情感咨询：男友的同事朋友家人都比我重要……

 you dao：“nanpengyouhenzhongyiqi，ganjuenanyoudetongshipengyoujiarendoubiwozhongyao，xinlihenbushiziweizenmeban？”huazhenqingganzaibenwenfenxiangyigeqinggananli，jiaoniruhechulizheileiwenti。

一、情感咨询

wozaishanghaigongzuo。nanpengyouzaibeijingduyan，tongshihehehuorenkailejiagongsi，pingshiyewufanmang，hennanjianmian。

 wohewomengongtongdepengyoumenqubeijingzhaotawan，wanshangyiqiwandaohenwan，xiangrangtasongwohuijiudian，dandajialiaodehenkaixin，woyizhimeijihuidanduhetashuohua，zhidaotadachehetongluderenyiqizou。wogentashuoguowoyanweiguomin，tadayingwobuchouyan，woshuowokanbujiandeshihoutakeyisuiyi。dantazheicidangzhewodemianchouyan，woshenzhiqiangdiaoletashoulideyan，tahaixiangchou。

 houlaiwogentaliao，tashuobujiushilianggenyanma，yihoubuchoujiushile。woyaolikaibeijingdeshihou，tadayinghuisongwo，houlaigongsilinshiyoushi，tashuobunengsongwole。wobiaoshilijie。wanshanghangbanyanwudaohenwan，woxiangtadegongsishiwuchuliwanhouhuibuhuixiangyaozailaisongwoyixia (gongsilijichangbuyuan)xiangxiangeryisuanleba。sihutadexiongdi、pengyou、gongsi、hehuorendoubiwozhongyao。

 tashigezhongganqingderen，hetaxiangchushijianyuejiuderentahuiyuezhongshi。xianzaizaiyiqiyigeyue，shitabutaihuizhaogurenhaishiwotaijiaoqingle？

二、情感解答

 daduoshuqingkuangxia，lianggerengangzaiyiqiyigeyuedeshihou，zhengshizheiduanganqingde“miyueqi”，henduonanhaizizaizheiqijiandouhuibiaoxiandegezhongyizhenvhaizi，xiangbizhixia，ninanyoudetaiduqueshiyoudianguoyulengmo。

 yiqichuquwanquemeiyoujihuidandushuohua，jieshuhoutayebuzhudongsongnihuijia——qimazaibiaoxianchulaidebufen，taduinidetaidubujiji；

 mingzhiniyanweiguomin，dayingguohouhaihuizainimianqian“fanji”——tabuzaihuzainimianqianzijishifoushizhengmianshounuodexingxiang，yebutaigujinideganshou；

 hangbanyanwuyebusongni，tadexiongdi、pengyou、gongsi、hehuorendoubinizhongyao——zheiyidianxiangxinniyinggaiyechajuedaole，taduiniquefabaohuyu，niduitameiyouneimezhongyao。

虽然这些话说出来可能有些残酷，但我相信身在一段不被珍惜的感情中，勇敢面对现实更为重要。他对你的冷落其实并非他所说的“重感情”、“相处越久越重视”的问题，而是他也许对你根本没有什么爱意。