如何找话题聊天？追女生的时候男生需要改变自身什么?

 xuduonanhaizizaizhuinvshengdehuanjie，nanmianhuidoushiqinshenjingliguobeinvhaihuijuedezhuangkuang，daozhihenkunaohaishangxinyujue。youxieren，aiyigerenmeiyouliyou，neima，buaiyigerendouyaoyouyuanyinba。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？zhenduinvhaieryan，buaiyigerendeyuanyinhaizhenyou，erqiezheiyiyuanyinxiqiguguai，rangrendadieyanjing。huanjuhuashuo，zaitaneixin，jiushishuotaoyanni，yiqieshiernenggoubianchengbuaideliyou。nanhaizizenyangcainengchudongyigenvhai，dedaotadehaoganduherentongni?ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

1、你可以会打扮自身，会调转女孩的心态

 zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？renherenzhijian，zuikaishidexiyinzhujiushishuogenjufuzhuangwaimao，yinci，zuoweinanhaizi，zhuyaodeshiyaorangzishenyuelaiyuegengqiang。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

fuzhuangshang，yaodedang，daqi，yaohuanjingzhengjie，wushifengfan。

 jiarunishigehenbuxiubianfudenanhaizi，sheixiangyaogennizhanzaiyiqi，gengbuyaoshuohuibeinvhaikanzhongle，xianglaitabudanburongyiduiniyouganjuefandaohuigankuaitaokaiba。

yeyou，nikeyinengdiaozhuannvhaidexintai，rangtaduiniwangbudiao。

 nvhaidexintaizhuangtaishijishangshihenguaiyide，tadexintaitongchangjueceletadegerenxingwei。jiarunikeyifeichanghaodibawotadexintai，neigongxigongxi，nilitaduiniyouganjue，zhinengyibuzhiyao。

yinci，nanhaizibudanyaodongdedaban，yeyoumingbaigediao，diaozhuantadexintai。neiyang，daziranhuirangnvhaigengfeichangrongyidongxin。

2、和女孩要有共同话题

xiainvhai，ziranyaoduitadeaihaoyouyidingdezhangwo，shuobailezhibizhiji，baizhanbaisheng。

 yikaishiyouyuxianghuzhijianbuzhangwo，baozhengzheiyidianhuoxubuyi，yinci，nanhaiziyaosidixiaquduinvhaizuoyigezhangwohemopai。zhuiyigeren，huoxushiyaohuaxieshijianheqinfenle。

 nikeyitiaoyigezishengennvhaikeyichuangjiangongtonghuatideshierquxuexipeixun，neiyangsuzaoxianghudeyouhaodu，caiyougongtonghuati，caiburongyishixianliaogaliao。

 yiqielianqing，doubixushuohua，bixuyounengliaodaoxialaidehuatitaolun，ruruoburan，dajialianjichudexianliaodoubaochibushang，neiyejiubietannaxiezhuiqiule。

 liangrenyougongtonghuati，daziranjiunengxiaochubicidemoshenggan，jianjiandidelianggerenzhongjianjiuhuishuxiqilai，nvhaiduinideyouhaoduyehuijiazhong。

3、明白烂漫，对女孩多关注

 lanmanbujinshinongqingmiyi，huashujincu。xuduonanhaizijuedezishenbumingbailanman，fangfomeibanfabaozhengdemoyang。shijishang，lanmanbingbuhuitainanbaozheng。

 lanmannenggoufeichangjiandan，jianyidaotakudeneishihou，nijitajianbu，jitayigejiezhu。meiyourendeneishihou，nichangzhewenroudege，hongtagaoxing。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？jianyidaotaxunwenniyijuxibuxihuanpeitaquzhouyoushijie，niningjingerwenroudegaozhita“nishiwodequanqiu”。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

 shijishang，nvhaiduinanhaiziyemeiyoushenmetingdadeguiding，bingbushixiangyaonimeitianhuashujialipin，meitianyinshizuodui，nongqingmiyi，yaoshishinengrangtajuedewennuan，juedexinlaijiujiuxingle。

nanhaizigennvhaizaiyiqideneishihou，duozuoyixiewennuandeshier，neiyangnvhaijiuhuixiangyaogennichupeng。

lanmandenanhaizi，shanyuzaishenghuodesuoshishang，jinvhaichuhuyiliaodeyiwaijingxi，caihuirangnvhaiduitashenshendichimi。

