男友跟家人关系亲密对我不公平怎么办

　　fuhehouzaicifenshoudegailvjiushizhi2geyiqianfenshou，queyouzaidufuhederenzuizhongdouhuizaidufenshoudekenengxing。zheiyigailvshouzhuduoyinsuzhijieyingxiang，zhishiyicifenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin、duilishiwentijiejueshuiping、gerentishenghegaibiandeng。youyixielianrenkeyidongdecongguoqudecuowuzhongjiqujiaoxun，tongguogoutonghetuoxiechuangjiangengjiajiankangguanxi，jianshaozaidufenshoudekenengxing。danshi，youshifenshouzhihoudelianaiwentihenyoukenengjiejuebule，bicihenyoukenengyicuozaicuo，zaochengzaidufenshoudegailvzengjia。fuhehouzaicifenshoudegailvzaiyubicidejuexinheqinfen，jiqinengbunengjiejuehaoyiqiandenanti，zhenxinchengyiheduifangyiqichengzhang，yicichuangjianyiduanlaogudeaiqing。

　　复合的希望和潜在性风险

　　fuhehouzaicifenshoudegailv，jiushizhiyiqianfenshoudexiaoqinglvzaizaiduzoudaoyiqihou，zuihoushifounengbaochiwendingdeguanxi，huoshihuibuhuizaidufenshoudekenengxing。suiranfuhejibiciqidai，danyecunzaiyidingdeqianzaixingfengxian。

　　重回过去的阴影

　　fuhehoudeqinglvmenyibanhuizhongxinmianduiyiqianzaochengfenshouwenti，bulunshigoutongbudaowei、bicijiandemaodunhaishiqitayiyi。gezhongwentixiangdangyuzaiguanxizhonggouchengleheiying，dangzaiduzoudaoyiqishi，zheizhongheiyinghenyoukenengzaiduzaochengyingxiang，zaochenglianrennanyibaituoyiwangdejiongjing。

　　huozaiguoqudejiyizhong，kenengrangsuoyourenbiandeminganerfangbei，haipaquanshenxintouru。zheiyangdexintaiyalihuiyanzhongyingxiangxiufuaiqingdeqinfen，cushifenshoudegailvzengjia。

　　个人提升与变化

　　fuhehoudexiaoqinglvxuyaojingguogerentishenghebianhuadeguocheng。dajiazaifenshouzhihoukeyifazhanchengweizuihaodeziji，danzheibingbudaibiaolianggerenchengzhanglichenghuiwanquanyizhi。youshi，gerentishengdechabiekenengzaochengzaiguanxilidemaodunhebuhemuzengjia，jinerzengjiafenshoudekenengxing。

　　来龙去脉的改变

　　fenshouzhihoudefuheyaomianduilailongqumaidegaibian。yiqiandeshangtong、meiyouxinrenyutongkuyoukenengchengweifuhehouguanxilideanquanyinhuan。zheizhongqingganshangdechixukenengzaochengzaidufenshoudexingcheng，xuyaoshuangfanggongtongfendouquhuajieguoqudeyinying。

　　chucizhiwai，shuangfangjiufuhezhihoudeqixugongzuoyaliyeshiyaomianduidetiaozhan。fuheyoushihouhuibeishiwei“zuihoudexiwang”，dantaigaodeqiwanghegongzuoyalikenengzengjiaguanxidebuquedingxing，shenzhizaochengzaidufenshou。

　　更改与沟通的意义

　　zaifuhehou，bicibixufuchugengduodenulilaidiaojiezhiqiandefangshi，bingjiaqianggoutongjiaoliu。tanchengdimianduikunnan，tanxungongtongjiejuedefangfashiguanxipingwendezhongyaoqianti。ruguolianggerenmeifabicizhijianlingting、baorongyulijie，neiyangfenshoudekenengxingkenengzengjia。

　　重建信任与坚固基本的建设

　　fenshouhuixueruohuopohuaibicizhijiandexianghuxinrenjiben，yinerfuhehoubixutongguozhongjianxinren，dajiangenglaogudeganqingdejichu。zheixuyaoshuangfangzhenxinchengyifansiguoqu，yonggandequmianduinanti，bingfuzhuxingdonglaibaochiheqianghuaxinlai。ruobunenghenhaodichuangjianlaogudejichu，zaidufenshoudegailvkenengzengjia。

　　结束语

　　fuhehouzaicifenshoudegailvjishouzhiyuyiwangchanshengdenanti，yequjueyubicizhijiandezhuanbian、chengzhangyuqinfen。genjulejiefengxianxingbinggongtongfendouchuliwenti，yiduiqinglvnenggouzengjiaweichiguanxidechengjiugailv。danshi，ruguobunengkefutiaozhanhetiaozhan，fenshourengranshiyigekenengxingdejielun。yiner，zaifuhehou，bixujinshenduidaizheileigailv，bingweilenenggenghaodemingtiangongtongfendou。