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情感问题咨询：

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 xianzaiyinweizheigeshijianrengmeiyouwanquanjiejue，heqianqihaihuiyoujiechu，duiciwofeichangmeiyouanquangan，danshiyinweizijibangbushangta，yinweishijiandeyanzhongxingyebunengyaoqiutalijiwanquangeduanyuqianqidelianxi。

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 womenjiaowangjinliangnian，tajianguowodefumu，danchichimeiyoudaiwojianjiaren，yebingmeiyoumingquedeweilaideguihua。wotiguojicifenshou，tajunwanhuile。

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（tashizhenainihaishizaicouhe？）

花镇情感咨询师 冷爱回答：

 ruguoliuzaizheiduanguanxidangzhong，nizuixuyaozuodeshiqingshigaoqingchuzijijiujingxiangyaoshenme，ranhouyijieguoweidaoxiangdiqusikao，quzhixing。

 birushuo，ruguoniquedinghunyinshinixiangyaodeguishu。keshitajimeiyoudainijianguojiaren，yemeiyoumingquedeweilaiguihua，zheijiushuomingtabuxianghenijiehun，neinihetajixuzaiyiqibujiushilangfeishengmingma?

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 woshenzhikeyishuo，tadeqianqidoubinizhongyaodeduo。tadeqianqishitixiantagonglizhuyidelingwaiyigebiaoxian，jiushitabuxiangyuqianqizaiyiqi，danshiqueyaoliyongtalaijiejuewenti，zheiheyunidemoshishiyiyangde。

 taliyongni，dedaoleniyutadeguanxi，taliyongtadeqianqidedaolegongzuoshangdebangzhu。yuzheiyangyigebuzunzhongbierenderenzaiyiqimeiyouyiyi。

 nimenbushiyigeshijiederen，suoyibuyaoyinweitawanhuini，jiujuededuifangzaizhongshizheiduanguanxi，kenengtazhongshide，zhishitazijieryi。

 henjiuyiqianwocengjingkanguoyibenshu，shifuluomuxiede《aideyishu》，wojuedexiedetebiehao，qizhongyouyiduanhuawodaoxianzaihaikeyibeichulai。xianzaiwoxiangfenxiangjini，yefenxiangjiqitadeduzhe。

 dagaideyisishi——womenbunenggouyinweixuyaoyigeren，suoyiwomenaizheigeren，eryinggaishiwomenaiyigeren，suoyiwomencaixuyaozheigeren。

 nizixixiangxiang，「yinweiwoxuyaoni，suoyiwoaini」，nidenanpengyoujiushizheiyangderen。tasuoweideai，qishizhishiliyongni，er「yinweiwoaini，suoyiwoxuyaoni」zheicaishizhenzhengdeaiqing。

 aicaishizhenzhengdexuyaodeshihou，zheigexuyaobenshenbingbushiliyong，erzhishigongtongqujianliyiduanguanxi。 zheiyidiankenengyoudiannandong，dandangnizhenzhengmingbaideshihou，jiuyidinghuixingfu。