2018年大学新生看过来：大学生人际关系寝室篇

 2018niangaokaoyijingluoxiaweimuyiduanshijian，jijiangyouyipixindedaxueshengdansheng，2018niandaxuexinshengkanguolai，zheiliyounimenguanxindedachengshidaxuexinshengruxuezhinanhedaxuesheng renjiguanxi qinshipian。

一、2018年大学生入学指南

1、大学新生报名注册流程

 daxuexinshengzuifanmangdeyitianjiushubaodaozhucedeneiyitianle，youxieyoutongxueyinweibuzhidaobaodaozhucedeliuchengershoumangjiaoluan，weicibenwenteweixinshengmenxiangxijieshibaodaozhuceliucheng，rangdajiahenyoutiaobuwendiyingjielaidaodaxuedediyitian。

 daodaxuexiaohou，nihuikandaogeyuanxideyingxinrenyuanjuzhebiaomingyuanxideqizaimenkouyingjiexinsheng。zhiyaozhaodaozijideyuanxideyingxinrenyuan，tamenjiuhuilingnidaonimenyuanxidexinshengjiedaichu。jiexialai，zhixuyaoanzhaotamenshuodeliuchenglaibanlijiukeyile。

2、大一新生军训注意事项

guanyudaxueshengjunxun，meigedaxuedouhuiyoubutongdejutiyaoqiu，laiyigedagaidejunxunzhuyishixiang：

 shouxian，chumenqianyaorenzhenjianchajunxunfuzhuang，ru：junmao、maohui、beizhang、yaodaideng，yaodaiyaoshidangjinyidian，zouqilulaihuigengyoujingshenjinger；wazichuanmianzhiyundongwa，xiezilimianzaidianyikuairuanxiedian，zheiyangjiaohougenhuishufuyidian。qici，yaozhuyibuchongshuifen。yiyundongyinliaohechashui，yanshuizuijia，buyaopinminghebaikaishuihuokuangquanshui。

 lingwai，tebieyaozhuyifangshai，chumenqianbanxiaoshijiuyaotu，yinweifangshaishuangyeyaoshijianxishou。fangshaishuangyaosuishendai，yibanshiergexiaoshijiuyaotuyici。

二、大学生人际交往潜规则

 daxueshengsusheshenghuoshidajiachaoxixiangchudesansigeniantou，haodesusheguanxishidaxueshenghuodejichu。daxueshengrenjijiaowangdedaxueshengrenjiguanxinibudebuzhi：

1、初见面 互相适应

 gangjinrudaxuesusheshenghuo，youqishidachengshilidedaxue，dajiadoushilaiziwuhusihai，quanguogedi，meigerendexingquaihao，shenghuoxiguandengdouyousuobutong。

建议：

xianlejieyixiadajiadejibenqingkuang，birulaizinali，xingquaihaodengdeng，kaishijitianyibanshibuhuiyoushenmemaodunde。

 guoyiduanshijianyihou，kenenghuichuxianduiqitarendeshenghuoxiguanbumanyidedifang，zheishizaibuweibeiyuanzedeqingkuangxiajiuyaoxuezhequjieshoubierendeshenghuoxiguan，bijingzheibushiyishibanhuinenggaidiaode。

2、记住“三不要”

2.1、不要随便碰舍友的东西

 qiejiyidian，bushitebietiedeqingkuangxia，tebieshinimenganggangzhuzaiyiqi，bicizhijianhaibushuxi，youdetongxuebijiaojihuibierenpengtadedongxi，yinweizheishihetongxuenaoyicimaodunshizaishibuzhide，yaoguanzhuzijideshou。

2.2、不要随意带陌生人进入宿舍

 zainikanlaizheiyexumeishenme，shuobudinghainengrangtamenduojiaoyigepengyouni，danshiqitarenbingbuyidingzheiyangrenwei，daiyigemoshengrenjinrusushe，youshihuirangtamenqueshaoanquangan，suoyiniyaodainizijidepengyoujinrusushedeshihoutiqiangaosusheyouyisheng，zhengdetamendetongyi

2.3、不要搞特殊

 jijicanjiasushedejitihuodong，birujiejiarisushexiangyaoyiqichuquwan，nengquyidingqu，dengguoyiduanshijian，dajiadoubicishuxile，niyaoxuehuiweichinimendeguanxi，buyaoyinweinimenguanxihaolejiukeyiweisuoyuweile，zheiyanghenrongyidaozhinimendeguanxipolie，dingqihesheyouliaotiangoutong，juhuideng。

3、记住“二个要”

3.1、要学会关心舍友

 dangsheyouyudaokunnanhuozheshengbingdeshihou，zhudongqubangzhuta，jishinizuobuleshenmeshi，yeyaozaipangbianshuoyixieanweidehua，zhishaokeyijitaxinlingdeyikao，manmandinimendeguanxijiuhuifeichanghao。

3.2、要记住每个人的生日

 yinweisushederenbingbuduo，yibanliuge，yousigede，suoyijizhumeigerendeshengribingbushiyijianhenkunnandeshi，zaitashengrideshihou，nikeyiweitazhunbeiyifenshengriliwu，songshangyifenzhufu，huozheniheqitasheyoutoutouweitazhunbeiyicixiaoxiaodeshengriparty，zheidouyouzhuyunigaohaosheyouzhijiandeguanxi。

4、宿舍集体生活学会包容

 henduotongxuemeiyouzhuxiaojingli，shangdaxuezhiqianyigerenshenghuoziyouzizai。turanyaohejigerengongyongyigeqinshi，jiubixubaorongbierendeshenghuofangshi。ruguobierendeshenghuofangshiyouaiyunideshenghuo，jiuxuyaoweiwanditichuyijian，bingshidangdijinxingziwodiaozheng(rudiaozhengzuoxishijian)。

5、学会主动交往

 yaoxiangchulihaotongxuezhijiandeguanxi，haiyaozuodaoduirenkuan、duijiyan。qiejiyiziwoweizhongxin，zaipingshideshenghuozhong，zhudongyutongxuedazhaohu，zhudonghetongxuejianghua，zhudongbangzhubieren。ciwai，yaozhudongquzuoxiegonggongshiwu，yizengjiatongxuemendehaogan。

6、讲究方法技巧

在与同学相处时应坦诚相待，但在给同学提意见时，必须动脑筋，讲究方法和技巧。需要注意的一点是，给别人提意见一定不能当着众人的面，以免使对方难堪、丢面子。