4、要让她对你觉得到踏实靠谱

renmenyixienanhaizi，tongchangtaiguoqingtiao，zuoxiehaiziqideshi，zheibushiyingdangde。

 suoyourenxinli，doushiyongyoubuanwendejuede，jiazhongdeyaosu，huoshishijiaowangderenweizijichanshengdeweihai，doushiyongyouyidingdegongxiao。

 nvhaigengshiruci，tamenjingchangkongjukumen，zongganjueshenghuobuanwen。yinci，nikeyijitayizhongweiyigan，rangtatihuidaotashi，neiyangcaikeyirangtaduinizaochengyikao。

 nanhaiziduinvhaidekuanwei，ruguogegefangmiande，lirunichangchangshouhouta，duojianxinta，zaipengdaonantishi，quyutayiqideyingdui。jianjiandi，tayejiuhuiyikaoshangniba，yikaozaochengyihou，qinggandazirankeyijianjiandiyuelaiyuenonghou。

tanengchengdande，nikeyikuanweiheshouhou，tabukeyichengdande，nikeyinengweitazhichengdianqiyipiantian。

huanjuhuashuo，zaitaneixin，niyeshiyigetashikaopuderen，buguanshashi，tadiyigexiangdaoderenquanshini。

5、你可以有责任感、进取心强

 nvhaizaigangkaishiyiduanlianqingshi，doushidiaochananhaiziyoumuyouzerengan，jinquxin，youyutamenganjue，yigemeiyouzerenganhejinquxindenansheng，shiburongyijitachanshengxingfukuailede。

 yizhiyu，yigenanhaizixiangyaoyibianjiazhongyibianlianrentatashishidejianfuqiyiwu，shizuiguanjiandeyaosu，zheiyexianeryijianbianchengnvhaizhaoduixiangshibibeidecengmian。

renmenchangshuo，qiongmeishier，keshibukeyiyibeizijiushizheiyangqiongxialai。

 shijishang，nvhaixiangyaojiageyigebiaozhunbingfeifeichanghaodenanhaizi，tongchangyouyuneiyangdenanhaiziyibanquanshihenqinfen，henqinfen。zainvxinyanzhong，tanengjiandaojianglaideqidai，caihuijienani。

 meiyounajianvhaihuijiageyigekanbudaoweilaideren，niyebuqinfenbuqinfen，neishirihaizenmewan?yinci，youzhejinquxinshizuiguanjiande。

 nvhaidouaichusedenanhaizi，zheibingfeizhinifeiyaoyouduoqudechenggongduofuyou，zhishijinichongzudezerengan，jinquxin，nengjitayigexingfukuailedejianglai。dongma。

 nanhaiziyaogaoqingchu，jibianduinvhaizibiaobaiqudechenggong，yezhishishiliangrenguanliandegangkaishi。yihoudeluhaihenzhang，renzhongdaoyuan，xiangyaoniyongzhenxinshiyiqukandai。aiqingcongbushiyigerendeshi，shiliangrenxianghunuliqinfendejieguo，yiqiewanmeideaiqingquanshiyongzhenxinshiyijiaohuode。aiyigerendaibiaoshenme?zheidaibiaoyiwu，yaoyongyudandang，bingqieweitadexingfukuaileerqinfen，weishiweilaishenghuoxingfukuaileerqinfen。

 ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？yiyangde，aiyebixukuanrong，xianghushenaideren，xianghudexinshizuiwennuande。zaihaodezhuinvshengjiqiaodoubukeshimangmudi，zhishiyizhenxinshiyiyizhenxinshiyiqudadongta。nikeyilejie：quanshijiebuaideliyouyouxuduo，eraidebiaoxianzhinengyige：jiuxianghenizaiyiqi。yinci，renzhenquzhuiqiuniaidenvshengba。