女人在谈恋爱时的十大谎言

　　weishenmenanshengfenshoubuhuifapengyouquan，weihenanshengfenshoudeshihoubuhuizaipengyouquanshangfaxieqinggan？zheiyixianxiangjingchangyinqihaoqixin。yexushinanshengtianxingdemiantianxiangbei，tamencezhongyuchenwenherennai，bukenzaigonggongchanghezhanxianqingganmingan。youhuoxu，nanshenggengzhongshigerenxingxiangheshejiaoyali，quebaozaipengyouquanzhongbeitieshang“fenshoubuchenggong”biaoqian。wulunshinazhongyuangu，nanshengxuanzechuantongdikandaifenshoushiqing，batayanmaizaineixinshenchu，denghouzishenmanmanzhiyubingmaijinxindeweilai。

　　nanshengzaifenshouhoutongchangxuanzemeiyouzaipengyouquanshangfaxieqinggan，zheiyixianxiangyinqilehenduocaixianghehaoqi。suiranwufayigaierlun，dannengbutongjiaoduqulijienanshengweishenmezheimexuanze。rangwomenyiqishenrutanjiuyuangu。

　　1. 腼腆和沉稳

　　weishenmenanshengfenshoubuhuifapengyouquan，nanshengguangfanyouyizhongmiantianheneiliandexinggetexing，tamencezhongyubaqingganyanmaizaineixinshenchu。fenshouzhenduinanshengeryanshiyizhongshanghaiyucuozhe，dantamenwangwanggengpianzhongyujingjingdijiejue，bukenzaigongkaifabupengyouquanshangliuluzishenxinlingshenchudetongkuhebeiju。tamenkenenghuijuedezheishiyizhongbaohuhaozijixingxiangsimidefangfa，tongshiyeshiyizhongziwoliaoyudexingshi。

　　2. 社交压力和个人形象

　　dangjinshehuizhenduixingxiangqizhiheshejiaoyalideguanzhuduxianeryijian。nanshengkenenghuidanxinzaipengyouquangongkaixuanbufenshouyehuidaozhitamenbeitieshang“fenshoubuchenggong”biaoqian，jineryingxiangzijishejiaomeitiyingxianglixingxiang。tamenyexuqidaibaochiziwojijizhudong、yangguangpinpaixingxiang，buxiangrangjiqitarenguoduojiyutaolunhepingding。yiner，xuanzechuantongdikandaifenshoushiqing，meiyouzaipengyouquanshangdasixuanchuan，nenggoujianshaobubiyaodeyalinankan。

　　3. 尊重和追忆

　　nanshengzaifenshouhoutongchanggengjiazhongshizhenduishiguangdezunzhongyuzhuiyi。tamenxiangyaoweihucengjingdeaiqinghehuiyi，bukengenjupengyouquandegongkaixuanbulaisunhaibicizhijian。zhongshicongqiandeaiqing，doushinanshengzhenduiganqingtaiduhezerenxindefanying。erkeyijiangfenshoushiqingyanmaizaineixinshenchu，nanshengkeyigenghaodetuoshanchuzhiziyideqinggan，bingjiduifanggengduozunzhongyusimikongjian。

　　4. 私人的沟通方式

　　yunvhaiduibi，nanshenggengpianzhongyuxuanzegengsimidefangshiquqingtuheqiuanwei。tamenyexugengqingxiangyuyuyaohaodepengyouhuozhejiarenmianduimiandigoutongjiaoliu，huoxuanzesirendeshejiaoruanjianjinxingjiaoliu。zhenduinanshenglaijiang，zheileisirendegoutongfangshiyenengrangtamenhuodezhenzhenzhengzhengdelijiehezhichi，bingbimianlebierendechuaimoheganrao。

　　weishenmenanshengfenshoubuhuifapengyouquan，zuizhong，zhideyitideshi，zheixieguandianbingbushiyongyuquanbunansheng，dajiazaijiejuefenshoudefangshishangdouyouzhezijidexuanzehecankaobiaozhun。youyixienanshenghenyoukenengxuanzezaipengyouquanshangfaxieqinggan，eryoudezehenyoukenengxuanzedidiaoxingshi。zhongshimeiyigerenxuanzehechulifangfa，bulunnannv，shiwomenxuyaozuodaode。