相爱没有那么容易，怎么恋爱才不分手？

 aiyigerenhenjiandan，danshixiangaimeiyouneimerongyi。jishinimen xiangaiduonian ，danshiyeyoukenengzuizhongwufazoudaoyiqi。neimejiranxiangaimeineimerongyi，zenmelianaicaibuhuiqingyifenshouni？

一、为什么相爱没有那么容易？

 xiangaiduonianjiandeqinglvlingrenyanxian，danshihenduoqinglvhaishizuizhongwufazaiyiqi，yinweilianaizhonghuiyudaohenduocuozhehewenti，suoyizuizhonghaishihuifenshou。weishenmexiangaimeineimerongyini？xiamianweidajiazongjieleyixiajidian：

1、一方变心

 yidanqinglvduguolerelianqijinrupingwenqishi，shuangfangkenengdouhuibuzaiguoyuguanzhuduifangle，shenzhikenenghuibashixianzhuanyidaoqitarenshenshang。zheizhongxianxiangzhangjiuxiaquhenyoukenengdaozhiyiduanzhangjiudelianaiguanxitubengwajie。ruguolianaiguanxibianchengleyidilian，xiangbijiaoyiqianhuijushaoliduo，yaoweichiyiqiandejiqinghuibiandegengjiajiannan。

2、无法走向婚姻

 xuduorendourenweilianaideduixianghejiehundeduixiangshibutongde。tandeshijianyuezhang，jiuyuehuiyourenjuede“zuoweilianrenxiangchuhaixing，danshilianaibijinghejiehunbuyiyang。lianaibudengyujiuxiangyaoheneigerenjiehunbaitoudaolao”。yexujiazhiguandechayihennandachenggongshi，danshixiangyaoweixinandedezheifenganqing，haishixuyaoshuangfanghuxiangtuoxiehuxianglijie。

3、自然分手

 mingmingxiangaiduonian，quezuizhongmeiyourenhejieshijiufenshoule，weimianyouxielingrenganshang。shuangfangsuirandoumeiyoumingshuo，dankeyigandaoduifangdeganqingzaimanmanbiandan，lianqingyejiujianjianchuyumingcunshiwangdebianyuanzhuangtai。

二、怎么恋爱才不会轻易分手？

1、学会给对方带来新鲜感，试着去创造一些惊喜。

 womendoushifanren，tianshengduixinshengshiwubaochizhehaoqigan，aiqingliyebuliwai，jishishilinghunbanlv，neixinyehuikewangzaiduifangshenshangfaxianxindejingshenshijie。bulunshinanshenghaishinvsheng，wojianyihaishiduoyongxiexin，shibushidehuanhuanfaxing、chuanyifengge，rangduifangyanqianyiliang，zheijiushiaiqingbaoxianji。

2、相处要用心，多给对方一些“恋爱仪式感”。

 weishenmewomendouhenhuainianrelianqi？qishiyuanyinhenjiandan，relianshilianggerenshikebaochizheweiaiqingxianshendechongdong，shenmeshidoumeiyouaiqingzhongyao。

 relianqiguohoudeganqing，bujinjinshiananwenwendeguorizi，yeyaojingchangxingdezuoyixielangmandeshi，jiduifangzaicidailaireliandeganjue，rangaiqingbuduanshengwen，nahaiyouxinsichaonaofenshou？

3、学会体谅对方，可以偶尔撒娇，但绝不要无理取闹。

 xiangaimeiyouneimerongyi，henduorencuowudeyiweiduifangzhiyaoaiziji，neijiuyinggaiwutiaojiandejieshouzijidesuoyouyaoqiu。zheizhongxiangfashihenweixiande，yinweinideyaoqiuduifangyidanyouyitiaobudaying，nijiuhuicuowudeyiweitabuainile，ranhoujiuhuiyinqizhengchaoshenzhifenshou。

 meiyigerendoukewangyongyouyichangbufenshoudelianai，congshijisuiqingdouchukaidaoershijisuikanqingaiqing，womendouzaixunzhaoyigekeyipeibandaolaoderen。danshixiangaimeineimerongyi，aiqingjihuirangrenbiandehenwusi，yehuirangrenbiandehenzisi。wusideweiduifangfuchu，zisidezhanjuduifangdesuoyou。

aiqingdetiankongshiqingshiyu，nimenyaowojinduifangdeshou，yiqikuyiqixiao，gengyaoyiqixingfu。yaoai，gengyaohuiai。