情感咨询：婚后夫妻之间总是有摩擦怎么处理

 youqingganzixundao：“hunhoufuqizhijianzongshiyoumocazenmechuli？”hunhouyinweishenghuosuosuixiaoshi，fuqizhijianhenyoukenengyinweichulifangshiheguanniandewenti，yinfadadaxiaoxiaodemaodun。huazhenqingganzaibenwenfenxiangyigeqinggananli，jiaoniruhechulizheileiqingganwenti。

一、情感咨询

 zhoumodailiangsuiwahuiniangjia，haiziyinweizaijiamenkougenxiaohuobanwanshua，shuaijiaodaozhixigaicashang。wozhiqing，meifangzaixinshang，yinweishizhengchangshuai，erqiewaigongdaiquxileshou，haiziyemeiku。

 houmianhuijialaogongcaifaxiancashang，xiaoxiaojidianpopi，bingweiliuxue，yinweicishizheiliangtianshayoujieshidifanfushuolejibian，juedewoyinggaizaishenbiandingzhe。woshaozuojieshi，haixiongwo。

 wojianyitaruguobufangxinkeyiyiqiqu，zheiyanghuiguibizheixiewenti，buranjiubuyaoyizhiniantaowo，bushufu。taqueshuowotuixiezeren，suoyijuedeliaobudaoyikuai，wosuoxingbashipinguale，ganghaohaizizai，yebuxiangchezhesangmenrangrang。

 qishi，pingshitamendaiwayougeshenmezhuangkuang，wobuhuizheiyangshuotamen，danlaogongquechangyinxiaoshiergenwojiaojinger，juedewomeiyouanquanyishi。

 (kenengwomenchengzhanghuanjingbuyiyang。yinweiwoxiaoshihoumeiyoutaiduodarenbihu，daochulang，bijiaocuxiantiao。fanguantamenjiashishuyufeichangjinshenxingde，youdianguodubaohudeneizhongganjue，rangwoyouxiebushiyingjipaichi。)

xinliganshou：beizhize，ganjueshibeifouding，xinlitebiebushufu

dangshifanying：yinu，zhejishanghuo，youxiangyizhizhunuhuo，zhongtushengqiguashipin。

suqiu：shangbanshijianwomenyidi，haizigenlaogongjijiarenzailaojia。

rutushiguadiaoshipinwodewenzibiaoshu，tabingweihuifu，houshipinmeizaijiezheigehuachawen：

1.zheiyangbiaodahenyougongjixingma？

2.ruheranglaogongduoxiejiena？

3.yijixiuzhengzijideminganjibubeirentonggan？

二、情感解答

wofensangecengcijinifenxi：

diyigecengci，nanrenxuyaozunzhong，nvrenxuyaoai。

zheibingbushizaishuonanrenbuxuyaoai，nvrenbuxuyaozunzhong。ershishuodajiadouxuyao，zhishimeigerendepaixubutong。

 congzheigeweidulaishuo，nanrenduiyuzunzhongdexuyaoshifeichangqiangliede。tamentongchangdouhuibazunzhongpaizaidiyiwei，ernigenbenmeiyoulijiedaozheidian。

suoyi，nibudongdenilaogongshayoujieshibazheijianshishuolejibiandehexin。

 niyiweishiyinweixiaohaicashang，qishibushi。shizainihuiniangjiadeshihoutaqishiduinicunzaile「kanzhexiaohai」deyaoqiu，tarenweiniyinggaikanzhehaizi。

dannisuoweidenizhiqing，qishibingmeifangzaixinshang，jiushinimeiyoukanzhe。

 shuobaile，jiushitaduiyuniyouyigeyaoqiu，dannimeiyouzunzhongtadeyaoqiu；huozhetongsuyidianjiang，nibatadehuadangerbianfeng，neitadangranjuedebubeizunzhong，suoyitahuiyouzheiyangdefennu。

diergecengci，zhinanliaotianshuzhongzuizhongyaodeyidianshixuehuichengjie，erbushibianjie。

 dangduifanggennitanhaizideshiqingshi，niyaolijieyidian，nimendechufadianshiyiyangde，dajiadouxiwanghaiziyouyigehaoderensheng。 qinggannantihenxinlei？10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan！

 suoyi，nizailiaotianhegoutongdeshihou，shouxianyaochengjiedaoduifangduihaizideguanxin，erbushijinjinbazheixiekanzuoshizhizezheimejiandan。

dangran，duifangzhizenikendingshitabudui，niyouzijidebianjieyemeiwenti。

 zhishibianjiebunenggoujiejuechongtu，zhiyouchengjiezhuduifangdeqingxu，lijieleduifangdeqingxu，birutadefennu，tadedanxin，tadejiaolv，caiyoukenengzhankailianghaodegoutong。

disangecengci，renheyigexindejiating，douyaojianliyigexindekuangjiahexindewenhua。

 qishinizijiyeyishidaolenimenyuanbenjiatingwenhuadechayi，nishizaiyigemeiyoudarenbihu、cuxiantiaodejiatingwenhuazhongzhangda，ertashengzhangyufeichangjinshendejiatingwenhua。

keshi，niquezhijiebatajiade“jinshenwenhua”dingyiweiguodubaohu，zhijiejibierendewenhuadashangleyigebiaoqian。

niyaojizhu，wenhuabenshenshimeiyouduicuode，wenhuashibunengyonglaipingpande。

dangnijiduifangtieyige“guodubaohu”debiaoqianshi，nijiurenweitashicuode，nishiduidele。

erfanguolaijiang，tayehuirenweitashiduide，nishicuode，neizheigeshihou，lianggerendefenqiyongyuanbuhuiyoujieguo。

meiyigejiatingdouyouzhebutongdejiatingwenhua，eryigexinde、haodejiatingguanxiyidinghuichuangzaozijixindejiatingwenhua。

 ruguoshuonishibaide，tashiheide，neinimenxindejiatingwenhuahehexiewenhuayidingshihuide，huozhegenghaodeqingkuangxia，yexushicaisede。

 dazhanghuozhezhanzheng，nishuwoying，zaiyigexinjiatinglibukenengyouhaojieguo。yidingshiwoshouyanhe，gongtongchuangzaoyigexindewenhua，lianggerencainengzhangjiu。

biruguanyuhaizidewenti，nimenkeyizhidingyigeguize：

zaishenmeyangdeqingkuangxia，yinggaizenmequkanguanhaizi？

tasuoyaodeguanxinshizenyangdeguanxin？

nisuonengzuodaodeshizenyangdeweidu？

tongguojiatinghuiyibaguizetaolunqingchu，ranhouchanshengxindewenhua。

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