如何有效沟通？懂得避免敌对性语句

 richangshenghuo，renmenjingchangfajueneiyangdezhuangkuang：yiyangdeyijuhua，liangrenshuodeyizibucha，keshishijixiaoguotongchangyoutingdadequbie。youxierenbeixiai，youxierenzebeikanbushang。tashibukeyiyouxiaodegoutongdeyuangu，ruheyurengoutongshisuoyourenwubibawodefangfa，yiqilaixuexiruheyouxiaogoutongba！

一、如何与人沟通

1、liuyixiandailiyi，zhuanxinyubierengoutongjiaoliu

 dangtarenxiangzaochengnideliuyi，huozheyouaihaoyunizhangtan，bubitaobi，yebubizhuandetouhuiying。fanguolaide，niyingdanghuiguotoulaiqu，yingduitamenkaizhangoutongjiaoliu。zhinengzhuanxinyugoutongjiaoliu，caikeyigengqiangdegoutongjiaoliulejie。fayanshiliuyishentiyuyanheyindiao，yijiandingbuyixinxindezishi，zhushilingyifang，fouzeshizaimaiyuanjubao，haijideyaobaochiweixiao。

2、goujianzishendexianliao“zhenrenmishi”

 dangniyongyuanbuzhidaoruhegoutongdeneishihou，juedemeifajizhonghuajingqishenguanxinbierenchangshuo，shizhegoujianyijian“xiaozhenrenmishi”，libianyouleniyunixianliaodelingyiban。xiangxiangzhezheijiazhenrenmishishiyushidulide，meiyouzheixiejinizoushendeshiqing，jiunenggouzhuanxinyuxianliaodeneirongle。xinlijingangsaduoxinzhoulingyifangsuoshuodeciyu—jinerjiaqiangxinxineirong，fangzhizhuyilibujizhong。

3、回应，不必争吵

 renherenzhijiandejiaowang，qujueyuhexie，erbuqujueyuzhengchao。jiazhonglibianderenjingchangweizhengshizishenyanzhiyouli，erchixujizijibianjie，dangmeigerenzaixiangzhengshizishenshiqiadangdeneishihou，zhengzhijiunanyibimian。daozuizhong，zhengzhibingmeiyouchanshenghexie，fandaoshigemobiandegengjiada。

4、防止敌对性句子

 dangnibixutonglingyifangtaolunyixiebijiaomingannanti，ruhegoutongqiewuyingyongdiduixingjuzi，liru：“nigaijinkuaizhangwowoya”，“xubuxuyaoyaowonanguo”，“niconglaibulejiewo”，“woyuanyiweirenmenhuigaoxingde”。zheizhongdiduijingongdejuziduitanhuaneirongmeiyoutuidonggongxiao，zongshizaochengmaodun。

5、fuwuchengnuo，biewangle

 shuoguodehua，zongbiewangle。meifazuodaojiujinliangbuyaofuwuchengnuo，zhenzhengainideren，buzaiyinijitamenshenmeni，quexintengniduifushiyanzheiyigerenxingwei，jiububitahuiduinidexiwangchengkong，shucidedenghoukanbujianjieguo，huitahuirenweizainineixinzaoyimeilebuwei。