男友有许多恶习，设立奖惩系统能帮他改正

　　danglaogongchuguizheigexianshibeijiekaishi，benlaiwanzhengdejiazhongjilvhongrandaota，qizidexinrenchengweipaoying。panbiandetongkurangtajuedenanyichengshou，bingqieduihunyindezixinyoubeichedicuihui。tajinbuzhuwenyixiaziji，cengjingdechengnuoqizhiyichangkonghua？liekaidefuqiguanxihebeishanghaideqingxu，rangqizhujianzhongxinsikaohunyindeshizhi。yingduifeichangdadetongkuhejiannandexuanze，tayinggairuhebaituokunjing，fujianziyiderenshengyujiatingni？

　　叛变的痛苦

　　jiazhongshixuduorenqingganyuxingfukuailedexinlingdegangwan，danshi，danglaogongchuguizheiyihuihuaixingdemimibeijiekaishi，qizineixindeshijiechedibengkui。panbiandetongkurujiandaochuopotayouxiaodexinling，wushubumiandeyewan，tadouyijingbeitongkuyuxinhanlachedezhanzhuannanmian。

　　信任的粉碎

　　xinrenshiweichihunyindeqiaoliang，danshi，laogongchuguideshishiquebaxinrenwanquanposui。cengjingdeshiyanhefuwuchengnuo，zaipanbianyinyingxiayuelaiyuebujinrenyi，qizijuedezijibeiyiqizaibinglengdeshijidangzhong。caiyihehuaiyijinbuzhufuxianzaiyanqian，tajiukaishisikaodangshideganqingshibushizhishiyichangcuojue。

　　挣脱与迟疑

　　danglaogongchuguideshishibaifangzaitademianqian，qizixianrushenshendizhengtuohejiujiedangzhong。tazhiyizijishifougaikuanrong，shifounengzaicigoujianqixinren。yucitongshi，neixinshenchudeshiwanghesunhaishitaduihunyinxingchenglehuaiyi，shibushihaifeichangzhidezaicijianchidaodi。

　　复建美好生活

　　hunyindeliekairangqipobudeyizaicizhongxinjianlirichangshenghuo。tajianjiangaoqingchu，jinyouwangjiguoquzaochengdeshanghai，caikeyizhaodaoxindeziwohemeihao。genjuxunzhaoxinlishangdehuliheshiyong，qizimanmantachushangtong，xuehuimianduihekuanrong。tacongxinzhaodaoshenghuodekuaile，bingxunsujizijiyuhaizimengoujianqiyigequanxindejianglai。

　　婚姻的提升

　　laogongchuguizheiyitongkudezaoyurangqiziduihunyinyongyoushenkederenshi。tadonglehunyinbujinjinshilianggerenfuwuchengnuo，ershiyaobicizhijiandebaorongyuqinfenlaijingyingdebaoguicaiyun。yushijuedingzhongxinsikaohunyindejishi，yuzhangfuyitongmianduiguoqucuowu，zaicigoujianqixinrenhejiaoliu，ranghunyinmaixianggengweiwenguhexiangduiwendingdelugui。

　　自我提升

　　laogongchuguidetongkuqinshenjinglirangqizimanmanrenshidaozijidejiazhiyunengliang。tabuhuijiangxingfukuailejituozaitaren，fanershixuehuizilibingzhuixunxinzhongdemengxiang。cuozhemolianchutajianrendepinge，tajiukaishizhongxinrenshiziji，fajueqianli，chengweiyigegengyouzixinhelizudenvxingpengyou。

　　人生的思考

　　laogongchuguidezaoyurangqiziduirenshengyoulegengjiashensuidesisuo。tadonglexingfukuailebingbushiwanquanyilaiyuhunyin，ershiyaocongwoneixindepinghebingmanzuzhongxunzhao。tajiukaishizhongxindiaozhengziyiderenshengzongtimubiao，zhongshineixinshenchudechengzhangyuziwojiazhi，jinerguozhegengjiafengfuheyoujiazhiderensheng。

　　laogongchuguiyoukenengshihunyinzhongzuirangrentongkudechongjizhiyi，danshi，congyinmaizhongtengfeideqizijiangjingguonulihexinxin，zaicichuifuziyidefuqian，shiwangyuelaiyuemeihaoderensheng。