquedeqingkuang，jiaruonijitafalezheitiaoxinxineirong，tahaojiuhaojiucaihuini，henxianzhutabenzhijiubuzaihuni，meijiangnidanghuishi。yiqian1gezhihuwendaderedianhuati：xuduorenbangwofaliuyan，wojiandaole，xianghuikeshiyinweijishijiumeiyou，jieguomangzhemangzhe，jiubashiqingjiwangjile，dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？yejiushishuorenmenshuobailedeyongqianyishilaihuiying。jishiruci，zhenduiyouhaoganduderenfaguolai，jishiyouduomang，yizhihuiyoushijianhuide，jiarubuhuijiudaibiaonibenzhimeiyouxiyinzhudaonvhaideliuyi，buzaiyinidenvhaiyouruheshuodeshangaizhenini?ruhegoutong？zenyangyurenxiangchuzhidao？

二、对你太过敷衍了事

 “wohuale10fenzhongdayiwangdezi，niqueyong1ge“e”laidafu。”buqingchuyoujigeyouneiyangdeqinshenjingli。woduinideaiwomeifayangai，wonengchixudezhaojiyuyunigoutongjiaoliu，zuodaliangdetongyixingdongjinikandao，youshiqueshihenbunengbazishendexinjiquchulaizhiyibianjinizishenwojiushishizaitaideyongxin。yexuduiwomenjingranshizaitaidecankuhelengkuwuqing。jiaru1getaduiniyaoyongmouxie“e”“ng”“shide”laidafuni，bubizhixiangshifouwodoubuzudou，rangtabugaoxing，zhishitahuijueyunigoutongjiaoliu。bufangxiangyixiaxia，jiarujininvhaizaidaozhuini，nifafuyanleshidehuiyingzheishibushiniduitabuxihuanhuoshijiutaoyanta，fandaoganjuetafan，chuziyuwenminglimaocaiyongyingduishidehuiying。ruguonifajuenideqipaoyaobitadeduoyixie，neimenihuanshixuehuifangxiaba，zhuiqiuwanmeiaidelushangwuxuneimadijian。

三、习惯性没理你

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 youxierenduinidexintaijiufanyingzaidajiadegoutongjiaoliuzhizhong，bubimengpianzishen，gengbubiduocunxiangxiang，tajiushishuoduinibuzuyouhaoganduni，niyebuzuxiyinzhuta，jiushishuozheimejiandan。dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？zheixiejiangnizuoweicaoderenniyouhekubatazuoweiyikuaierbaoni，haibibushangrangneixintenggebuwei，baxintengnideneirenfangruneixin。zailianaihuoshizaizhuinvshengnanshengmen，yaojilao，rujinzheifenaishizheibandebaogui，yaofangdaoyiyangduinideren，zheixieshizhongshechilangfeihaofeinideren，huanshigankuaidujueba。