面对老公冷暴力，聪明女人如何挽救婚姻？

 mianduilaogonglengbaoli，congmingnvrenruhewanjiuhunyin？henduonvxingjingchangbeizhangfudelengbaolishanghai，dantamendaduoxuanzerenshouhuozheyonglengbaolifanji。qishizheishiduifuqiguanxizuiyouhaide。rangwomenjiaonizenmezuo!

冷静。

 ruguofaxianpeioukaishibiaoxianchulengbaoli，renheshihoudoubuyaodajingxiaoguai。huishideqifan。nibixubaochilengjing，zheiyangnicainengyouzugoudexinqingqufenxinimenzhijiandemaodun。

分析。

 nixuyaoyizhibi，yizhangzhi，bashenghuozhongkenengyinqiduifanglengbaolidewenti，napashizuixiaodewenti，liechulai，ranhouliechuyuniwuguandeyinsu，tongshixiexiapeioudexinggetedian，kankanshishenmecushitahuotaduinishishilengbaoli。

说话。

 dangnizhunbeilengjingbingfenxisuoyouyuanyinshi，niyinggaizhudongtichutantan。zaimeiyoudisanzhedeqingkuangxiashuohua，yaokaichengbugong，basuoyoukenengchuxiandewentidoubaidaozhuomianshang。nixuyaodeshiduifangduiniyishitongren。ruguozhishijiatingneibudemaodunhuozheyuanyunidemaodun，zheizhongtanhuafenweiyou90%yishangdekenengxingjiejuewenti。

 ruguoshipeiouzijidewenti，biruyouwaiyu，yekeyibangzhunilejieshiqingdezhenxiang，huozhezhishaorangniqingchudezhidaozijideweiquheshibaishiyinweishenme。

主动。

 buguanshibushiheping，fenxideshihouyaozuojueding。liaowanzhihou，niyaodongdexuanze。congxinliganshoushanglaishuo，nizhudongzuochudexuanzebibeidongjieshoudeyaohaodeduo。youqishiyinweiduifangzaochengdewenti，zhudongyuanlianghuibiaoxianchunidedadu，zhudongfenshouhuibiduifangyougenghaodehuixuanyudi。

劝说。

 ganqingdesangshishishuofubiandejiqikunnan。bukenengyongguoqudeaiqing、jiating、fumu、haizishenzhicaichan、mingyulaidadongjiandingdebanlv。niweiyidexuanzejiushifankehudaoxiang，zuoyigetitiedebangzhuduifangdezitai，congbangzhuduifangguihuayuxinrendejiaowang，daobangzhuduifangshejizijiweilaideshenghuo。