分手后如何习惯一个人生活？

 lianggerenzaiyiqishijianjiule，xiguanleyiqichifanyiqiguangjieyiqishuijue，keshiyidanfenshoule，jiuhennan xiguanyigeren shenghuo，wufazouchushiliandeyinmai。qishiyouxieshiqingxiguanjiuhao，shijianhuibangzhuniduguozheiduannanaodesuiyue。neime，fenshouhouruhexiguanyigerenshenghuoni？

一、接受分手的事实

 fenshouhouxiguanyigerenshenghuo，shouxianniyaojieshoufenshoudeshishi。buyaoqumianqiangziji，buyaoqushizhetaobixianshi，womenyaozuodeshixuezhequyongganmiandui，quchengrenfenshouzheigeshishi。womenyaorangzijimingbaifenshoubingbushishenmedabuledeshiqing，diqiushangmeilerenheyigerendouhuijixuyunzhuan，wulunjintiandenikudeyouduoshangxin，youduonanguo，mingtianzaochentaiyangyijiuhuizhaochangshengqi。yinciwomenyingdangxuezhebiandechengshuyixie，quyongganmianduiyiqieburuyi。

 womenkeyiweiyixiebeishangdeshiqingkuqi，yinweikuqibingbushinuoruodebiaoxian，xiangfandi，neishiyizhongfeichangzhijiedefaxiefangshi，danshiwomenyebukeyiyunxuzijiyiweikuqixiaqu，kuqiguohoubianyingdangxunsucaganyanlei，gaosuzijiwomenyingdangzhenzuoqilai，zheizhongjijidexintaianshishifeichangyouxiaode，tahuihenhaodibangzhuwomenqushiyingshenghuofashengdebianhua。

二、恢复曾经独立生活的状态

 congxiangliandaofenkai，zaidaodanshendezhuangtai，zheidequeshihennanrangrenjieshou，danshihenduoshiqingxiguanjiuhao。dangwomennenggouyonggandichengrenyijingfenshoudeshishibingqienenggouchangshiqujieshoudeshihou，womenyingdangxuezhequhuifucengjingdulishenghuodezhuangtai，buzaiquhuixiangcengjingyilaiyigerendeguowang。huiyiqishishiyizhongqianban，yiweidihuixiangguoqu，chenniyuhuiyizhizhong，womenbianhennanrangzijiwangjicengjingdediandi，hennanzhongxinshiqiduiaiqingdeqipan，hennanjixuwangqianyiluqianxing、buzaijuanlianzhehuitou。

 xiguanlemouzhongshenghuofangshi，jiuhennanqushiyingxindeshenghuomoshi。fenshouhoubuxiguanmeiyoutadeshenghuoshikeyilijiede，bijingcengjinggongtongshenghuoleneimejiu，yiqizuoguoxuduoyouqudeshiqing，zheixiedoubushishuolefenshoudeshunjianjiukeyichedicongwomendenaohailimodiaode，danshijiranyijingshuolefenshou，neimebianyinggaiguojueyixie，nulishuofuzijibuzaixiangqi。

三、用集体生活去抵消那种孤独感

 xiangliandeshihou，womenxiguanleshenbianyougerenzongshipeizheziji，suoyifenshouhouhuiyouyizhonggudugan。ruguoshizaijuedegududehua，neimewojuedekeyichangshiyongjitishenghuoqudixiaoneizhonggudugan，jitishenghuoxiangbiyulianaishiyizhongbuyiyangdetiyan，rongruyuyigejitizhizhong，womenhuirenshigengduoderen，jiechudeguochengzhongyehuiyougengduobucengyouguodejingli，womenhuimanmanwangjizijishiyigeren，erhuimanmanyijitiweizhongxin，quxiangshoujitishenghuo，jiuerjiuzhiyejiubuhuizaichenniyufenshoudebeishanghebuxiguanzhongle。

四、转变一下生活的重心

 ruguoshizaiyixiazibunengxiguanyigerenshenghuo，jiujinliangxuanzebuyaoqucengjingyiqiquguodedifang，buyaorangzijichujingshengqing，keyichangshiyixialaiyichangshuozoujiuzoudelvxing，qubutongdedifangkankanbutongdefengjing，rangzijidexinlingjingxialai，ganshouyixiazirandidemeiliherenwendedute。

 zheiyangwomenjiubuhuiyizaichenniyuqingqingaiaidezhemozhizhong，erhuiyougengkuanguangdexiongjinqukandaishiqing，huigengkandekaineixiewuweidejiuchan。woxiangxindangxintaiyouleyidingdegaibianshi，duiyuqingganyejiukandehendanranle。

 zhuanbianyixiashenghuodezhongxin，kandanyixiezhudingbukenengdeganqing，fangyanyuweilai，reaishenghuo，woxiangxinwomenzhongjianghuiyudaoneigezhenzhengshuyuzijideren。henduoshihoukansiwufaduguoneiduantongkudesuiyue，danshizhiyaonidiaozhenghaoxintai，xiguanjiuhao

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