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矛盾开始激化，我开始微信上骂人(怕难听不敢正面和他冲突)，平时不跟他说话， 冷暴力 ，buqutafumujia，yaolihun，tajiaowoyuanliangta。woyedanxinhuishanghaihaizi。

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（laogongjiabao，wogaiweilehaizijixuyinrenma？）

回答：

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