如何跟异性交友聊天？一句话就把天聊死，还怎么可能做朋友！

 jinrirenmenjiulailiaoyiliao，ruhegenyixingjiaoyouliaotian？xiangxinwulunshipenyoudexiangchuhuanshigongzuofangmiandexiezuo，renmenhuoduohuoshaodoushiyoujihuaxueshigenyixingpengyouchupengjiaowang。ermeiyiduiganqingyoupanwangderen，yeshiqidaikeyigenxinaiderenchuangjianguanlian，chuangzaoqinggan，xieshoubingjianduguodajiaderenshengdaolu。errenmenyaoyuanmandejinxingzheizhongzongtimubiao，zaiqizhongyouyijianshiniwubigaohao，neibianshiliaotian。

neimayibandizhuangkuangxia，renmenruhejiaoyouliaotian，caikeyigengqiangdezuodaozishendemudi（bingbushifeifenzhixiang）ni？?

yuanyiheyixingpengyouliaohaotian，yixiebiaozhunrenmenwubiyaojuyoude。

一、心态调整

 xintaizhuangtai，shuobailejiushishuoxintai。niyingduideshiyixingpengyoushi，nixintaihao，jiudaziranzhuyaobiaoxiandedaqidedang；neixinzhuangtaibuhao，daziranjiuhuizhuyaobiaoxiandemiantianjiaolvbuan。

haodexintaizhuangtaigenrenmendexinxinxiangguan，bingqiexinxinyougenrenmendeziwojiazhixiangguan。

 yaoshidahuoerdejiazhiguannianleisi，huoshiniyeshihuaizheshizaidexintai，neineiyanggenyixingpengyouzaixianjiaoyoucaiburongyichuxiansheiqiaobuqishei，sheihuiyangwangsheizheizhongzhuangkuang。

 eryingdangbaozhengcongrongdanding，bixuyouyigeyouliangyizhiyuqiangjingdexintaizhuangtaicaixing，jibubibeilingyifangbiaomianererweihaidaozishendexinxu，yoububiyouyulingyifangyixiequedianerduitaxincunchizhiyibi。

二、演讲口才能力

 jiranshiyongjiazhifeichangde2geyouxiurencaikeyijinkuaijiaoyouliaotian，neimayuanyibaozhengcongrongdandingdezheiyizishi，chukaibixuxinxinxintaizhuangtaizheizhongbenzhidexiulian，yanyujuxingdetiaoxuandoushishifenguanjian。

 naxiemoyanghanyini？renmenyuyixingpengyouzaixianjiaoyou，renmenjinjinguangkaobiaomianlaifenbianlingyifangdeshiyongjiazhi，shibirenmendegaohuanshibirenmendi，shijishangrenmenzheileifenbian，shizhuguanxingde。

 dangnipingbiaomiandeyinxiang，jiupandingzishendeshiyongjiazhibilingyifangdi，jinerhaipazaiciliaotian，renmenjiumeifazhenzhenzhengzhengdezuodaocongrongdanding。jiyoukenengrenmendeyanyujiuhuiyinerzaoshouweihai，tiaoxuanleyixiedishiyongjiazhidejuxinglaihelingyifanggoutongjiaoliu。

jiaruniyaotigaozijideyanjiangkoucainengli，nenggoujindaojiaoyouqunkaizhanjiaoyouliaotian，jiaoyouqunzaigedaweibopinglunxiabiandoushiyou。

三、用对策来改进聊天

shenmejiaoduice？zhangwolingyifangdeyaoqiu，suihouzaikaolvlingyifangzheiyiyaoqiu，zheijiushishuoliaotianduicedexianshuyingyong。

 lingyifangjiuhuiqipanhuodenidezanyang，jiulijidezanyanghaola，jinliangbuyaodedianpingyoulie；lingyifangqidaihuodenidekuanwei，nilijixiangyongjiushishuole，bubiyizhizaijiangdaoli！