夫妻吵架正确的打开方式

　　zaiqingganshangdejiaodiezhong，buchaojiafenshouchengweileyizhongxiangduigaoduwanshandechulifangfa。tachuandichuyifenbaoronghelijie，shirenmenmingbailerongqiadishenzhanganqing，zaifenshoushiyirannenggoujianchibuxiezunzhongheyouhao。buchaojiafenshoubudanbaohulebicizhijiandezizun，gengbimianlemaodundejudaebian，cushirenmenyiyizhongjijidetaidubaituobicizhijianshengming。zheiyijijierwanshandexintai，zhanxianleqingganshangdefazhan、lianaidemeihaojiqirenyurendezhongshihebaorong。

　　柔和交错，避开争吵

　　qingganshangdeenyuanzhong，buchaojiafenshouchengweileyizhongwanshandechulifangfa，tachuandichuyifenbaoronghelijie，shirenmenmingbailerongqiadishenzhanganqing，zaifenshoushiyirannenggoujianchibuxiezunzhongheyouhao。

　　痊愈矛盾，维护保养自尊

　　dangliangrenmianlinfenshoudejuedingshi，zhengzhitongchangzhihuijiazhongmaodunxintai，yinqiyanyudesunhai。erxuanzelebuchaojiafenshouzejiyubicigengduozizunxinhezunyan。zaixianghuzhijiandechengzhangyulijiezhong，shuangfangdongdeyonglixingdebiaodayouyihedexintai，chulimaodunhemaodun，eryouzizunxindefangfajieshuzheiyiduanganqing。

　　理智评定，相拥摆脱

　　zaibuchaojiafenshoudeguochengdangzhong，bicibixulizhidipingdingzheiyiduanganqingdezhenshizhuangtai。xuehuifangxiazhengchaohexintai，yonglixingdeyanguangkandainanti，nenggougengyouxiaodiyishidaotamenzhijiankenengchuxiandeyouwentihemaodun，nenggougenghaodigaoqingchufenshoushiliangrenbaituodebuerzhixuan。

　　包容接受，向往和平

　　buchaojiafenshouyibaoronghejieshouweidaoxiang。bicidongdefangxiacongqiandeenyuanhezenghen，yonglejiedeyanguangkandailingyifang，jienabicizhijiandechayihequedian。genjuxiangwanghepinglaijieshuganqingbingweichiyouhaodexintai，jinliangjianshaosunhai，naizhibaoliuyifenzhenguideyouqing。

　　理性互利共赢，防止恶循环

　　tiaoxuanbuchaojiafenshou，daibiaozhebicixuehuifangxiajingongbaoyuanhe，yilixinggengjiachengshudefangshijiejuefenshouzhongxuyaozhuyidewenti。zheiyangdejuedingnenggoubimianxintaideexingxunhuan，bimianjinyibushanghaihuihuai，weishuangfangpuxiayigexiangduiyouyideqianxinglumian。

　　聆听要求，为从头开始留有很有可能

　　buchaojiafenshoudeguochengdangzhong，bicibijiaorongyilingtingduifangdexuqiuhetihui。genjutanchengdigoutongyushencengcidejiaoliu，bicikeyigenghaodequelibicizhijiandeqidaiheweilaidefazhanqushi。zheizhongjihuiyouliyuweicongtoukaishihuogoujianxinderenjijiaowangliuyouhenyoukeneng。

　　成长经验，探索更强将来

　　jieshuyiduanganqingbudandanshijieshu，gengshiyicichengzhangdejingli。genjubuchaojiafenshou，shuangfangkeyishencengcifanshengzijizaiganqingzhongderenwuhebiaoda，xiqujiaoxun，nenggougenghaodiwanshanziji，zhengtiguihuagengmeihaodeweilai。neiyangdechengzhangjingliyeyerangwomenzouxiangchengshuwanqiang。

　　友情长存，珍惜对方存有

　　buchaojiafenshoudejuecedaibiaozheyizhongaixiyuzunzhong，bujinbaoliuleziyidezizun，doubuhuicuihuibicizhijianzhijiandeganqingjiben。suiranguanliandefangshichuxianlegaibian，danyouqingyijiukeyicunyou，bianchengduifangzairenshengdangzhongyiduanbaoguizhuiyi，dailaibicizhijianwujinwenxinyuzhichi。

　　buchaojiafenshou，yibaorong、lixingheyouhaodefangfajieshuganqing，jishiyizhongneixinshenchudefaxie，yeshiyizhongbicizhijianzizunxindezhongshi。zaiqianbianwanhuaganqingshijieli，zheiyangdexuanzezhangxianlebicizouxiangchengshuyouzhihuideyimian，weijinhoudecongtoukaishipuxiagengweipingjingdejiben。