20岁没谈过恋爱的我已经不憧憬爱情了怎么办

情感问题咨询：

 buzai chongjingaiqing ，shenzhiduinanshengchongmaneyigaizenmebanni?jinnianwodaer，ershisui，meitanguoyicilianai，quetiyanguoanlianheshilian。

 woanlianguodeneigenansheng，hewoyiqikanguodianying，yiqichiguofan，yiqizuogongjiaoche，yiqizaidaxuetushuguanlikanshu，zheixiejingli，douxiangshirelianzhongdelianren，kewomenbushi。

youduanshijian，tazaiwaixuexi，womenyigelaiyuemeilianxi，woquemeitiandouzaixiangta，suoyiwoguqiyongqidadianhuagentagaobaile。

 keshitagaosuwotayounvpengyoule，tameishuoshishei，woyemeiwen。houlai，wocongwohaoyoukouzhongdezhitanvpengyouzhengshiwoyitongbantongxue，neiyike，yanleijiuxiangduanlexiandezhuzi，zhibuzhudizhuiluo。

zheishigaozhongdeshi，xianzaitiqilaiyebuguoshiyichanghuiyi，danle。

 daoledaxue，woqianhouyudaolesangenansheng，diyigeshilaoxiang，caijianlewoyicimianjiushuoyaozhuiwo，kebukexiao?wojujuele，houlaiwomeizailianxita。

 diergeyeshi，buguojianleyicimian，jiugenwoshuoxihuanwo，wobuganshuozijipiaoliang，zuiduoyejiushiduanzheng，shencaiyeshuweipang，shizaishoubuletachiluoluodemuguang，woyezhijieledangdijujueleta。

 kezheihaibusuangushijiewei，jiuzaiyigexingqizuoyou，wozaiyewandejieshangzhuangjianleta，shenbianhaiyouyiweinvxing，tamenjiaotanshenhuan，tayekanjianlewo，yanlifenmingyoucuoehejinghuang。

 youshijitianzhihoudezaochen，wozaishitangkanjiantahelingyigenvshengzaiyongcan。woduomeqingxingzijizaozaodimoshaletaduiwodexihuan，neizhendeshixihuanma?

 zuihouyigenansheng，yeshiwodezhuiqiuzhe，tajidexiangchufangshirangwojuedexiangshiyigekeyidanaohuantengdepengyou，suoyiwomenxiangchusuanrongqia。

 keshijiuzaiwojuedewokeyishizhehetajiaowangdeshihoutabawoshejiaolianxifangshishanle，ranhouhuanlebiedetouxiang，shiyizhangqinglvtouxiang，bingqietajujuelewojiahuita。

 womingbai，wobuguoshitaguangsawangzhongbeibuzhuodaoyoutouruhaidideyu。wobuchongjingaiqingle，woshenzhiduinanxingchongmaneyi，wogaizenmeban?

（20suimeitanguolianaidewoyijingbuchongjingaiqinglezenmeban？）

花镇情感咨询 冷爱 回答：

 20suihaimeiyoutanguoyicilianaideni，qingganfeichangfengfuxini，daoxianzaidouhaikenengshenghuozaiaiqingdianyinghuozheshilianxujuzhong，nidesuoyouyongcidoushiyigexiaonvshengduiyuaiqingshijiedehuanxiang。

 keshi，huanxiangwushuci，burulaidongzhengeyici，renzhendequtanyicilianai。yinweizaiganqingdeshijielimian，youhenduoshiqingnibuqujinglishiwanquanbuhuimingbaide。

 jiuxiangnishuo，nishoubuletachiluodemuguang，zhijieledangdijujueleta。yizhouyihou，nikandaotahebiedenvshengzaiyiqidechangjing。woxiangshuo，nidouyijingjujuerenjiale，nandaohaiyaoduifangweinishoushenruyuyibeizima?

 zuoweiyigedaxuesheng，bieshuoyigelibaile，yitianzhongyefashenghenduogushi，zhendedoushihenchangjiande。suoyi，jirannijujuele，jiuyaochengrenbierenyeyouxuanzedequanli。

 dangran，zheileimeiyourenzhenlaizhuini，suisuibianbianjiulaibiaobaideren，yexubenjiushibuhuaihaoyi。kenixianzaisuoxiangxiangdeneixiedongxi，lizhenzhengdexianshihaiyouhenyuan。

 nibuchongjingaiqing，shenzhiduinanxingchongmaneyi。wojuedezheilaiziyuyizhongduqi。suoyi，jizijiyigexindejihui，buyaozaiyizhiyanzheiyangdedujiaoxi。

 nitidaodesuoyou，qishidoushinicongaiqingyingshijuhuozheqitawenyizuopinlimiansuotiyandaode，suoyinicaihuiyongzheiyangwenyizuopinlimiandecihuilaixingrongzheixieyiqie。

 keshi，dangnizhendequjinglideshihou，nihuifaxian，napashidaxuelidelianaiyeyouhenduoderichangsuosui，yeyouhenduochaimiyouyandeshi，neicaishizhenshiderensheng。

zouchuzijidehuanxiang，jinruzhenshideshijie，zheijiushinizuiyinggaizuodeshi。