大学生人际交往的几点建议

 daxueshengshehuijiaowangyuxinlijiankangjinmilianxi。daxueshengyingzhongshishehuijiaowangdebiaozhunsuzao。wenzhongcongshehuijiaowangdedingyixiashou，yidaxueshengweijizhundian，lunshuledaxueshengshejiaogongzuonenglidesuzaobixuzhongshishejiaorenzhinengli、jiaowangjiqiaoheshijianhuodongcanjiasigefangmian，xiangyaozhidaodaliangdexiaohuozigen huazhenqingganwangbian lailejieyixiaba。

一、大学生社会交往的幾點提议

 shehuijiaowangdebiaozhunjiushizhishehuifazhanquntizhongyinjiaowangerzuchengdexianghuyilaihehuxianglianluoderenjiguanxi，shirenshijianhuodongyishizhuxingdeguanjiangoucheng。zheishiyigebianhuafazhanqushidequanguocheng，bixurendaoshehuishijianzhongbuduandiaojiezishendeyishihegerenxingweiqurongruxindeshehuixianzhuang。

 renjijiaowangderongruzaoyibianchengxinlijiankangdeyigeguanjiangoucheng，youliangderenjijiaowangnenggouxiezhuqingshaonianertongjinkuairongrurentihexintaizhuangtaizhuanbian。daxueshengyaoxiangrongruchixuzhuanbiandeshiqiheshehuixianshi，yaoxiangdayouzuowei，jiuwubibuduanqinfensuzaozishendejiaowanggongzuonengli。daxueshengshejiaonenglidesuzaoyingzhongshishejiaorenzhinengli，renjijiaowangjiqiaoheshijianhuodongcanjia。

1、zhengqueduidaizishenhebieren

 qiadangdeziwopingdingshidaxueshengxinlijiankangdeguanjianbiaozhun，daxueshengyingqiaruqifendilejieziji，fangzhengzishendebuwei，congrongdanding，mianduikunjingyujiongjing，keyizishenyuena，zizhongziai，renqingshiji，buduanjinqu。keguanxinggongpingdeduidaitaren，jibukuadaqiciqiquexian，doububianxiaoqiyoushi。“sanrenxing，biyouwoshiyan”，jiaowangzhongyingduoliuyiheshangxitarendeyoudian，xiangbierenxuexipeixun。

2、以诚相待标准

 caiji、jupa、qianquexinlaishiweihaidaxueshengchuangjianyouliangrenjijiaowangdeguanjianzuai，yiner，dajiandaxueshengyouliangrenjijiaowangyinggaishizhongjianchiyichengxiangdaidebiaozhun。yichengxiangdaijutibiaoxianzaiweirenchushiyanxingyizhi、biaoliruyi，zhinengneiyangcaikeyihuodebierenxinlai。jiaowangzhongyingdangyaneryouxin，xinshounuoyan，yichengshishouxin，baozhengyizhenchengdexintailaipengjiquanjie，chengxindijiliyuzanmei，erbingbushixuqingjiayigongweiyugongwei，gengbingbushiculujifengyujingong。

3、学会倾听

 lingtingshishehuijiaowangdeyimenzaoxingyishu。zhuanxinzhizhidilingtinglingyifangtanhuaneirong，shiduilingyifangdewenminglimaohezhongshi，doushiduilingyifangdeyizhongzanmeihegongwei，lingyifangyehuiyinererxiai、xinrennibingyuanyiyunijiaowang。zhenshidelingting，yaorenzhen、yongshuangyan、yongerduolimianquting。yinci，daxueshengzaijiaowangzhongyingbawotingdefangfa，baozhengxixin、zixi、qianxu、huixindeting，jiyulingyifangchongzudezhongshi。

4、懂得称赞

 chengzanshiyizhongjiechudezaoxingyishu，jubeiyizhongnanyizhixindenengliang。chengzanjuyouduibierenderentong，youyouduibierendeshangxi。suoyourenxinlingshenchuzuizhangjiu、zuishencengcideqipanjiushiduizanmeideqipan，dongdezanmeitarenshipingshishejiaoquanguochengzhongdeshashoujian。zanmeiyaochengxinchengyi，fazifeifudekaitan；zanmeiyaoqieheshijizhuangkuang，yaoxihua，queding；zanmeibixucongxiweichuxiashou，bawoqiyutarenbuyiyangdetexing。