大学生人际交往的问题

 bujiujindaoxiaoneidedaxuexinsheng，yidinghuijijianglailindexuexiaoshenghuotianmanqidai，danbansuizheerchengde，yemianlinzishendeyurenxiangchunanti，shijishangzheizhongnantizaidabufendedaxueshengshangchangyoufanying。

一、大学生与人相处的难题

1、自身为基地趋向

 dangjindaxuexinshengduoshidushengzi，congxiaobeishoujiazhongdechongniyuguanai，zaiyurenxiangchuzhong，gengxiguancongzishendeguandian、jianjielaikan，kandaizhoubiandeshiqing。duitarenqidaigao，guidingyan，zilvyishisong，guidingdi。zaiyutongxuemen、penyou、jiaoshijiaowangquanguochengzhong，changchangyi“zishenweijidi”dexintaizhuangtaiquduidaitaren，guidingtaren，feichangshaoquganshoutarendeniantouyutihui。jiaowangzhongqianqueherenxiezuodeguannianyugerenxingweijiqixianghulijiedegongzuonengli。

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2、功利性趋向

 bansuizheshichangjingjitizhideshencengcifazhanqushi，dajiadeshangyefuwuguannianzhubutigao。yingduimengliedeshichangjingzhenghexueshengjiuyedegongzuoyali，henduodaxueshenggangkaishigaoduzhongshiyurenxiangchudehuaxuewuzhixingjiabigao。“youqiujijiejiao”、“youyongjijiaowang”、“xianghuzhijianyunyong”denggonglixingguanniantigao。mouxiexueyuanjianggonglizhuyizuoweiyurenxiangchudezhidaofangzhen，zhuyaobiaoxianweiyouyongdecaijiao，meiyongdebujiao，yongtudadetanchengxiangdai，yongtuxiaodeqianjiaodejiaowangyishi。

3、虚似冷漠趋向

 bansuizhehulianwangjishudefazhanqushi，xuhuanshijiegangkaishibianchengdangdaidaxueshengdejingshenshijie。“tazheshoujilingshengchuruketangjiaoxue，qinshilibianrulvbobing，hulianwangjishushanghusuzhongchang。”keyishuoshiyixiedaxueshengshejiaozhuangkuangdepinpaixingxiangxushu。you39%zuoyoudexueyuanjuede，fuzaduobiandehulianwangxuhuanshijieshizishenmilianzaiqizhong。muqian，jiaruyigedaxueshengburongyishangwaiwang、meiyouqqhaomama，neijiushinanyizhixinde。

 hulianwangxusijiaowangyibianshixinxianderen，lingyibianqueshibiaoji，jinguanbiaojikechuansongguannianheqinggan，danmeifatihuidaoshijishejiaogoutongjiaoliudeqingganyanse，zhangjiuyiwangbidingzaochengjiaowangzhedeqingganpinfaerquyulengmo。jiashang，daxueshengyidanzaishijijiaowangzhongyuzu，jiuhuizhuanweixuhuanshijielixunzhaokuanweihekaolv，lengmojieshouxianshishejiaoziranhuanjing，chanshengliangjihua，zaochenggengweichenmiyuhulianwang，taobixianshi，zuihoujiangzaochengdanqieneixiang、zishenfengbishi，daozhiyurenxiangchuchuxianlengmoyushuyuanbici。