挽回老公：老公变心拒绝碰我

　　fenshouhouhaichaojiashiyiduiqinglvfenshouhoubingweiduanjuelianluo，quexianruleyizhongmeiwanmeiledezhengchaoqingkuang。bulunshiweilenengjiechuwuhui，qiuqugongping，haishihelingyifangzaicijiuchanbuqing，chaojiachengweiwomengoutongjiaoliudezhuyaotujing。zheizhongqingkuangtongchanglaiyuanyumeijiejuedeqinggannanti，bicizhijianyiranduilingyibanyongyouqianguahezhizhe，huoshiqianqueshidudegoutongdejiqiao。fenshouhoudechaojiajishiyizhongqingganjiejuedexingshi，yeshuominglebicibicizhijianguanlianbushezhiqingyuzhenshitiyandebiaoshu。danshi，zheileimeiwanmeiledezhengchaotongchangzhihuiyanzhangtongchu，yingdangxunqiugengjiajiankangfangfalaijiejueqingganenyuan。

　　情感抵抗：抹不去的纠缠不清

　　fenshouhouhaichaojiabianchengyixielianrenmeifawanquanbaituodefannao。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，bicibenlaijuedingfenshou，quebunengwanquanduanjuelianluo。bicijiandenaonu、xinhan、huoshiduibicideyikao，shidetamenbuduandibeixiyinzhuzaiyiqi，bunengziba。bulunshizhengchaodeyuanyinshiyinweiweilenengxunqiubaituoheziwojiazhidezhengshi，haishichuyubicizhijianqinggandehuainianyunanyishihuai，buguanzenyang，chaojiachengletamenmeifafenkaide“qingganbangpiao”。

　　角逐权利：分手后的政治斗争

　　fenkaisuodailaidequanligenggaishizaisuonanmiande，danshi，zaiyiduanfenshouhoudeguanxizhong，yifanghuobiciyiranshituyongchaojialaiweichihuoshijiaozhuquanli。zheileizhengzhidouzhengbeihou，shiliangrenneixindejiaolvheduizizunxinweihu。genjuchaojiabiaodazijideguandianjiyaoqiu，yifanghuobicichangshizaizheiguochengzhongtanxunpinghenghepingwen，zhongxindedaoziyidezhudaoquan。

　　芥蒂担心：摆脱不了的情感恩怨

　　fenshouhouchaojiadelingyigeyuanyinshiyinweiduilishiqinggandenanyishihuai。shuangfangjiuguoqudehuiyi、bicizhijiandeqinggan、duiwufayuanmandejieshuyihandeng，douyaozaizhengchaohuanjiezhongdeyishifang。chaojiachengweiyizhongshifangqingxudexingshi，jibianbicimingzhidaochaojiagaibianbuleyiqiekeguanshishi，queyeweiyoutongguozhengchao，tamencainengfaxieneixindebumanyifennu，naizhicongzheidangzhongtanxundiaozhengqingxu。

　　沟通交流窘境：没法精准表达与聆听

　　fenshouhouzhengchaodelingyigecengmianshibiciyouyugoutongjiaoliudejiongjing。biaodazijiqingganhekanfa，lingtinglingyifangdejianyiyuxuqiubianchengbukeqijidenanti。zhengchaobianchengweiyidejiaoliufangshi，youyuchaojianenggourangtamengandaobicizhijianyirancunzai、bicizhijianguanzhu，bingqiecongqiandehunyinguanxiyeshidegengyuanyizaizhengchaozhongxunqiujiejuewentidebanfa。

　　内心发泄：释放出来内心的痛苦与恨

　　fenshouhouhaichaojiaduiyouxierenlaishuoshiyizhongxinlingshenchudefaxie，shiyizhongshifangchulaineixindetongkuyuhendefangfa。chaojianengrangtamenbaneixindexiaojiqingxusuoyoufaxie，jiangjiyadeqinggantongkuzhuanhuaweiwaizaimaodun。suiranzheizhongfangfagenbenwufaqingchuneixindeshangtong，quechangchangchengweiwomenlinshixunqiuneixinanweifaxiedelujing。

　　爱和悲伤的边沿：求取摆脱的窘境

　　fenshouhouhaichaojiabujinshiduiyiwangqinggandeyilaixing，yeshiduiweilaibaituodexiangwang。bulunshiweilenengchangshiwanliusuoshiqudedongxiqinggan，haishixiangyaowanquanbaituozishen，fenshouhoudezhengchaorangyifanghuobicixianruaihetongchuzhongjianbianyuan。zheileimaodunshidetamenbunengziba，jiujiefenshouhoudeguanxizhong，bingqieyeshenkediganshoudaotongkuhezhengtuo。

　　buguanfenshouhouchaojiadeyuanyinjiqibeihoudedongjishishenme，zuizhongyaodeshishuangfangyaoqingchudirenshidaozheileizhengchaogaibianbuleyiwang，yenanyichuangjianjiankangdeshenghuoguanlian。tamenyinggainulixunqiugengqiangdefangshilaijiejuefenshouhoudeenyuan，lirutongguolizhideduihuahexianghulijielaixunqiujiejuewentifangshi，huoshixunqiujishuzhuanyedezhichiqufenxihejieshiziyideqingganjiongjing。weiyouruci，cainengzuodaozhenzhengjiejuefenshouhouhaichaojiadefannao，maijingengjiajiankang、wanshanderenshengdaolu。