沟通从心开始之如何沟通

 goutongcongxinkaishilaikande。richangshenghuowomendoushibidinghuichanshengyushenpangderenkaizhangoutongjiaoliude，neimatangruonigoutongjiaoliubushanbianhuichanshengmaodun。youguanruhegoutong、goutonganlidegongxianggensuiwangbianwomenyiqilaiqiaoqiaoba。

一、如何沟通

 1、xiaorongzhequgoutongjiaoliuhenguanjian！youyuxiaorongdoushiyizhongrenwenyishu。zainaonudechuxianyichangxintaiposhixiaruhecaikeyimanxialaizhenxinchengyigoutongjiaoliuni？nijiubixujini1geyouliangdexintaiheziranhuanjing。baozhenglezheiyidianerniyutarendejianjujiujinyuanzeleyibu，tashirenherenzhijianzuijichudexinlai。

 2、renmenyaoxuehuiqingting、duoyongxintingtarendeguandian、quqiadangdeqingting。shidudiandiantoubiaodaniyizhizaiyongxinting。jibianjinimanduzidehuaxiangshuoyededengnitarenjiangwanzailiao。

 3、quchupingjingdexintaiquyingdui、yongchengzhideyudiaoqugoutongjiaoliu，rangbierenganjueniyeshi1geyousuyangderen。goutongjiaoliuquanguochengshiyaowanzhuandemingquetichulingyifangdebugouyubuzhengque。xianjiangmouxiechengzanzheileideyuju，suihouzaiyong“keshi、danshi”zheileidecijukaizhanmingquetichubuyiyangdejianyi。

二、沟通案例——荒漠里的感情

 1gezhishenyuhuangmowuyiwukaodehelanbingshi，jibenshangyidongbudongdiyundaozaishandongli。daitaxingguolaihoujinghuangdiquefajueyitoumengshoutangzaitadeshenpang，yuanxianshiyizhizuibianhaizhanzhexuezidebaozi。xingerhuabaochibaocaiduitabingwuguyi。

 bingshibenxiangyingyongduandaoandilishadiaota，jiezhequegenggailexiangfa。tayongwenrouchiqingdezishifumocibao、tongtahemuxiangchu、chuangjianleqinggan、yiqishoujiyouxiwanle。shubuzhibingshihuanshidanxin，jiezhebaozirushuideneishihouqiaoqiaotaozoule。

 danzouhenshaoyuanbaozixunsujiuganleshangqu。zheishihoubingshiyibuxiaoxinshenxianliushazhong，baoziyaodaotadelingkoubatajiulechuqu。bingshirenweizheishiyaochita，yingyongduandaociruletadejingbu。erhuabaozhengtuoshijingranshuangyanlimeiyouyifenyihaodenaonu。

 bingshizaitidaozheiyiduanqinshenjinglishitidao“wojuedenaerdouburuhuangmo、neibianmeiren、zhinengzaowuzhu。”bingshizairenmenshehuifazhantihuibushangdewupin，zaihuangmolitihuilaidao。

 henduonianlaiwangbianshizhongbeizheiyijingdiangushidadongzhe，taxiangdajiazhuansulegoutongjiaoliudewuxiangailv、jibianzairenyushouzhongjian。lingwaiyewomenyiqizhenduirenmenrenmenbenshendegoutongjiaoliugengpojuzixinxin。goutongcongxinkaishi……